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I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Mizormac: 6:50am On Mar 27, 2020
Ever since I was a kid in primary school. My teachers told me I was intelligent I was a smart kid in class but my result always proved negative I was termed as an average kid. Throughout my secondary school my result was bang average. I do feel remorse for my school result but my parents do cheer me up. I entered university to study Microbiology. First semester I had two carryovers. My Cgpa was 2.4 I was told to work harder by my parent. Second semester I did work harder but I had nothing to show for it I had 2 carryovers my Cgpa was low I was so depressed . my parent cheered me up and told me to Work harder they were always there for me. This semester I told my self I would make them proud. I started reading harder than I ever did in my entire life. Result for this semester just came out I had 7 carryovers. I was so shocked I received the shock of my miserable life I'm planning on committing suicide because I feel like a disappointment to my family right now. I can't even show them my result.

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Nobody: 6:52am On Mar 27, 2020
If you feel like committing suicide, that's your choice bro,


I feel like dancing for the second chance God has given to me.

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Mizormac: 6:58am On Mar 27, 2020
Erediauwa:
If you feel like committing suicide, that's your choice bro,


I feel like dancing for the second chance God has given to me.
What second chance

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Stephenomozzy(m): 7:00am On Mar 27, 2020
Mizormac:
What second chance

Being Alive is a gift to try again.

It's not being fair to yourself when your heart is willing to study but you also are just giving up so easily. It can be disheartening to see your efforts not yielding fruits... But it's more disheartening when you judge your future potentials by the current mishaps.

1. You said others have referred to you as being smart and intelligent.... But it seems only others believe that.. As you've termed yourself as average.

2. This course you're studying.. Is it something you are passionate about.. Asin something you really have a flair for or wanted to study or are you studying it out of popular demands?

3. What have you discovered are your weakness in these courses?

4. If you have an option to do something different, will you try something else or give up entirely

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by psucc(m): 7:01am On Mar 27, 2020
You can do better. Suicide is NEVER an option among the challenges of life.

Now apply this.

Get past questions from your senior colleagues.

Study, don't just read. keep an extra exercise book. try to explain whatever you read in your own way, i.e. break it down to the most simplest practically, thus you will remember the practical if you forget what you read.

Do not be anxious. Take it easy. You will surely have a story to tell.

Remember to tell it to JESUS, He surely will help you.

Please we need you! #StayAlive #FaceUrChallenge #KeepClose2God #No2Suicide

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Yustash001(m): 7:04am On Mar 27, 2020
Something is wrong somewhere else.. You need to check yourself
Maybe you are the type that doesn't read until and exams are near
Maybe you spend most of your time on social life
Maybe.........
Maybe.......

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Mizormac: 7:09am On Mar 27, 2020
Yustash001:
Something is wrong somewhere else.. You need to check yourself
Maybe you are the type that doesn't read until and exams are near
Maybe you spend most of your time on social life
Maybe.........
Maybe.......

no not all. I'm even antisocial
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by OdefaGirl(f): 7:09am On Mar 27, 2020
This life is not about a particular thing.... it's not all about your studies, so why take your own life?
You might be a genius in other areas of life...so there's no need to kill yourself because of your studies.
Do you study on your own or do people teach you?
When I was in school, one of my friends will study and study....in the mid night, and noon... I will be like...wow
But before the exam(s) you will see her fidgeting cz she's not sure anymore. I will ask her questions to prepare her but she will be mixing them up...why?
She waits till timetable comes out before stuffing those things up there, that's not my style.
Do you have a genius in your class? Bring yourself down and let the person impact you just as he/she understood them.
Personalize your studies, use things around you to do your studies.
And perhaps, you are studying the wrong course... God bless you.

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Michelle55: 7:12am On Mar 27, 2020
You have no right to take your life... Why are you even thinking of taking your life when you've got the most amazing parents who dotes on you even at your worse?
Simply shows how mean and selfish you are, everyone you've come in contact with loves and care for you despite your flaws and the best way you think you can pay them back for the encouragement, love etc is by committing suicide..
Have you actually thought of how your parents will feel or the agonizing moments you will put them through if you commit suicide?
Not everyone is fortunate as you yet they turned out successful and great despite all odds.
Be grateful for life given to you, look out for the things you are doing wrongly when it comes your academics and work towards being a better person.

You'll be alright.. Suicide is never an option!!

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Ogabson: 7:12am On Mar 27, 2020
That's unfortunate. My advice is to spend time not just reading but discovering yourself.
The pandemic just gave you a month to do that. There is always what works for everyone but most people hardly find out.

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Garrieveryday: 7:15am On Mar 27, 2020
Bro, hold your side o. No reason any suicide o.

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Nobody: 7:16am On Mar 27, 2020
ReAd smart not just hard... Look 4 reading hacks on YouTube. Personally i would advice that you always read the course work b4 going to any lectures. That way ure proactive in class instead of chasing the lectures after they have been taught... Also try to test ur IQ... If ure not retarded or below 110 then I believe u are not pulling weight
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by codedlee(m): 7:25am On Mar 27, 2020
Bros. If I tell u my story. U will not type suicide again. I was a working dead. I thought about so many things from a boss to servant. Suicide kept calling and pushing. But see me. I close eyes survive life. Close your eyes and face those challenges. Do your best. I no go skool

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by bigiyaro(m): 7:32am On Mar 27, 2020
OP, school is not for everyone, maybe that's not your thing, once you can read and write perfectly, just do what you love most, you will be OK, that's why you see Dr Paul enenche of Dunamis church is a preacher, most people will kill and cheat to read medicine in school cos they tot being a doctor will make them rich, but end up going on strike always, don't be deceived with this school thing, its a scam, it guarantees nothing....in any case, if you still feel like dying, just close your mouth and nose with your hands and hold tight, if you let go to breath, that means you really don't want to die. so cheer up, stomach is not meant for only food.

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by idari: 7:37am On Mar 27, 2020
Try and be reading past questions to know how questions are being set,secondly try and relax your mind during exams to avoid being tensed and don't put too much pressure on yourself

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Nobody: 7:48am On Mar 27, 2020
You being reading and trying so hard to make your parents and relations proud since daycare days but all to no avail Seriously and Honestly no hard feelings you're a disgrace to this community embarassed
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Jokerman(m): 7:53am On Mar 27, 2020
Lolssss

What if you are studying

Medicine
Engineering
Mathematics & Physics

Wa ti ku ti pé? grin

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Nobody: 8:15am On Mar 27, 2020
What about those that never had the chance to be at school? What of the orphans with no parents or family? Must you be a microbiologist to be successful in life? Find what you good at and leave that microbiology thing. What school are yoh btw?
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Nobody: 8:16am On Mar 27, 2020
Mizormac:
Ever since I was a kid in primary school. My teachers told me I was intelligent I was a smart kid in class but my result always proved negative I was termed as an average kid. Throughout my secondary school my result was bang average. I do feel remorse for my school result but my parents do cheer me up. I entered university to study Microbiology. First semester I had two carryovers. My Cgpa was 2.4 I was told to work harder by my parent. Second semester I did work harder but I had nothing to show for it I had 2 carryovers my Cgpa was low I was so depressed . my parent cheered me up and told me to Work harder they were always there for me. This semester I told my self I would make them proud. I started reading harder than I ever did in my entire life. Result for this semester just came out I had 7 carryovers. I was so shocked I received the shock of my miserable life I'm planning on committing suicide because I feel like a disappointment to my family right now. I can't even show them my result.
This is almost thesame thing that happened to me too buh just with a slight difference. In 100-200 level I always fail 1 course in every semester with 2. CGPA not until 300L I saw my downfall with over 5 COs and this really affected me and mar me from graduating. To think I wasted 4years in the university without a result to show really troubled me and till date I'm still at home hoping for a better turnout of things someday. I applied 4 jamb this year and to God b the glory scored above 200 praying fervently UniAbuja offers me admission cos I honestly can't bear the brunt of wasting another year at home haven wasted 7yrs already with nothing to show 4 it.

What I'm trying to advice u on is to take next year's JAMB, apply another course in another school (thats what i should have done) i wouldn't be at home nw. if the burden is too much for u to carry on with instead of struggling and struggling only to spend extra 1-2years or not even graduating at all eventually. If I had thought about this earlier enough or find someone that would have told me to do this I would have been in 300-400 level in another school now hence, wouldn't have regret so bad. Pls don't think of suicide is not the way out. Just dust urself and act fast the lord is ur strength.

As a matter of fact, I contemplated suicide too but I find out it wasn't the best thing to do besides those that encounter one challenge or another in their stages of life end up becoming great in their future endeavours. Think about it!

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Nobody: 8:20am On Mar 27, 2020
Mizormac:
Ever since I was a kid in primary school. My teachers told me I was intelligent I was a smart kid in class but my result always proved negative I was termed as an average kid. Throughout my secondary school my result was bang average. I do feel remorse for my school result but my parents do cheer me up. I entered university to study Microbiology. First semester I had two carryovers. My Cgpa was 2.4 I was told to work harder by my parent. Second semester I did work harder but I had nothing to show for it I had 2 carryovers my Cgpa was low I was so depressed . my parent cheered me up and told me to Work harder they were always there for me. This semester I told my self I would make them proud. I started reading harder than I ever did in my entire life. Result for this semester just came out I had 7 carryovers. I was so shocked I received the shock of my miserable life I'm planning on committing suicide because I feel like a disappointment to my family right now. I can't even show them my result.
CALM DOWN, MAN.
U must first understand yourself.
FIRST, what's your carrying capacity..?
What courses do you frequently have issues with..?
Do you always adopt same approach each time you encounter them...?
There are several ways people study.
Some people study the wrong things at the wrong time.
Who are your FRIENDS..?
They may be GOOD, but are they your course mates..? Or different courses entirely..?
MY STORY 4U:
when I was a student back then, a fresher came to me, asking me to assist her in writing her semester exams.
She told me each time she read, she never understood, which rendered her incompetent during exams.
So, while still in my apartment, I gave her a ROMANTIC MAGAZINE to read through, meanwhile she never knew my intentions.
Could you believe that she read an interesting article/topic from it and explained everything to me without reading from the magazine directly.
Lo and behold, that was when I caught her attention and explained to her that she was never interested in studying her books.
I told her she lacked INTEREST.
Imagine if her books were ROMANTIC TEXTBOOKS, she could have emerged TOP in her class.


Check your INTEREST LEVEL as well.
Do you Love your course of study...?
Give more time to courses that give you issues.

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by bogdaddy(m): 8:29am On Mar 27, 2020
No let your parent lose in two places, your school fees don go already. Abeg no let them come still lose you join. Aunty or broda anyone wey you be just try get high to think next thing to do death no Dey among
Mizormac:
Ever since I was a kid in primary school. My teachers told me I was intelligent I was a smart kid in class but my result always proved negative I was termed as an average kid. Throughout my secondary school my result was bang average. I do feel remorse for my school result but my parents do cheer me up. I entered university to study Microbiology. First semester I had two carryovers. My Cgpa was 2.4 I was told to work harder by my parent. Second semester I did work harder but I had nothing to show for it I had 2 carryovers my Cgpa was low I was so depressed . my parent cheered me up and told me to Work harder they were always there for me. This semester I told my self I would make them proud. I started reading harder than I ever did in my entire life. Result for this semester just came out I had 7 carryovers. I was so shocked I received the shock of my miserable life I'm planning on committing suicide because I feel like a disappointment to my family right now. I can't even show them my result.
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by pseudonomer: 8:52am On Mar 27, 2020
Mizormac:
no not all. I'm even antisocial

Because you fail at school doesn’t mean you’re not smart or something... I’ve seen many smart students failed.

First, you need to know how to pass exams. It is every important. You need to know the most important things to memorize while studying for exams.

Get past questions, check the patterns of the questions. Ask your professors how they mark your exam papers, and see why lose some marks and all that. And most importantly, always give yourself a mock exam before the real exam and see how you fair. Move with A’s students, these types of student usually know some studying tricks or something that can be very beneficial.

Like it has already been suggested. If your grades are too bad and you felt you can’t catch up, talk to your parents about starting all over again. Forget the shame right now, your success later will compensate for it.

Suicide is never an option, there’s always a solution.
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Vulcanheph(m): 8:56am On Mar 27, 2020
Please just in case You want to go with the suicide......don't buy Sniper , give me the money , i will give You free Rope to use and hang yourself

Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by kennyjam: 8:56am On Mar 27, 2020
Op , the race is not for the Swift nor battle to the strong ..

As someone said, take time to discover yourself ;meaning how your brain works effectively to deliver well.

May God help !
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Eddygourdo(m): 8:57am On Mar 27, 2020
Mizormac:
Ever since I was a kid in primary school. My teachers told me I was intelligent I was a smart kid in class but my result always proved negative I was termed as an average kid. Throughout my secondary school my result was bang average. I do feel remorse for my school result but my parents do cheer me up. I entered university to study Microbiology. First semester I had two carryovers. My Cgpa was 2.4 I was told to work harder by my parent. Second semester I did work harder but I had nothing to show for it I had 2 carryovers my Cgpa was low I was so depressed . my parent cheered me up and told me to Work harder they were always there for me. This semester I told my self I would make them proud. I started reading harder than I ever did in my entire life. Result for this semester just came out I had 7 carryovers. I was so shocked I received the shock of my miserable life I'm planning on committing suicide because I feel like a disappointment to my family right now. I can't even show them my result.
you are a bloody dullard. Wait till the pains of life comes to you due to your failures, then you will know that suicide is a sweet relief from poverty, nothiness and being a nobody. Don't be a man and work hard because your life depends on it. Be playing and telling stories
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by anuofGod(f): 9:01am On Mar 27, 2020
Suicide is not an option. Why not change your course?

I was a brilliant student when I was in primary school, the head prefect girl, in my junior secondary school too, I was brilliant, I was the social prefect girl.

But one thing is, I don't understand mathematics no matter how hard I tried but I was so good with my English language and other subjects.

When it comes to debates, poems, and etc, my teachers knows I am the guru. I could finish a 800pages novel within 24hours, I love nature and poetry with all my heart.
I had A's in in Junior waec except mathematics.

When I got to senior secondary school, I wanted to go to art class but my parents forcefully registered me in science class, that was the beginning of my woes, I failed woefully in chemistry, physics and mathematics. After so much beating and insults from my parents, I geared up and started having D's and C's.

Then I graduated, my parents insisted I study Medical laboratory science in the University. Luckily, my uni gave me Marketing, but during our 100level days, we did science courses all through, as expected, I failed again, my CGPA was 1.91 in my 100level 2nd semester. I was down, I felt like a total failure.
200 level, we started departmental courses with some accounting courses, I failed the accounting courses again, despite how much I tried (I'm crying as I'm typing this coz it still hurts).
300level, no more accounting courses, I started passing my courses, giving tutorials to my friends, everyone lucky enough to sit near me knows they are lucky coz I'm not stingy with answers and my answers are always correct as long as it's not calculations.
And I don't cheat, i can't even take expo to the exam Hall, my friends know I don't do it.

At the end of the day, I graduated with a CGPA of 2.93. second class lower.
Had it been I had studied an art course, OMG! I would have passed brilliantly and I would have been at peace with my soul.

But I love my course now, if it had been a science course, I would have dropped out of uni.

#you are lucky your parents are even boosting your morale.
Please you can change your course before it's too late.

SUICIDE ISN'T AN OPTION

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by Naijazure: 9:09am On Mar 27, 2020
Just calm down and look inwards... There's definitely something you're not getting right about the University course.

Your presentation is good and that says alot about you... Also pray before your every stride... And trust God to do excellently

#SAYNOTOSUICIDE
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by SocialJustice: 9:22am On Mar 27, 2020
Rest in Peace
Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by sammirano: 9:31am On Mar 27, 2020
My friend you need to quit school and find your passion. It's so annoying that everyone uses education as a yardstick. I have someone like that, he packs carry over every semester, but this guy is a talent in music and stuffs. I'm certain davido cannot finish one semester successfully in Unilag. You get the drill.

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Re: I Feel Like Committing Suicide by OmoDavido(m): 9:31am On Mar 27, 2020
Alot of people don't know how well to study and pass exam.

If you study all your class notes, lecturers slides, and solve past questions very well.

I swear you can never fail that course. Well except only if you didn't study it well. There are times when you might not understand a topic that all you will have to do is to cram and memorize it.

And also you don't read a topic only once and expect to pass. You have to read and re-read like 4 to 5 times till you are sure that you can write out or say out 90% of everything about the topic off hand. Then you can move to the next topic.


This has been my own way of studying since I entered the university and by God's grace I am on 4 point now in my 400L. I was not a bright student in secondary school because all I did then was to start cramming maybe a week to the exam.

And the key is to start reading very early, and also write down, like jot down as you are reading.


Success....

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