Bennysam:
I meet my wife immediately I come back from abroad by end of 2018 and we got married this year January , the issue now is that everything she does makes me very angry , she's a good woman though I never let it show through my character , if I see her call my mood will change immediately, what will I do to change back to how I feel before I marry her

Bennysam:
I meet my wife immediately I come back from abroad by end of 2018 and we got married this year January , the issue now is that everything she does makes me very angry , she's a good woman though I never let it show through my character , if I see her call my mood will change immediately, what will I do to change back to how I feel before I marry her

bigpicture001:


You guys did not date..?

Well, I will advice u get ur mind busy with something else aside your wife...like get very engaged with something( not side chick oo)

Another is you Mk friends that engage u in things outside your house...( not flings ooo)...y I say this is cuz maybe ur too focused on her nd little by little,u would start seeing wrongs in Tina sh does...that has been your p...

Again,like u said...sh is a good woman..u can also start putting ur mind nd focus much on the good side of her...e.g how enduring,supportive, patient,hard working,intelligent etc sh is sh will start to appear precious nd you will start to see her as priceless...

I strongly believe all the problem are in ur mind cuz u never mentions even one thing sh did bad....

Good luck

Freelane33:
Somethings were hidden , if you’re not ready to hit the nail on the head here then we are not ready tell you the bone of contention .. no cap

Bennysam:

No we do not date at all

ibkayee:

Yikes

What's done is done sha.

What exactly does she do that makes you angry? Some details would help

Bennysam:

I wish you could understand me, nothing special, I just totally lost it , I see her as a disturbances to me

Bennysam:

Bro nothing is hidden, all of a sudden I start losing interest
and everything about makes me angry

Bennysam:

I wish you could understand me, nothing special, I just totally lost it , I see her as a disturbances to me

Freelane33:
Hmm okay but if I’m to give you a piece of advice I will still need to know somethings ,I don’t know if you will be cool with me asking you the questions on here or you dm me . I’m not a relationship expert but I have a brief knowledge. I think I might be able to help . Awaiting your response

Realmenlovetruly:
You guys didnt date right?


Ok



Let me ask you brother,



What was those things you see in her that makes you propose to her and even making her your wife?

Allexey:
Maybe you married the bone of your flesh


Did u guys spend quality time for the 12 months you were together?
You just came back from the abroad, and boom,you found a "wife"

Bennysam:

I'm new here and I don't know how to open pm, I will explain my turn off in the marriage so you can understand

Bennysam:

I'm new here and I don't know how to open pm, I will explain my turn off in the marriage so you can understand

Freelane33:
Okay Im here

Olunmercy56:
All you need how is good communication, patience and also go back to your first love when you both met

JOACHINpedro:

Are you cheating on your wife?

cooooooks:
Don't marry who you don't know friends so that their smile won't annoy you.

Bennysam:

Respect , honesty , caring ,they're still there but some characters I'm seeing now is very scaring

Bennysam:

Okay the thing is this , when I came back 2018 my mum and my sisters put pressure on me about the girl and marriage I refuse but at the end I agree on the condition that if we do courtship and If don't like her I will dump her or she don't like me let her move on but during that courtship she got pregnant for me because of flexing and all those thing that happened when you came back new after a long time abroad, now my problems is this she kind of girl that when borrow 1k from her , no matter amount of money you give her, she will be disturbing you for that 1k , she like to know everything you do or discussed with or even ur family, any single thing she tell her mum and my wife is a king of person that know this thing is not good she will do it after she will start shedding tears and saying sorry , that annoy me so much,she's not adventurous , she keep saying that she maybe the one that will stand me , can you imaging a girl that doesn't have job yet is saying that she will stand already made man like me because I have a little show down , let me stop it here

Freelane33:
The question is did they get the girl for you or you got the girl by yourself )1) did you accept her because of the pregnancy or because you loved her (2) did you let her know your do and don’t before you started the flexing with her (3)do you really love ?(4) pls answer this question with sincerity so that I’ll know where to start . I’m not perfect just trynna help with my own little idea ? Actually what has happened has happened so and I don’t think things are beyond repair ,, you can still make correction to the problems on ground but answer my questions first .

Bennysam:

Okay the thing is this , when I came back 2018 my mum and my sisters put pressure on me about the girl and marriage I refuse but at the end I agree on the condition that if we do courtship and If don't like her I will dump her or she don't like me let her move on but during that courtship she got pregnant for me because of flexing and all those thing that happened when you came back new after a long time abroad, now my problems is this she kind of girl that when borrow 1k from her , no matter amount of money you give her, she will be disturbing you for that 1k , she like to know everything you do or discussed with or even ur family, any single thing she tell her mum and my wife is a king of person that know this thing is not good she will do it after she will start shedding tears and saying sorry , that annoy me so much,she's not adventurous , she keep saying that she maybe the one that will stand me , can you imaging a girl that doesn't have job yet is saying that she will stand already made man like me because I have a little show down , let me stop it here

Freelane33:
The question is did they get the girl for you or you got the girl by yourself )1) did you accept her because of the pregnancy or because you loved her (2) did you let her know your do and don’t before you started the flexing with her (3)do you really love ?(4) pls answer this question with sincerity so that I’ll know where to start . I’m not perfect just trynna help with my own little idea ? Actually what has happened has happened so and I don’t think things are beyond repair ,, you can still make correction to the problems on ground but answer my questions first .

Bennysam:
Divorce is what I'm considering serious I don't think I can continue