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Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Freelane33(m): 5:15pm On Mar 30, 2020
Shit .... bro it’s not beyond repair , just take her the way she is , show her love not because of anything but because of your baby inside her . Women will always be women even the one you claimed to love , with good xters might later turn a big calamity after marriage . She will change with time , you’ll just have to put in some work if you can (1), if you’ve been spending whole lotta times with her before , reduce it , travel once in a while , leave home , go out , let her feel your absence for few days every months ,(2) do your major responsibilities as they come , never ask her for a dime (3)when you’re with her , gossip with her , get her things you knew you like seeing on her . I know how women always look when they are preg ( not always pretty at all lol truth ) grin grin(4) reduce the rate at which she’s gonna be visiting her family and friends and if there is a way you can do it , chase all her friends away . Women are always influenced by friends shocked, don’t allow her to visit any friends anymore and don’t allow any friends to visit her for a time being .(5)note .... I know she will look somehow this time because of the preg and if it’s because of the look you’re getting mad at her pls stop , just show her maximum love not because of her but because of your baby inside her . Things will be better I bet . If some of this steps can be incorporated .
Bennysam:

They find the girl , I actually accept her because then I was confuse and pressure is too much from my sisters and my mum all she's a good she thing , I told her , I thought I love her but I don't think it's happening

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Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Nobody: 5:15pm On Mar 30, 2020
Bennysam:

No we do not date at all
You can still do that as a newly-married couple.
Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Freelane33(m): 5:21pm On Mar 30, 2020
Shit .... bro it’s not beyond repair , just take her the way she is , show her love not because of anything but because of your baby inside her . Women will always be women even the one you claimed to love , with good xters might later turn a big calamity after marriage . She will change with time , you’ll just have to put in some work if you can (1), if you’ve been spending whole lotta times with her before , reduce it , travel once in a while , leave home , go out , let her feel your absence for few days every months ,(2) do your major responsibilities as they come , never ask her for a dime (3)when you’re with her , gossip with her , get her things you knew you like seeing on her . I know how women always look when they are preg ( not always pretty at all lol truth ) grin grin(4) reduce the rate at which she’s gonna be visiting her family and friends and if there is a way you can do it , chase all her friends away . Women are always influenced by friends shocked, don’t allow her to visit any friends anymore and don’t allow any friends to visit her for a time being .(5)note .... I know she will look somehow this time because of the preg and if it’s because of the look you’re getting mad at her pls stop , just show her maximum love not because of her but because of your baby inside her . Things will be better I bet . If some of these steps can be incorporated .
Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam: 5:46pm On Mar 30, 2020
Freelane33:
Shit .... bro it’s not beyond repair , just take her the way she is , show her love not because of anything but because of your baby inside her . Women will always be women even the one you claimed to love , with good xters might later turn a big calamity after marriage . She will change with time , you’ll just have to put in some work if you can (1), if you’ve been spending whole lotta times with her before , reduce it , travel once in a while , leave home , go out , let her feel your absence for few days every months ,(2) do your major responsibilities as they come , never ask her for a dime (3)when you’re with her , gossip with her , get her things you knew you like seeing on her . I know how women always look when they are preg ( not always pretty at all lol truth ) grin grin(4) reduce the rate at which she’s gonna be visiting her family and friends and if there is a way you can do it , chase all her friends away . Women are always influenced by friends shocked, don’t allow her to visit any friends anymore and don’t allow any friends to visit her for a time being .(5)note .... I know she will look somehow this time because of the preg and if it’s because of the look you’re getting mad at her pls stop , just show her maximum love not because of her but because of your baby inside her . Things will be better I bet . If some of this steps can be incorporated .
I will try my best
Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Olunmercy56(f): 7:36pm On Mar 30, 2020
Bennysam:

She will claim she know anytime you want to communicate with her at the end she made mistake
Then let her know her mistake, she might not know she is doing a mistake, tell her what you don't want
Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Angelacruz: 7:48pm On Mar 30, 2020
Dis one weak me...parental pressure
Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by adexpa(m): 9:49am On Mar 31, 2020
The lady is not your type, you married her out of pressure with little knowledge of her person (you did not study the flow then cus you are not really ready for marriage but they talked you into it). Compatibility in Marriage goes beyond good character and it is not about number of years you date, it is about how you guys flow during few times of courtship, you can decided to marry a lady after 3 months of friendship once you guys connect and flow well...... You guys are having connection problem, you are not compatible.
My advice;
I will tell you to relax and play along, take your time to study her in order to pick her weaknesses then start ignoring those weaknesses anytime she put them on, your connection might probably increase with that over time.
It is not a remedy but a way to retain you in the marriage cus divorce is not a good advice.

Good luck
Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by 15ssDRIVE(m): 12:17pm On Aug 07, 2020
Na Patience oh...... create comfort zone ..... and you go see say madam na the best.


Once Madam belle big,ur way to change and when Bom Boy come ..... With lots of goodies...


Everything go jolly.......

My wife is my partner in crime ...... we talk A-Z.......

Sometimes I go nearly complain of my Gf to heerr...... Funke _ ayeMi Temi Bami!

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Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Addme: 4:21pm On Aug 07, 2020
15ssDRIVE:
Na Patience oh...... create comfort zone ..... and you go see say madam na the best.


Once Madam belle big,ur way to change and when Bom Boy come ..... With lots of goodies...


Everything go jolly.......

My wife is my partner in crime ...... we talk A-Z.......

Sometimes I go nearly complain of my Gf to heerr...... Funke _ ayeMi Temi Bami!

Laughs
So you get GF, I go tell madam..

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