was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care...i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

She doesn't care about how you feel. I still don't know why a man will beg a woman for love. Just man up, find yourself a woman who loves you and stop the begging for love

Just ignore her
No more special treatment
Just see her as ordinary co worker


And look smart and happy

Don't ever beg her again

i also remember i do call her constantly and if she picks up i'll be like hope i'm not disturbing you she will say no...but when i called her the last time and i told her hope i'm not disturbing her she said what happened,i was like wow,she will immediately say i should call her back that she has another call,if i call her again and ask her that she will say i should whatever i wan say...i asked her to tell me her mind,that was when she said she doesn't see our relationship going far...that it will be better we turn friends that after anything other than friendship we should forget it...i first accepted...the next day i messaged her and told her that we should forget about friendship also...that i've really dragged myself in the mud...that i will call her someday when i make...that she should take care...

everytime i sit down and remember the way she acted towards me,i feel hurt and pained...i almost want to cry,i'll be like after everything i've done for this girl,she should have known it's me...anyways sha

Shashaeniyan:
was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care..i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

Back off.

Why did you tell her the bolded for? You shot yourself in the foot with that one. It makes you seem like a loser with no social life. Unless you're a loner by choice, you shouldn't be telling people things like that. You shouldn't be begging anyone to stay in your life either.

Drshobz:
Just ignore her
No more special treatment
Just see her as ordinary co worker


And look smart and happy

Don't ever beg her again

i've stopped working there...was actually sacked from work cos of her...tout boys collected my phone when i escorted her home on my way coming.

Shashaeniyan:
was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care...i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

You're weak and needy. She saw and sensed it. That is why she is acting like a d!ck, 'cause you're a pu ssy.

XhosaNostra:



Back off.

Why did you tell her the bolded for? You shot yourself in the foot with that one. It makes you seem like a loser with no social life. Unless you're a loner by choice, you shouldn't be telling people things like that. You shouldn't be begging anyone to stay in your life either.

ok ma'am...

u gave this bae the key to play with u and that was why she played with u. why invest in a bae wey u never fork before? she knew u were gullible and she took that advantage.
free the bae and get some one beta than her. Never let people treat you.
Like a cigarette ��..
They only use u when they are lonely and step on u when they are satisfied � �...
Be drug they will die for ✌✌✌✌...

What's with boys like this? Oga pls man up and stop acting like an ass. You need ubunja's miseducation.
Girls are wired like that, especially the ones with low self esteem, she'll use you to boost her over bloated ego. Your over-caring attitude appears to her like weakness.
If you don't stop, by the time she's done with you, you'll have a misguided view about women and how they behave.

You are the biggest MUGU alive, it's obvious that right from when you stated dating her you were her ATM, you buy food for her while she saves her own salary, now I know why many of you never amount to anything in life. Sense is very far from you.

Continue begging her, just maybe she might consider to employ you back as her ATM in her whoring organization.

I have a girl like that at my work place too, the way she throws herself at me everytime you'd think we are dating, but then she already told she has someone she currently dates. And all I did was to respect myself and not pressurize her for a relationship. Cos I know it will end in tears....

Anyways just delete her number, unfriend her from all social media and face ur huslte, bfre u know it u've forgotten she ever existed..

Simp...just forget bout her n move on...and hope u learn from that, have some balls on ur next chic

Shashaeniyan:
was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care...i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

you are too soft for my likenings infact you are p**sy...no let woman dey play u around

gunners160:
u gave this bae the key to play with u and that was why she played with u. why invest in a bae wey u never fork before? she knew u were gullible and she took that advantage.
free the bae and get some one beta than her. Never let people treat you.
Like a cigarette ��..
They only use u when they are lonely and step on u when they are satisfied � �...
Be drug they will die for ✌✌✌✌...

true talk nigga...babe wey u neva see her pants colour.

Shashaeniyan:
was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care...i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

It will end in tears 4u..quote me

Shashaeniyan:
i also remember i do call her constantly and if she picks up i'll be like hope i'm not disturbing you she will say no...but when i called her the last time and i told her hope i'm not disturbing her she said what happened,i was like wow,she will immediately say i should call her back that she has another call,if i call her again and ask her that she will say i should whatever i wan say...i asked her to tell me her mind,that was when she said she doesn't see our relationship going far...that it will be better we turn friends that after anything other than friendship we should forget it...i first accepted...the next day i messaged her and told her that we should forget about friendship also...that i've really dragged myself in the mud...that i will call her someday when i make...that she should take care...

everytime i sit down and remember the way she acted towards me,i feel hurt and pained...i almost want to cry,i'll be like after everything i've done for this girl,she should have known it's me...anyways sha

U will cry Las Las... It will end in tears 4u

Shashaeniyan:
i've stopped working there...was actually sacked from work cos of her...tout boys collected my phone when i escorted her home on my way coming.

Beginning of tears for u.. Until u get sense, then tears is what u be experiencing.. Ode oshi

Cox of woman

youngsahito:
true talk nigga...babe wey u neva see her pants colour.

we just have deep romance that's all...almost close to sex,but she won't permit penetration...ALWAYS CLAIMS V,BUT I DOUBT.

OP. How old is the girl you're talking about?

This is not God kind of relationship. God kind of relationship involves the two party making sacrifice in order to keep the relationship going. In your case you are the only one making sacrifice,so the lady can work out at will, without having remorse. Assuming both of you are making equal sacrifice,she can't leave the relationship like that because she knows what she has put into the relationship and she would value the relationship the more, just as you (The man) would value the relationship. In today's generation only 1% of couples are involved in God's kind of relationship. That is why most of the time when a man loose his job he loose his woman, because she was in the relationship because of the ability of the man to meet her financial needs. If a woman loves you from her spirit she would contribute equally or more than you. Love is not everywhere, pray to God to show you the lady that would love you for who you are and you would love her for who she is. It is only God that can give true love, believe me when I say this, I am not lying.

Can't stop laughing!
Guy, you dey make me shame.
I can remember asking a girl out, she was forming, I knew if I had persisted she would leave her boyfriend and come with me, but on the second thought, if she could leave her boyfriend why won't she leave me later. My guy I lock up, when she sees me those days she is like ain't coming to try once more?

Bro, see what you gonna do, get good clothes, dress fine always, smell fine and be good looking go for her? Hell no! Just tell them you are better without them.

Me like this the only Bae I appreciate is my bank account
Feed your bank account, take care of her, make her big, she will give you the best life.
One love Bro!

Bro, forget all these insults you're seeing here. It's nairaland

Your case is normal. Almost every man passes this stage with women. The main thing is now that you've realized what is going on, you need proper miseducation from professionals on understanding women from everywhere you can get.

I'll give you a list of channels you should follow on youtube. They should help you unload all the crap you've been fed with about how to treat women from birth.

Alpha male strategies, the33secrets, coach Corey wayne, fixed fearless, mindful attraction, Dan bacon, Donovan sharp, 21 studios, the natural lifestyles.

Forget women for now and focus on developing yourself as a man.

I like sharing this cos every man needs these kind of info and not all are born with game. You can learn game if you want.

Hating them won't help you cos we still want to get steady pvssy with less headache

Stay safe bro, these bitches ain't worth sh1t

Shashaeniyan:
was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care...i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

You actually messed up by begging her,it made you looked very needy.You just have to cut her off,most ladies are very ungrateful.A guy has to cultivate what we call"I don't care attitude when dealing with ladies".It's also important for guys to also understand that helping a follow brother out is far better than helping a lady( personal opinion) cz he will never forget u. Hope you've learnt your lesson.Shalom

Have you fvckd her?

Shashaeniyan:
was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care...i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

You are a sad excuse of a man...an insult to my specie...cuz of you this useless gals think they can behave anyhow....Ogun kill u there
F*ck off

Shashaeniyan:
i also remember i do call her constantly and if she picks up i'll be like hope i'm not disturbing you she will say no...but when i called her the last time and i told her hope i'm not disturbing her she said what happened,i was like wow,she will immediately say i should call her back that she has another call,if i call her again and ask her that she will say i should whatever i wan say...i asked her to tell me her mind,that was when she said she doesn't see our relationship going far...that it will be better we turn friends that after anything other than friendship we should forget it...i first accepted...the next day i messaged her and told her that we should forget about friendship also...that i've really dragged myself in the mud...that i will call her someday when i make...that she should take care...

everytime i sit down and remember the way she acted towards me,i feel hurt and pained...i almost want to cry,i'll be like after everything i've done for this girl,she should have known it's me...anyways sha

lol niggaa! You dey hear yourself bah?! ,,na you be dead cause of your problem

She doesn't luv u or like u, she only enjoy the money u always give her...so since u left the work place and the money is not constant as usual again she has to turn her back on u...she is a scam.

O.p abeg na the first time u dey date girl be this because ur write up dey mke me shame as guy. How old are uu??

Ubunja comman see a patient oh,he needs to be treated in your ICU ward

Shashaeniyan:
was dating this girl at my work...i do buy her food constantly,give her money at times...sometimes numbers call her she wouldn't pick up cos of me,she told me during the course of our dating that she has broken up,but when i left work,this girl started giving unnecessary attitude...i once asked her should i back off she be like i should do anything i want...that was when she told me that she never really broke up with her boyfriend they just have a lil misunderstanding,that she told me before we started dating she has someone that did i expect her to leave the person she is dating for me...i told her through a chat i was no longer interested,i later found my self begging her i don't mean it...that was when she started attitude,every words i say she won't say anything,sometimes she will reply with "hmm","anyhow"..."if i like"...she doesn't care...i told her she knows she is my only friend,she said haven't i know some people before i met her...i told her to tell me her mind...

tbc...

Anytime you chat a lady you are interested in and you find out that she see, or in touch with the guy that disvirgened her please run away or find another person ok

Shashaeniyan:
i also remember i do call her constantly and if she picks up i'll be like hope i'm not disturbing you she will say no...but when i called her the last time and i told her hope i'm not disturbing her she said what happened,i was like wow,she will immediately say i should call her back that she has another call,if i call her again and ask her that she will say i should whatever i wan say...i asked her to tell me her mind,that was when she said she doesn't see our relationship going far...that it will be better we turn friends that after anything other than friendship we should forget it...i first accepted...the next day i messaged her and told her that we should forget about friendship also...that i've really dragged myself in the mud...that i will call her someday when i make...that she should take care...

everytime i sit down and remember the way she acted towards me,i feel hurt and pained...i almost want to cry,i'll be like after everything i've done for this girl,she should have known it's me...anyways sha

Lol...she used you to pass time.