What happens when you tell a detective the whole truth when you're being confronted and he thinks you lying? I think You'd be in for some big shit.

They say honesty is one of the most precious gifts one could offer to their loved ones but what happens now when you're being at least 100% honest to someone but they don't see or believe it.
Like you tell someone your whole truth and they term you or what you say a lie. I know lots of you out here have experienced that or even more, and it hurts real quick. You feel discouraged, disoriented and sometimes worthless. You have nothing left to prove to that person cos even if you kill yourself they won't still believe you just did.

My girlfriend thinks I don't love her. She always skeptical about the way i feel for her. She thinks I flex with other girls aside her(tho it's a normal phenomenon especially in this part of the world) but the thing is I have never double dated in my entire life.
She thinks I just wanna have fun and dump her someday, even though what I feel for her is true and I really want her for keeps. I'm always assuring her that she gonna be mine for as long as God liveth. but she never believes me, and I do sense it in her sounds and vibes. Now I dunno what else to do. I know It's never 100% OK to put all trust and hope in a woman but I don't see her leaving me soon. The problem here is she seeing me leave soon cos she doesn't think I love her the way she does.

Ladies and gents here should kindly assist a brother if you have ever experienced something like this. and how did you overcome it? Thanks for your contributions

G

Go and pay her bride price maybe that alone can give her an atom of trust in you

my brother forget, your eye go soon clear... she's just playing tricks on you!
it's very obvious you're head over hills in love with her and she knows, sooner or later you'll be at her mercy if you didn't stop proving anything to her and that's her aim...

You have told her how you feel about her, whether she belief you or not is inconsequential.

You may be surprise that deep down her subconcious, she knows you do love her.

Leave women.
Do what you think is best for your partner.

StrongandMighty:
my brother forget, your eye go soon clear... she's just playing tricks on you!
it's very obvious you're head over hills in love with her and she knows, sooner or later you'll be at her mercy if you didn't stop proving anything to her and that's her aim...

Better don't ruin his relationship with this callous advice of yours op don't listen to him

she knows you love her women are intuitive about this sort of thing.....she just wants you to overdo to prove to her your love and then she knows she has you by your balls.

Go and kill a Lion for her.
She'll believe you

Millenniumlady:
Better don't ruin his relationship with this callous advice of yours op don't listen to him

Size noise what do you know ? That guy just gave the guy best advice .

Millenniumlady:
Better don't ruin his relationship with this callous advice of yours op don't listen to him

Any lady that keeps complaining that you don't love her despite all you've done (both in words and actions) to show her you really love her is either a Cheat or doesn't love you...and definitely when a lady doesn't love you , she's cheating on you! the girl is just being manipulative!

op take any advice on this matter from a lady at your own risk

Millenniumlady:
Go and pay her bride price maybe that alone can give her an atom of trust in you

Bride price ke.
My wife once made such remarks whether l would be proud to post her pix on my Facebook page.
Meanwhile this a lady l adore and cherish.

Just cus she feels she doesn't deserve me being her hubby.

Meeyankee:

Size noise what do you know ? That guy just gave the guy best advice .

What do you guys know about advice when it involves a woman

Millenniumlady:
What do you guys know about advice when it involves a woman

We are talking about food here take
Note ok. Confused lady cannot give relationship advice to another person .

Millenniumlady:
Better don't ruin his relationship with this callous advice of yours op don't listen to him

he's got a point. She might just be playing the reverse psychology on the poor op who she's probably cheating on

Meeyankee:

We are talking about food here take
Note ok. Confused lady cannot give relationship advice to another person .

Better watch your mouth when you quote me.

Sunnymatey:


Bride price ke.
My wife once made such remarks whether l would be proud to post her pix on my Facebook page.
Meanwhile this a lady l adore and cherish.

Just cus she feels she doesn't deserve me being her hubby.

And what did you do to earn her trust ?

Millenniumlady:
Better watch your mouth when you quote me.

Are you okay at all? See the smaller ooh..

Whatever you do. Dont get too comfortable

StrongandMighty:


Any lady that keeps complaining that you don't love her despite all you've done (both in words and actions) to show her you really love her is either a Cheat or doesn't love you...and definitely when a lady doesn't love you , she's cheating on you! the girl is just being manipulative!

op take any advice on this matter from a lady at your own risk

How are you sure he has done what needs to be done in action ?

Millenniumlady:
How are you sure he has done what needs to be done in action ?

He must have done enough before bringing the matter her

StrongandMighty:


He must have done enough before bringing the matter her

Doing enough on a woman's side means paying her bride price

Millenniumlady:
Doing enough on a woman's side means paying her bride price

That marriage seems to be a trophy to you doesn't mean it's the same for others... different strokes for different folks!

StrongandMighty:


That marriage seems to be a trophy to you doesn't mean it's the same for others... different strokes for different folks!

Then you're not yet serious

StrongandMighty:


Any lady that keeps complaining that you don't love her despite all you've done (both in words and actions) to show her you really love her is either a Cheat or doesn't love you...and definitely when a lady doesn't love you , she's cheating on you! the girl is just being manipulative!

op take any advice on this matter from a lady at your own risk

enof said!

Op ur signature would be of great help here
Switch positions and start telling her she's the one who doesnt love u like she professes, saying this would get her pain but with time, she would realise how u felt when she was doubting ur love. Thats if u truly love her like u say.
Like some are saying dont pay any bride price hurridly, all in an aim to prove ur love except u want to rush in and rush out.

StrongandMighty:
my brother forget, your eye go soon clear... she's just playing tricks on you!
it's very obvious you're head over hills in love with her and she knows, sooner or later you'll be at her mercy if you didn't stop proving anything to her and that's her aim...

VALID

Millenniumlady:
Go and pay her bride price maybe that alone can give her an atom of trust in you

Lol

StrongandMighty:


Any lady that keeps complaining that you don't love her despite all you've done (both in words and actions) to show her you really love her is either a Cheat or doesn't love you...and definitely when a lady doesn't love you , she's cheating on you! the girl is just being manipulative!

op take any advice on this matter from a lady at your own risk

O VALID GAN

czarr:
she knows you love her women are intuitive about this sort of thing.....she just wants you to overdo to prove to her your love and then she knows she has you by your balls.

Like grab my balls

My brother .. the next time she makes that can statement shun her immediately tell her what kind of negativity is she feeding her mind with if there is anybody that will quit it would be her for being critical and suspicious of you , that is disrespectful for your own personality not good and healthy in a relationship . Then you tell her you are 100 percent committed to her after dropping your mind you walkout angrily if you are inside your house you can walk out to the toliet or kitchen then if she try to stop or say she is sorry .. Try assuring her of your love ,commitment and try warning her against any negative thoughts in your relationship that you won’t take it anymore .. but if she is not sorry just know that you are in that relationship alone or you have a feminist girl friend or you your woman is getting attention from other guys and she is cheating that is why she is suspecting you