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My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Kingzizu: 11:52pm On Apr 06, 2020
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by TheGiftedOne(m): 11:56pm On Apr 06, 2020
Just keep up your fight against masturbation and in no time you'll fall in love. It will naturally happen, even subconsciously.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Plead(m): 12:06am On Apr 07, 2020
I wanted to dismiss your story as another tales by moonlight but then I know someone like this,nigga didn’t have a girlfriend till he graduated from school...

Work on your self esteem, okay pal.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by dawnomike(m): 12:13am On Apr 07, 2020
Congratulations on working and making attempts to stop masturbating... I give credence to you for that. Pls keep at it
What you felt in the past is part of the prolonged psychological effect of masturbating which occurs in few people, which is; the feeling of not needing a lady...
Now that you are aware, make conscious effort to start to interract with ladies without any ulterior motive in mind. With time you'll find she that your heart shall desire!

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Iyiataata92: 12:41am On Apr 07, 2020
You've been masturbating at an average of 2 times a day for 8 years. Average in the sense that anyday you miss your session, you go on 4 times the next day to cover the missed count.
If that's true bro, then you need to apologise to your Jon Thomas for 8 rough years misappropriation and maladministration.
That dick won't be proud of you as the owner

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by kalufelix(m): 12:43am On Apr 07, 2020
Follow the urge ..how long do you intend to be on celibacy...learn with olosho na human beings them be ..it should be easier for you .... (i am not talking about the shagging part) from there you will see yourself interacting with the opp sex ...One month is too delicate to start celebrating...If you ever relapse you'd wish you never stopped...wanking is just a pseudo sex...the only true remedy is the real sex which is an exchange of energy rather than a waste of energy...

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by rasxx(m): 12:53am On Apr 07, 2020
dawnomike:
Congratulations on working and making attempts to stop masturbating... I give credence to you for that. Pls keep at it
What you felt in the past is part of the prolonged psychological effect of masturbating which occurs in few people, which is; the feeling of not needing a lady...
Now that you are aware, make conscious effort to start to interract with ladies without any ulterior motive in mind. With time you'll find she that your heart shall desire!

I sure agree with you, he needs to start talking to the opposite sex more often &without any motives for now, naturally there would be an attraction.
Secondly, work on self esteem. You are not boring, just know how to lead/hold a conversation,know trends, understand people etc.
Las Las you need a woman, don't say I didn't tell you

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Iyiataata92: 1:01am On Apr 07, 2020
kalufelix:
Don't be too quick...read slowly and take note of all the lines...addictions are mostly replaced with another addiction as a cure..even though we may not be aware of the new addiction from the beginning... He'd learn a thing or two and be closer to getting a girl rather than go back to his hands... It might cost him self esteem but not as near and devastating as masturbation...If anything the monetary implications should keep him in check...the former is so dangerous it doesn't cost a thing...
Ha. Bro don't talk about that monetary side oo. An olosho addict will borrow money just to visit his customer. Haven't you seen guys fighting with oloshos cos they don't have money to pay for services rendered? And these oloshos are very bad, they know the shy guys that can't get a girlfriend and always f*ck them with all their experience so the guy will never leave and such guys pay a lot of money.
If this guy ever finds his way to the olosho community as you directed him, then he'll go on another 8 year f*cking spree

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Iyiataata92: 1:03am On Apr 07, 2020
kalufelix:
Follow the urge ..how long do you intend to be on celibacy...learn with olosho na human beings them be ..it should be easier for you .... (i am not talking about the shagging part) from there you will see yourself interacting with the opp sex ...One month is too delicate to start celebrating...If you ever relapse you'd wish you never stopped...wanking is just a pseudo sex...the only true remedy is the real sex which is an exchange of energy rather than a waste of energy...
Someone is making his way out of the gate of masturbation and you're directing him towards the gate of olosho. Are you for real?
Don't you know olosho is another addiction on its own which will cost him not only self esteem but much money?
Bro this your advice get as e be oo

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by kalufelix(m): 2:36am On Apr 07, 2020
Iyiataata92:

Someone is making his way out of the gate of masturbation and you're directing him towards the gate of olosho. Are you for real?
Don't you know olosho is another addiction on its own which will cost him not only self esteem but much money?
Bro this your advice get as e be oo
Don't be too quick...read slowly and take note of all the lines...addictions are mostly replaced with another addiction as a cure..even though we may not be aware of the new addiction from the beginning... He'd learn a thing or two and be closer to getting a girl rather than go back to his hands... It might cost him self esteem but not as near and devastating as masturbation...If anything the monetary implications should keep him in check...the former is so dangerous it doesn't cost a thing...

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by IamDavids: 2:41am On Apr 07, 2020
My favorite quote.

Once an addict, always an addict!

Nigga, if you don't get a girl soon you gonna have a relapse.

Your probably an introvert, but you need to be out there meeting people, going out on dates.

If you don't make things happen, you may never know if they would ever work.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by pyyxxaro: 4:52am On Apr 07, 2020
Join a group in your church that has a lot of girls

Try and get involved in their activities, from there your confidence talking to ladies would build up

B4 you know it, devil would start whispering to you , to press one of the girl’s ukwu

B4 u know it , you don de lash steady oh cool



Masturbation naaa winch tin oh , if you too do am , once day as u de self-service ur preek fit just cut like lizard tail cry

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 6:16am On Apr 07, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.
Congratulations to you for quitting masturbation. You see, you don't need to worry 'bout you not being able to approach ladies. Take care of yourself. Enjoy your own company and socialize more. Don't overthink things.
Even if you are not good looking...dress well and always smile. You will meet ladies when you least expect. Make sure your game is tight 24/7.
Mind you, there are pretty ladies out there looking for guys like you. So chill. Women are plenty..

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Iyiataata92: 7:30am On Apr 07, 2020
justnock:

Congratulations to you for quitting masturbation. You see, you don't need to worry 'bout you not being able to approach ladies. Take care of yourself. Enjoy your own company and socialize more. Don't overthink things.
Even if you are not good looking...dress well and always smile. You will meet ladies when you least expect. Make sure your game is tight 24/7.
Mind you, there are pretty ladies out there looking for guys like you. So chill. Women are plenty..
He didn't quit. Everybody is at home now so he's not getting enough privacy for his daily session so he's on a short break.
Addictions like self service is one of the most difficult to control, not even quit. I'm not cursing him but I know he will surely go back to it.
BTW, his dick is presently getting the much needed rest after 8 turbulent years. It hasn't been rosy at all for little Mr Jon Thomas.
May God help that dick

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Iyiataata92: 7:53am On Apr 07, 2020
kecee99:
One month is too small to start celebrating. I went 552 days without masturbating but still went on to relapsed last week cauz of this lockdown shit. Masturbation is far addictive than anything else in this world.Though I've sworn never to do it again even though it's gonna cost me my dick or my life. sad
Advice to non masturbators: Don't indulged into masturbation bcauz once you're in, its almost impossible to get out. Masturbation leaves you with nothing but immense depression, weakness, low self esteem, loss of appetite to everything... The list is endless.
Bro you should apply in the Nigeria Bureau of Statistics.
You can keep records for Africa

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 8:13am On Apr 07, 2020
You need a girl. Excessive fapping gonna ruin ur dick. 2017 I met a sweet guy who was shit in bed Cos he lost touch of reality due to jacking off from 10-25 no girls ever. Cldnt even get it up and needed therapy, don’t end up like him. Move to a girl, if u are shy talk to them online. wink

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by peace0813(f): 8:16am On Apr 07, 2020
I think what you should focus on doing now is to overcome masturbating before considering a relationship.


Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by joe4christ(m): 8:16am On Apr 07, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

My only question for you is: when u masturbate, who do you think of, as in who do you see in your imagination. A guy or a girl?

Let's start from there first!

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by peace0813(f): 8:43am On Apr 07, 2020
pyyxxaro:
Join a group in your church that has a lot of girls

Try and get involved in their activities, from there your confidence talking to ladies would build up

B4 you know it, devil would start whispering to you , to press one of the girl’s ukwu

B4 u know it , you don de lash steady oh cool



Masturbation naaa winch tin oh , if you too do am , once day as u de self-service ur preek fit just cut like lizard tail cry





See your mouth �

If masturbation na winch tin.

To press girl ukwu na wetin?

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Starboytwo(m): 9:04am On Apr 07, 2020
peace0813:



See your mouth �

If masturbation na winch tin.

To press girl ukwu na wetin?
God thing, no doubt

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Sufisunni: 9:10am On Apr 07, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.
quiting masturbation will increase your self esteem and confidence

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by foolbuster: 9:37am On Apr 07, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Yeah that's what chronic masturbation does to you. You've gone only 4 weeks so you are only starting to recover.
Sit back relax and get ready to experience all the benefits your urge to be in a relatiomship will get stronger and then it'll lead to a return of your self confidence with time you'll be comfortable talking to women.

You start to feel great and healthier both psychologically, spiritually, and physically your virility will return. all round you'll be a better person. But good things don't come easy. You will be tempted but stay strong. Keep telling yourself you can do this. Never listen to all these guys that want to drag you down with their crap and how its good to masturbate, they are just looking for justification of their guilt. Stay strong.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by Nobody: 10:02am On Apr 07, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Did you notice any change in your body smell?

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by xpanciated: 11:18am On Apr 07, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

I can relate bruv....I masturbated for 24 years until I quit five years ago....I did an in depth research on the issue and authored a powerful, thoughts provoking, revealing, mind-blowing and expository book titled: "Masturbation Addiction: Causes, Dangers and Practical Solutions" it contains my twenty four years experience in the world of masturbation, oath of secrecy and one month free follow up plan.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by franklingud(m): 11:43am On Apr 07, 2020
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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by jeyselassie(m): 11:46am On Apr 07, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.
Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.
I've been in your shoe before and I understand what you're going through. I actually used to go to carry a hooker once a month just to tame it down and make sure I hit it till I'm satisfied. It may not be your thing but bro be careful not to jump to any girl based on desperation and sex only for you to discover you don't really love her and she is already disturbing you for marriage.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by todugo(m): 11:55am On Apr 07, 2020
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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by jeyselassie(m): 11:56am On Apr 07, 2020
Plead:
I wanted to dismiss your story as another tales by moonlight but then I know someone like this,nigga didn’t have a girlfriend till he graduated from school...

Work on your self esteem, okay pal.
I faced the same so it's true

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by foolbuster: 11:57am On Apr 07, 2020
kalufelix:
Follow the urge ..how long do you intend to be on celibacy...learn with olosho na human beings them be ..it should be easier for you .... (i am not talking about the shagging part) from there you will see yourself interacting with the opp sex ...One month is too delicate to start celebrating...If you ever relapse you'd wish you never stopped...wanking is just a pseudo sex...the only true remedy is the real sex which is an exchange of energy rather than a waste of energy...

Sex is not food abeg. Na wa oooo.

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Re: My Strange Observations After Quitting Masturbation by todugo(m): 12:02pm On Apr 07, 2020
Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.
My advice is that its very difficult to break that habit the best solution is;
1)Stop using internet phones, buy Nokia touch like phone
2)Get married,only remedy
3) Get busy physically and mentally
4)Always pray to God for help
Without these you will still relapse again because its a hard fight and its always compared to one addicted with drugs.

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