Just like the title, I wish to make some things clear since a lot of misunderstanding rose from a single comment I posted on a thread that I didn't realise would ever hit front page. I'm not yet familiar with attaching links, so bear with me.

The comment: "That's why I pity men who want to marry virgins as a measure to hide their awful bedmatics. Women gossips about their sex life and before you know it, virgin wife will want to experience all these things but won't tell the husband cause 'she's a virgin and shouldn't know about those things'. Las las, na Okey, your driver that will educate her more"

I'll reiterate it as often as I feel it until at least some men pick up on it and improve which was the intention behind the harmless post in the first place.


Being a virgin doesn't mean the lady is an ignorant introverted fool. On the contrary, I believe a virgin, especially in this day and age, is someone who isn't ignorant about sexual practices, probably has some sexual fantasies of her own, who isn't introverted and shy and yet, refused to join the bandwagon of those who believe in immediate gratification. There are exceptions, but I believe this is what is more obtainable.

Having the above definition in mind, I made that statement, hoping men would key into that insight. However the numerous mentions I received showed me starkly that comprehension is quite hard to grasp. So I'll go further and add.

"If you're a one-minute man, marrying a virgin won't help your issue later on in your marriage. She may deal with it now but with time, it would turn into a big problem. If the only sex positions you know are missionary and doggie style (which some learnt about five years ago), trust me, you need to be more versatile in the other room. It will definitely help your marriage with a virgin wife in the long run. Some virgins may confide in you if they don't feel satisfied, some won't say anything (maybe from upbringing), some may have low libido and be okay with it while some will have high libido and crave more. There are lots of possibilities. How would you deal with the excesses?

In addition, like someone explained to me, virgins attach to their first sexual whoever. If you blow her mind (and her pucci) on the first night, chances are she'll always think of you, even if you guys end up separating or divorcing. I've heard women talk about a 'womb shifting' experience and the like and I can tell the man was exceptional. Wouldn't you like to give that experience to your virgin wife on her first night? Don't you think such experience will attach her to you completely? Don't say because she's a virgin, she won't know. That's like being overconfident. I wish you would apply wisdom when it comes to dealing with female nature.

Which brings me back to why I made this post: the mentions were too much last night. It was looking like a mini attack tbh. I do not appreciate publicity in that manner especially when some men missed the point totally and were weighing virgin versus non-virgins and declaring they will marry virgins. Trust me, I wish above all else that those who sincerely want virgin wives will find and marry them. Hopefully, if they marry their choice, divorce rates will lower.


NB: To those who sent emails, I appreciate them but I'm afraid I won't be replying them now. The heat is too much and I'd like to believe your email wasn't prompted because you misunderstood my post. If you're sincere, you can send an email on a later date and time. My apologies.

Thank you.

Well put and said!

You didn't eventually point out how to up the game
I mean steps to take

hey sixfeetbelle, you're a vibe! i'd like us to become pals if you dont mind. i sent you a message not long

Men done still dey disturb this girl because of post. So una wan fvck her for posting her opinion
Lol... I think Op's point has always been clear. Virgin wife or not, u cant afford to be bad in bed n expect it to go unnoticed and she will always crave something better which is only natural.

What if the woman is bad in bed?

this post doesn't have sense at all. all you're trying to preach here is to make bad and immoral things look good and praising premarital sexcapades as way of life for humans.

We know you're not a virgin already and you're a community sperm depot but don't come here and try to convince those with untouched kpekus to lose their virginity for any random individual who isn't their husband.

no one was born a sex guru from the womb, you can learn and become a pro when you marry.

A man doesn't have to blow a virgin's mind with mind blowing sex for her first time sex for her to attach. A girl will attach no matter the quality of sex. Girls are out here attaching to guys who rape them. True story. That's why even in the Bible God commands a man who rapes a virgin to marry her. Crazy as it sounds. This attaching thing is a beast of a thing I tell you.


Do mention me in your future posts. I like your thought process.

And I will comment separately later on another part of your post above.

Dangrace01:
What if the woman is bad in bed?

As in dead wood bad... nothing worse pass that

ubunja:
A man doesn't have to blow a virgin's mind with mind blowing sex for her first time sex for her to attach A girl will attach no matter the quality of sex. Girls are out here attaching to guys who rape them. True story . That's why even in the Bible God commands a man who rapes a virgin to marry her. Crazy as it sounds. This attaching thing is a beast of a thing I tell you.


Do mention me in your future posts. I like your thought process.

And I will comment separately later on another part of your post above.

True.. but i have met a great number of girls who were hell bent on loosing their hymen so they could be wild and reckless. No attachment to u whatsoever. Its just like u helped them cross a busy street.. Now even if her first sex was crap on her wedding night she may know if she's the inquisitive type that has gathered knowledge from reading about sex and from what she has heard from friends/ other women... She will most likely eventually become sexually frustrated in the long run if the husband refuses to improve on it

dairykidd:


True.. but i have met a great number of girls who were hell bent on loosing their hymen so they could be wild and reckless. No attachment to u whatsoever. Its just like u helped them cross a busy street.. Now even if her first sex was crap on her wedding night she may know if she's the inquisitive type that has gathered knowledge from reading about sex and from what she has heard from friends/ other women... She will most likely eventually become sexually frustrated in the long run if the husband refuses to improve on it

they're hell bent on losing their hymen and give it to a random guy. But unwittingly these women get imprinted by that type of guy. Complicating their life.

Sixfeetbelle:
Just like the title, I wish to make some things clear since a lot of misunderstanding rose from a single comment I posted on a thread that I didn't realise would ever hit front page. I'm not yet familiar with attaching links, so bear with me.

The comment: "That's why I pity men who want to marry virgins as a measure to hide their awful bedmatics. Women gossips about their sex life and before you know it, virgin wife will want to experience all these things but won't tell the husband cause 'she's a virgin and shouldn't know about those things'. Las las, na Okey, your driver that will educate her more"

I'll reiterate it as often as I feel it until at least some men pick up on it and improve which was the intention behind the harmless post in the first place.


Being a virgin doesn't mean the lady is an ignorant introverted fool. On the contrary, I believe a virgin, especially in this day and age, is someone who isn't ignorant about sexual practices, probably has some sexual fantasies of her own, who isn't introverted and shy and yet, refused to join the bandwagon of those who believe in immediate gratification. There are exceptions, but I believe this is what is more obtainable.

Having the above definition in mind, I made that statement, hoping men would key into that insight. However the numerous mentions I received showed me starkly that comprehension is quite hard to grasp. So I'll go further and add.

"If you're a one-minute man, marrying a virgin won't help your issue later on in your marriage. She may deal with it now but with time, it would turn into a big problem. If the only sex positions you know are missionary and doggie style (which some learnt about five years ago), trust me, you need to be more versatile in the other room. It will definitely help your marriage with a virgin wife in the long run. Some virgins may confide in you if they don't feel satisfied, some won't say anything (maybe from upbringing), some may have low libido and be okay with it while some will have high libido and crave more. There are lots of possibilities. How would you deal with the excesses?

In addition, like someone explained to me, virgins attach to their first sexual whoever. If you blow her mind (and her pucci) on the first night, chances are she'll always think of you, even if you guys end up separating or divorcing. I've heard women talk about a 'womb shifting' experience and the like and I can tell the man was exceptional. Wouldn't you like to give that experience to your virgin wife on her first night? Don't you think such experience will attach her to you completely? Don't say because she's a virgin, she won't know. That's like being overconfident. I wish you would apply wisdom when it comes to dealing with female nature.

Which brings me back to why I made this post: the mentions were too much last night. It was looking like a mini attack tbh. I do not appreciate publicity in that manner especially when some men missed the point totally and were weighing virgin versus non-virgins and declaring they will marry virgins. Trust me, I wish above all else that those who sincerely want virgin wives will find and marry them. Hopefully, if they marry their choice, divorce rates will lower.


NB: To those who sent emails, I appreciate them but I'm afraid I won't be replying them now. The heat is too much and I'd like to believe your email wasn't prompted because you misunderstood my post. If you're sincere, you can send an email on a later date and time. My apologies.

Thank you.

I personally think you are a wonderful, honest and truth revealing lady.

Men up this men up that, what are women actually uping?


Like, I build my physique, up my character/attitude, up my finances etc and still up my bedmatics?


I guess this is post for those that their life revolve around pleasing women because I personally don't care.
Someone said yesterday that a man should be able to last at least 20 minutes in bed, this doesn't include time for fore play and I was wondering why I will waste my precious 20 minutes on top of a woman?


Pak N Go if you're not satisfied.


It's that simple.

Dangrace01:
What if the woman is bad in bed?

Majority of them are, they will just lay back there like a log and moan like a cat in labour but you don't see them talk about it.

Ardar:


Free which men? How will I work on an orgasm when the guy can't even last long enough for me to reach there. Or will I still continue when his di.ck is placid?.

It's not a man's fault that you ladies pride in coming late in everything.

Stingy people that can't let go of ordinary cum.


If you can't come then dress up an go.

Sixfeetbelle:
Just like the title, I wish to make some things clear since a lot of misunderstanding rose from a single comment I posted on a thread that I didn't realise would ever hit front page. I'm not yet familiar with attaching links, so bear with me.

The comment: "That's why I pity men who want to marry virgins as a measure to hide their awful bedmatics. Women gossips about their sex life and before you know it, virgin wife will want to experience all these things but won't tell the husband cause 'she's a virgin and shouldn't know about those things'. Las las, na Okey, your driver that will educate her more"

I'll reiterate it as often as I feel it until at least some men pick up on it and improve which was the intention behind the harmless post in the first place.


Being a virgin doesn't mean the lady is an ignorant introverted fool. On the contrary, I believe a virgin, especially in this day and age, is someone who isn't ignorant about sexual practices, probably has some sexual fantasies of her own, who isn't introverted and shy and yet, refused to join the bandwagon of those who believe in immediate gratification. There are exceptions, but I believe this is what is more obtainable.

Having the above definition in mind, I made that statement, hoping men would key into that insight. However the numerous mentions I received showed me starkly that comprehension is quite hard to grasp. So I'll go further and add.

"If you're a one-minute man, marrying a virgin won't help your issue later on in your marriage. She may deal with it now but with time, it would turn into a big problem. If the only sex positions you know are missionary and doggie style (which some learnt about five years ago), trust me, you need to be more versatile in the other room. It will definitely help your marriage with a virgin wife in the long run. Some virgins may confide in you if they don't feel satisfied, some won't say anything (maybe from upbringing), some may have low libido and be okay with it while some will have high libido and crave more. There are lots of possibilities. How would you deal with the excesses?

In addition, like someone explained to me, virgins attach to their first sexual whoever. If you blow her mind (and her pucci) on the first night, chances are she'll always think of you, even if you guys end up separating or divorcing. I've heard women talk about a 'womb shifting' experience and the like and I can tell the man was exceptional. Wouldn't you like to give that experience to your virgin wife on her first night? Don't you think such experience will attach her to you completely? Don't say because she's a virgin, she won't know. That's like being overconfident. I wish you would apply wisdom when it comes to dealing with female nature.

Which brings me back to why I made this post: the mentions were too much last night. It was looking like a mini attack tbh. I do not appreciate publicity in that manner especially when some men missed the point totally and were weighing virgin versus non-virgins and declaring they will marry virgins. Trust me, I wish above all else that those who sincerely want virgin wives will find and marry them. Hopefully, if they marry their choice, divorce rates will lower.


NB: To those who sent emails, I appreciate them but I'm afraid I won't be replying them now. The heat is too much and I'd like to believe your email wasn't prompted because you misunderstood my post. If you're sincere, you can send an email on a later date and time. My apologies.

Thank you.

I quoted you purposely because I wanted to tell you something. For a man to be good in bed, he needs to explore different pussies as they say practice makes perfect

1. Pray your husband/boyfriend is not in the practicing stage if he is then you are an experiment and you would be dumped

2. Don't complain when your boyfriend/husband cheats because he is only perfecting his skills.

Typing.........

CAPSLOCKED:
FINALLY, WHO NO FIT, NO FIT.

"UP YOUR SEXUAL GAME" IS THE REASON MANY DUMB BOYS AND THEIR FATHERS INJEST ALL KINDS OF UNHEALTHY SUBSTANCES IN ORDER TO IMITATE PORNSTARS.

THE ONLY DEAL HERE IS WHEN THOSE DRUGS AND DRINKS RUIN YOUR LIFE OR EVEN KILLS YOU, THE WOMEN YOU'RE UPPING GAME FOR SWITCHES TO OTHER MEN WHO HAVE UPPED THEIR GAME, AND THE CYCLE CONTINUES.

NOBODY GIVES A PISS ABOUT YOU WHEN YOU'RE BROKEN OR DEAD. THERE'S A LONG QUEUE OF MANY DUMBER CLIENTS WHO BOAST OF HAVING GAME, WAITING TO REPLACE YOU, SO THESE WOMEN ARE NEVER RUN OUT OF OPTIONS. NEVER.

IF YOU CAN'T FIND A PARTNER THAT MATCHES YOUR CAPABILITIES, "SWIM YOUR OWN SWIM AND MAKE WAY FOR OTHER SWIMMERS".

YOU'RE NOT A DEEP SEA DIVER! .

my brother Lol. I swear you be werey!

From the guy that I first had sex with to the others that I've banged, they were all poor in bed. Their own is to cum after two minutes and lie on the bed panting like as though they just fought a dragon with their bare hands.

Sexually lazy men, ngwa nu I'll stay on top and do all the work still the same result.

Pls how much is a vibrator I need it.

The better the sex = stronger bond.

Ardar:
From the guy that I first had sex with to the others that I've banged, they were all poor in bed. Their own is to cum after two minutes and lie on the bed panting like as though they just fought a dragon with their bare hands.

Sexually lazy men, ngwa nu I'll stay on top and do all the work still the same result.

Pls how much is a vibrator I need it.

Why didn't you work out your orgasm when on top, that shows you are bad in bed, free the men.

BigJoe19:
Why didn't you work out your orgasm when on top, that shows you are bad in bed, free the men.

Free which men? How will I work on an orgasm when the guy can't even last long enough for me to reach there. Or will I still continue when his di.ck is placid?.

Ardar:


Free which men? How will I work on an orgasm when the guy can't even last long enough for me to reach there. Or will I still continue when his di.ck is placid?.

Use your time well, a woman that is good in bed will cum on time.

All this girls nor go let us rest.

Men do this, men do that, abeg shey make we kill ourselves before una go satisfy??

Abeg ehn babe wen nor satisfy on top the one I give her make she go front go collect the remaining one. I nor fit kill myself on top kpekus matter naw. Who die na he lose.

BigJoe19:
Use your time well, a woman that is good in bed will cum on time.

It takes two to tangle, whether the woman is good in bed or not will not make a difference as long as the man can't last long enough.

The only job you have to do as a man is to remain stiff long enough for the woman to reach the promise Land, you don't even have to move your hips just lay down and let her do the moving.

wizdomnzube:
All this girls nor go let us rest.

Men do this, men do that, abeg shey make we kill ourselves before una go satisfy??

Abeg ehn babe wen nor satisfy on top the one I give her make she go front go collect the remaining one. I nor fit kill myself on top kpekus matter naw. Who die na he lose.

Make we let una rest when na una dey open thread about women every day and night.

We don catch una today, all these 40 seconds men dem.

Ardar:


Free which men? How will I work on an orgasm when the guy can't even last long enough for me to reach there. Or will I still continue when his di.ck is placid?.

Flaccid.

Ada o, are you in Awka presently? Let's go out on a date.

Jimbadly:


Flaccid.

Ada o, are you in Awka presently? Let's go out on a date.

All of them follow. I dey PH.

Ardar:


All of them follow. I dey PH.

Oh, okay.

Ardar:


Make we let una rest when na una dey open thread about women every day and night.

We don catch una today, all these 40 seconds men dem.

Hahahaha for the fact say we nor one kill ourselves on top kpekus nor mean say nor be 40 seconds oh.

But in case u one know as e be u fit come make we collide.

Make una sha let us rest abeg. To be a man for naija nor be cherekambia

One minute Men with dot diicks won't like this thread.

Tallesty1:
Majority of them are, they will just lay back there like a log and moan like a cat in labour but you don't see them talk about it.



It's not a man's fault that you ladies pride in coming late in everything.

Stingy people that can't let go of ordinary cum.


If you can't come then dress up an go .