Alert: long post

Ave personally noticed these traits in most Nairaland threads, there is a myth that Virgin wives don't cheat, complain about sex and make the best wives.

Just like everything in life, there are two sides to a coin, when you throw it, then you're gaming with probability. I have a completely different experience with virgins, and from experience, they are the most shallow-minded, easy to deceive, arrogant type of women. Hold on, let me tell you about my experience with my Virgin girlfriend.

So this happened about 6 years ago, I had a store where I sold Smart Phones, there was this girl that always comes with one phone problem or the other, she was very respectful and too composed, she had just entered the Uni, about 20 at that time. She was also very beautiful, you can tell she's not always around people. I liked her a lot but she doesn't come all the time so I stole her number because she refused to give me .

My neighbor also liked her and advised me to ask her out, I was 24 then. So I did ask her out but she refused, she said I just wanted to have sex with her and destroy her future, I tried to convince her but she wouldn't accept. So my neighbor who's married with two kids stepped in, one of those days she came to see me, she called her to come to see her, and they started talking. My neighbor asked her why she doesn't like me and that I am a really nice person, she told her she's scared cause she hasn't dated anyone before and she doesn't want to have sex now. My neighbor told her I'm not like that and she shouldn't worry about having sex with me if she doesn't, that I'm ready to respect her decision. So later that evening she accepted on a condition of no sex relationship.

We dated a few months, then things began to change. It started when I decided to get her a new phone, she was worried her Mom would ask questions, so I convinced her to use anyone she can trust, she told me she had a friend who was close to her Mom, I asked her to bring her friend so we can plan the whole thing. Her friend came the next day so I gave her the phone and she agreed to go to my girlfriend's house and give her the phone in the presence of her mother. My girlfriend got the phone so that night she chatted with me on Whatsapp, she told me how happy she was then the conversation quickly changed. She told me her friend thinks am very handsome, and said I'll be good in bed, I was shocked but laughed it off.

The next day I got a message on Whatsapp, it was her friend. I used the opportunity to thank her for her help, she ignored me and wasn't responding. The next thing she told me was, why are you deceiving my friend? I was like excuse me, what do you mean? She said I know you're a player, what I don't know is why you're with her and screwing someone else. I simply laughed and told her my intentions for my girlfriend are genuine and I'm not cheating on her.
She told me to shut up, that she saw the way I was looking at her Ass! I don't remember staring at this girl in any way, so whatever game she was up to I'm too old for it. I told her not to chat me up again, and I'll block and report her to her friend, she started begging that she's sorry and she just wanted to know what I'll say, that I'm too handsome and she's only looking out for her friend.

A few days later my GF, she started telling me she's worried and thinks I'm having sex with someone else, she told me she's not ready to lose me and she wants us to have sex, I got very angry and told her that her friend is a bad influence, and she shouldn't keep such person as her friend, I told her about our encounter, she was angry. She told me she's not even her friend but her mom's friend but she's surprised she got my number and chatted me without her permission.

My girlfriend was still interested in sex, sometimes she will chat me up saying she wanted us to kiss and romance, and we've never done any of that, so I invited her.

When she came she was super nervous, I made her comfortable as much as possible, then one thing led to another, and we began kissing and romancing, immediately I observed she was a complete novice, she didn't know how to kiss, where to touch, how to react and she was super wet. Ave never saw a girl so wet in my life until this day, like the Hot was literally dripping!
Then the heat was so much I couldn't hold it off, pulled down my pants and went straight to insert and met a roadblock, she screamed! She was too tight and I was having trouble penetrating her. I decided to take a different approach and finger her first but the pain from the one I did already was much, even with a finger, the grip was so tight, she lost the vibe and told me she wanted to go. I knew she was truly a Virgin then my love for her grew even more.

One day, I noticed she was going to church more often and not coming to see me like she used to. When we chat, she will tell me she wants to sleep cause she's reading at midnight for her exams. But then I noticed she's not online on Whatsapp but online on Facebook. I know a few things about Hacking, and Social engineering, most people use easy passwords so I immediately guessed with her phone number and I had access. I started reading her chat, and immediately saw this guy she recently chatted. This guy lives in her church street, she just saw him the previous day, from her conversation the guy made her believe he was rich, had invited her to see him and she had seen him about 3 times. The second visit, they had sex. In fact, she was telling him he was rough, and she couldn't walk well afterward, the guy was telling her he's supposed to be rough and she needs to take the pain cause that's how it's supposed to be for now and soon she will begin to like it. The 3rd visit which happened to be the previous day they also had sex. I got angry and furious when I confronted her she accepted, said she's sorry and begged but I was done and so over with her.

Then I dated another Virgin girl years later, this one was 23, her problem was massive. She complains a lot and suspects every single move. They have this mindset that if they don't give you sex then you're getting it somewhere else and every female is a suspect. She was a complete novice too and I caught her asking her friend to teach her how to give BJ. No doubt she was looking for ways to compensate, her only problem is pride. She believed that since she's a virgin, she was a princess so she can ask for anything and expect you to do it. I couldn't cope with that attitude so we broke up.

I was also close to my Pastor then and knew he married his wife a Virgin, I used to go to their house to help with a few things and the wife would brag about how she kept it for him. It seemed like a perfect marriage until they had their first child, she became something else and wasn't very supportive. My Pastor would complain low key, and ask me to talk to her since he knew we where close. But I never did. One day they had a big fight and the church elders heard the news which led to his suspension. Soon after he was transferred to another branch and his wife refused to relocate with him, the marriage crashed for several reasons they couldn't sort out, and today they are fighting for child custody in court. She remarried and he's still single and damaged from the failed marriage.

The girl I'm dating now is not a Virgin, but she completes me, I mean she's the best woman I have ever seen. From cooking skills to bed skills I can never ask for more. She's also extremely beautiful, I used to be worried because she's too pretty but finally had peace of mind after countless guys came and left in rejection. Getting married to her is my next mission and nothing else.

I know this is a long post, but I had to go into detail because this myth is false. Just like everything in life, there are opposite sides, a Virgin can cheat and a Prostitute can turn loyal. We are faced with choices as humans and we decide our own faith. Marrying a virgin doesn't guarantee a happy marriage, marrying a prostitute doesn't guarantee she'll cheat. People make such conclusions from the turn of events, forgetting that those events were made by choices the people took. That armed robber, that kidnapper, that doctor, took that choice to be who they are. Yes events could try to influence you, but it's still you who makes that decision at the end. If a virgin girl decides to cheat nothing is stopping her! If a prostitute decides to be loyal all it takes is commitment, ave seen a prostitute turn pastor, married with kids. My neighbor married his wife a Virgin, they have 4 children, she's over 30 and guesses what, she's trying to cheat with me. Telling me she can come to see me if I want, texting me on Whatsapp at midnight and sh#t like that. This is a woman whose husband was bragging about her virginity to me.

So F#$k this myth, it's complete BS, marry a good woman, marry your best friend, sex fades away, you're not going to be Hot like you are now when you're 40, that fat ass and tight p@#sy won't matter to you in 5 years after marriage. What makes a good marriage is a genuine love, that person that makes you laugh and feel like a child, that asks you about your problems and suggests to help or advise you, that prays for you, takes care of you in her own way. That's the person you should marry!

Sadly, this useless epistle cannot make a non-virgin lady a virgin.

You guys keep recycling this BS over and over again.

You've said it all. I have seen virgins grow from hero to zero and vice versa. It is short sighted people that believe a virgin will always be good or will always turn bad. It's a personality thing. I've cut 5 hymens and when I joke with one of them about how naive she was and how she was so clingy after she laughs and says she was a small girl then. And when I ask if she can still love me the way she did back then she says it wasnt love but naivety. Now money matters more to her than love...
I pity those who think a virgin means automatic faithfulness. The virgin I'm going to cut soon has told me so much that if not that I've tried her I'd doubt she's a virgin. With access to internet, porn, pictures of big dicks and all one village man will want to marry city girl and expect she'll be docile all her life? I pity that man on that other thread saying be wants to be like his forefathers

nothing special

Hmm.. Prof was here

I read from the beginning to end. I'm currently dating one, but what I'm interested is, toturials on hacking and social engineering or any links to that regard. Please

akaahs:
I read from the beginning to end. I'm currently dating one, but what I'm interested is, toturials on hacking and social engineering or any links to that regard. Please

It's not a subject we can discuss here before I chop ban

A being actually typed this looooooooonnnnggggg post on Virgins?

Nice write up

Virgins are the best. This post may try to discourage young girls from keeping their virginity but I put it to u guys that if u do keep it, u won't regret it.

But in doing so, try and explore on the topic called sex. Don't be naive about it. Know all there is to know about it, so when u and your husband finally do it, he will be hooked. Just saying

No long epistle... Men don't want to be compared and contrasted with other gits so they prefer virgins who'll think they're the greatest...

Never ever take all these people serious.many are attention seekers.

When you read their reasons why they want a virgin, you will start laughing.

They are still children many of them, many haven't even dated before.

My own is simple, virgin or no virgin, if a woman want to be good for only you she will be. If she wants to sleep around, there is nothing you can do about it.

Your opinion, your view.
Guyz, if you have the opportunity to marry a virgin, please grab it with both hands. The possibility of a virgin sleeping around can never be greater than a non-virgin.

And your case is just one of the unfortunate FEWS.

ubunja1:
Never ever take all these people serious.many are attention seekers.

When you read their reasons why they want a virgin, you will start laughing.

They are still children many of them, many haven't even dated before.

My own is simple, virgin or no virgin, if a woman want to be good for only you she will be. If she wants to sleep around, there is nothing you can do about it.

Thats not true, addiction is stronger than decision.

Alfather:
Thats not true, addiction is stronger than decision.

That's the fake Ubunja. Report this account.. Cc:Ubunja

DominusPrime:
You've said it all. I have seen virgins grow from hero to zero and vice versa. It is short sighted people that believe a virgin will always be good or will always turn bad. It's a personality thing. I've cut 5 hymens and when I joke with one of them about how naive she was and how she was so clingy after she laughs and says she was a small girl then. And when I ask if she can still love me the way she did back then she says it wasnt love but naivety. Now money matters more to her than love...
I pity those who think a virgin means automatic faithfulness. The virgin I'm going to cut soon has told me so much that if not that I've tried her I'd doubt she's a virgin. With access to internet, porn, pictures of big dicks and all one village man will want to marry city girl and expect she'll be docile all her life? I pity that man on that other thread saying be wants to be like his forefathers

Smh!!!

Fountainofyouth:



Smh!!!

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Fountainofyouth:



Smh!!!

Seriously I don't know why this pains u so much. A guy cut you, he has moved on. You've also had other dicks too. It's the same thing with over 95% of the girls around u. What's so special in it. It was done to u too so...by the way hope this lockdown is treating you kindly. Pls stay safe ok.

DominusPrime:

Seriously I don't know why this pains u so much. A guy cut you, he has moved on. You've also had other dicks too. It's the same thing with over 95% of the girls around u. What's so special in it. It was done to u too so...

You are irritating, you are about to cut some innocent girl like it's nothing and then move on to the next one, same way i'm sure you did to Big, and you make it seem as if it's no big deal, as much as being a virgin doesnt guarantee a successful happy marriage, you have got to respect the virtue of it, it will continue to be a prize and something to be proud of you schmuck, I only pity the girl you're about to cut cos it's obvious you are a certified asshole.

Dreiwizzy:
That's the fake Ubunja. Report this account.. Cc:Ubunja

ubunja come and see impersonation

ImModern:
Virgins are the best. This post may try to discourage young girls from keeping their virginity but I put it to u guys that if u do keep it, u won't regret it.

But in doing so, try and explore on the topic called sex. Don't be naive about it. Know all there is to know about it, so when u and your husband finally do it, he will be hooked. Just saying

,,,1000 likes

DominusPrime:
It's a personality thing. I've cut 5 hymens

I want to personally shout....

OSHEY....BADDEST!!!!

Virginity is not a price that should be won.
It won't make it to a list of 10 attributes in a lady that'll determine whether or not to marry her. Virginity should only be an icing on the cake. If you have a nasty character, I won't give a sh1t about your virginity. Ladies should work on themselves. Anyway, I believe if you comport yourself with dignity and are well behaved, you will know better than to be sleeping around.

ImModern:
Virgins are the best. This post may try to discourage young girls from keeping their virginity but I put it to u guys that if u do keep it, u won't regret it.

But in doing so, try and explore on the topic called sex. Don't be naive about it. Know all there is to know about it, so when u and your husband finally do it, he will be hooked. Just saying

Whores with wide Pussi won’t like this..

Oloshos and community sperm depots are using male monikers to convince us to settle with a pussy that has been ravaged by pricks citing characters as the main thing to look out for.

you get character and no fit keep her kpekus for pant, which kind half baked character be dat?

keep fuçking around shogbo? na you get your body and no be me go marry you.

Fountainofyouth:



You are irritating, you are about to cut some innocent girl like it's nothing and then move on to the next one, same way i'm sure you did to Big, and you make it seem as if it's no big deal, as much as being a virgin doesnt guarantee a successful happy marriage, you have got to respect the virtue of it, it will continue to be a prize and something to be proud of you schmuck, I only pity the girl you're about to cut cos it's obvious you are a certified asshole.

You should have thought of this when u let a dick into u. And why didn't you stop at that dick too? Stop forming selfrighteous ok...with all you've said now one would think you will stop having sex o...no...but you still get pained when u hear stuff like this...

And talking about respecting that virtue, over 95% of girls do not respect it, not even you respected your virginity(although you will claim you were young and naive and that you regret it...story for the gods), so who am I to respect it? Many years back when I was young and naive...lol...I helped a girl preserve her virginity. We agreed on no sex. Then one day I couldn't help it and then I forced my way in. As usual she was tight and it hurt then she begged me not to. No, she didn't stop me physically. She just lay there with her palms covering her face in pain while I struggled with inexperience. After a few minutes of trying I came all over her laps...I didn't want her to think I was done so I lied to her that I'll stop cos I want her to know that I respect her and all that lovey dovey weakling, simpleton, bullshit we say cos of love...lmao...the most regrettable lie I ever told. Last time we talked about it she laughed at me and told me if I had done it that day she still would have moved on to other dicks. So it was my loss. Back then it really pained me seeing her steady collect pric.k from an egbon in my area whom we played ball together. At that point she had grown past me socially and was never interested in me again. I still have her to thank for the lesson she taught me and we are still good friends till today.

drealcivilceno:


I want to personally shout....

OSHEY....BADDEST!!!!

Bruv...its not a price or something to make me feel accomplished. Infact it's nothing to me just the same way your first million is a big deal but subsequent millions look like you are not growing as fast. I don't count myself as bad but more like I'm a normal, regular guy.

ubunja1:
Never ever take all these people serious.many are attention seekers.

When you read their reasons why they want a virgin, you will start laughing.

They are still children many of them, many haven't even dated before.

My own is simple, virgin or no virgin, if a woman want to be good for only you she will be. If she wants to sleep around, there is nothing you can do about it.

You are not ubunja. Stop forcing it. Develop your brand.

Eberechi24:


You are not ubunja. Stop forcing it. Develop your brand.

Who said I was ubunjja, little fan girl, I am ubunja01, now run along.

Brand my ass.

grossintel:
It's not a subject we can discuss here before I chop ban

Just drop it here akaahs2014@gmail.com. thanks