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I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 7:27pm On Apr 08, 2020
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Sisijetue(f): 7:29pm On Apr 08, 2020
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 7:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
I didn't bother to read all that u wrote but I know one thing for certain



It will always end in tears.

Pls guys, share this post incase of next time


He will come back to talk abt how a lady ruined his business..

Who has watched Money heist?

Professor mixed business with pleasure and things turned upside down...

The truth is whenever u mix business with pleasure, pleasure takes over... Emotion isn't a good thing for a good business man



thanks...

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by myfan: 7:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
Let me hear from others

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by dukeprince50: 7:33pm On Apr 08, 2020
I read the first five lines and got tired cos u only mentioning ur achievements, Goodluck to whatever made u create the thread

Annie001:

Inferiority complex
Is he suppose to mention your own achievement
Yeye
seriously?
Are u mentally ok?
I got tired of reading cos I never saw what I was looking for after reading the first five lines and u call it inferiority complex? I was expecting the highest insult to be lazy youth or something close.

Some of u ehn, ur stupidity is overwhelming

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by MrsYamLeg(f): 7:35pm On Apr 08, 2020
dukeprince50:
I read the first five lines and got tired cos u only mentioning ur achievements, Goodluck to whatever made u create the thread

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by FreQ: 7:37pm On Apr 08, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin


Suegbe grin

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Sisijetue(f): 7:42pm On Apr 08, 2020
Ode grin
FreQ:



Suegbe grin

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by jossydaf: 7:42pm On Apr 08, 2020
Follow your heart,I HV a friend that got married to her employee and his business is doing fine,pray and ask for God direction

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 7:51pm On Apr 08, 2020
dukeprince50:
I read the first five lines and got tired cos u only mentioning ur achievements, Goodluck to whatever made u create the thread
Lol

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by xendra: 7:55pm On Apr 08, 2020
dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by adexpa(m): 7:56pm On Apr 08, 2020
If you never marry n you think she can be a good wife, you can do proper findings about her and if you are satisfy with the information you gathered, you can go on to let her know your plans for her. You will have to restrict the public activities to a reasonable level in order to guide her against hatred n jealousy from others ( I mean you need maturity to handle it). Do your findings well before jumping into decision cus human are pretentious in nature.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by ednut1(m): 8:00pm On Apr 08, 2020
All these men wey no fit separate business and pleasure. Shame

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ekakamba: 8:06pm On Apr 08, 2020
OP allow that small girl rest.

Even if she no like you small, she'll still accept you for the fear of losing her job.


Guy you no dey see girls outside apart from shop? grin tongue

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 8:17pm On Apr 08, 2020
dukeprince50:
I read the first five lines and got tired cos u only mentioning ur achievements, Goodluck to whatever made u create the thread
I assure you that was not my intention

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 8:19pm On Apr 08, 2020
xendra:
dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.
Ma'am she's an undergraduate and I'm very sure she has a lot of admirers asking her out already, what if the window of my opportunity close

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 8:22pm On Apr 08, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin
I know what I want, but at the same time I want to thread carefully that is why I brought the matter here so I can get advice from people.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Karleb(m): 8:24pm On Apr 08, 2020
This is how some of us end up losing good girls.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 8:24pm On Apr 08, 2020
Ekakamba:
OP allow that small girl rest.

Even if she no like you small, she'll still accept you for the fear of losing her job.


Guy you no dey see girls outside apart from shop? grin tongue


Your point is valid,but the girl is showing some affections,like sometimes she'd rather help me in the shop that go out with her friends even when it is her time out,so I don't want to betray that and at the same time I do not want to overstep my boundaries

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by nwaimoroseyaho: 8:25pm On Apr 08, 2020
Monitor her very well without her knowledge and if satisfied marry her. My brother getting a good wife now is becoming difficult. If you see one don't let anything stop you.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 8:28pm On Apr 08, 2020
nwaimoroseyaho:
Monitor her very well without her knowledge and if satisfied marry her. My brother getting a good wife now is becoming difficult. If you see one don't let anything stop you.
Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Karleb(m): 8:30pm On Apr 08, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:

Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.

Forget the age bro.

The most important is the compatibility.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Bluezy13(m): 8:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
Oga Emeka...!!!


So na wetin you and Felisha dey do be dis ??

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 8:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
Karleb:


Forget the age bro.

The most important is the compatibility.
Thanks bro

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by nwaimoroseyaho: 8:36pm On Apr 08, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:

Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.

I repeat do not let anything stop you

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Cholls(m): 8:48pm On Apr 08, 2020
my brother this message is not for you ooo. So ignore if your feelings say you should.


Hmmm!!! Women! Women! Women! always on a mission to hunt a Beta(Gamma) provider....Hmmm! Women their Modus Operandi is to first act as if they are not with you for your money....try given or paying for something on her behalf,she will decline as if she's not interesting in your money....wait till she go for the kill when make you fall in love....you're trapped (screams) Gbeseeee!.....come and see the way she go start Demand from her Maga left to right knowing fully well Brother wey mumu don fall in love no where to go.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Karleb(m): 8:50pm On Apr 08, 2020
nwaimoroseyaho:


I repeat do not let anything stop you

My HOD in school married a girl from the department, they are now have 5 kids and counting, also, the lady now works in the same department.

My Project supervisor did the same.

No matter your choice, people are going to talk. So just do what's best for you.

Undergraduate girls might not be as bad as NL paint them, at least I know few of my colleagues (girls) that are now married, many are seriously engaged (according to them).

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by OKOATA(m): 8:56pm On Apr 08, 2020
You said she makes more sales than you then that means she corroborate with your spirit and business with her good marketing skills and that’s an added advantage to you, just monitor her like some people said and instead of dating her just propose and marry her immediately that way you both are good.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Peemonny(m): 8:57pm On Apr 08, 2020
I second this u shud really consider this
xendra:
dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by dubezra: 9:42pm On Apr 08, 2020
What the girl is doing; seems like acting a role of a wife material to get into ur head-she knows you are due for marriage.
Do a background check,to find out whether caring is really her nature,and every other thing she does.To know if its an act or true character and when you are satisfied with what u see.Take a shot! Descent girls are scarse

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Ishitinyourlife: 10:36pm On Apr 08, 2020
xendra:
dont date her, that's only when it ends in tears;
you have all it takes to monitor her, seeing how she already works with you, she's close. know all you need to know about her and if you still like her; only ask to marry her, then do it as soon as she accepts. otherwise tongues will wag till doubts sets in and she gives up

just gave my advice from experience. that's exactly what happened where my friend worked.
Thank you very much, this got me thinking

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Lamanii22(f): 10:44pm On Apr 08, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin


Hahahaha... Abi... OP just go ahead...

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