EDDYBABA01:


I really enjoy your YouTube channel imma going to subscribe right now!!

thank you

Swiitdoll:

That’s great. I’m sure they’d easily find a lovely woman that has all the above qualities in Nigeria as well

Hope you are safe, indoors?

Designer123:
One of my guy in Canada said Nigerian women there are mad at him because he is dating a white Canadian.

Well, 'women' you said!
That explains to us the High level of Loneliness that has made them 'mad' because they saw the guy and they thought, he is Easy to Get. That means that getting another is Extremely Difficult.
These women should try and Hustle for their man, just as the guy hustled for His Girl, because Neither of these is That Easy

Nevertheless, after blindness that is the worst sickness of man, Being Lonely is second in command!
Na to go Canada on Holiday, after corovid 19 virus dies down completely, to see how it is over there.
Loneliness is a destructible Emotional Assassin!
Nawa oo

Decryptor:


Odiegwu! The egoistic nature of Nigerian women and "shame" will never allow her to reach out to her parents to reach out in turn to the parents on a guy here in Nigeria to start a relationship. Nigerian ladies will rather die with that warped mentality that A MAN MUST WOO THEM hence their dilemma there in Canada!

But you are still the one that will call us cheap with low self-esteem.

Iyajelili:


But you are still the one that will call us cheap with low self-esteem.

Haha don't mind him

EVILFOREST:

THE SAME with the US.
PEOPLE buy vests for DOGS here.
People pay as high as $3000USD to get back their missing dogs and cats.
I was Lucky because my WIFE had tasted WEALTH and Exposure and, she was brought up well, so she had already planned what she wanted.
She just loved being married.
Despite her WEALTH, she Loved me more and now cherishes the marriage.
I have never seen that kind of woman before.

I saw LADIES, but they were Leeches.
I don't mind getting MARRIED to a Good WIDOW with kids, or loving and caring BABY MAMA, but what I never tolerated was a JEZEBEL no matter her virginity.

And you are right.. Here in the US, there are many homeless people mostly men. But never have I seen a homeless dog ....

Iyajelili:


But you are still the one that will call us cheap with low self-esteem.

I for one values a woman who walks up to me to tell me how she feels about me. The oes i call cheap are those lazy ones who go half naked on social media like Badoo or stand by the roadside using their bodies to feed!

Decryptor:


I for one values a woman who walks up to me to tell me how she feels about me. The oes i call cheap are those lazy ones who go half naked on social media like Badoo or stand by the roadside using their bodies to feed!

Thank God for your orientation. Do you know how many guys some of us have missed the opportunity to date simply because of the stigmatization of such mentality.

EVILFOREST:

You are advising him to remain in Naija.
BUHARI dey gree stay for Naija..
No be CORONAVIRUS keep BUHARI for Naija...?
Who no like GooD LIFE.

Even BUHARI knows that ASO ROCK can't fetch him 24hrs power supply, that's why you see him running out of the country to COOL OFF.
How can a 2020 Presidential Palace be running on GENERATOR 24/7...?
that's Madness

You're so funny man! No wonder u got lucky with that woman. i like ur vibe sha. Is there a way we can communicate aside NL? Or do u have a group on whatsapp or telegram?

whizqueen:

Just seeing this. Message me on Instagram or Twitter @whiz_queen

I messaged you in Instagram siiiince but you didn't reply up till now
And you're active on IG o *sobbing*

Albertone:
I messaged you in Instagram siiiince but you didn't reply up till now
And you're active on IG o *sobbing*

I can only see messages of people I follow. Lol what’s your handle? I’d DM you

whizqueen:

I can only see messages of people I follow. Lol what’s your handle? I’d DM you

Really?Your version of IG no be here lol
I am: @Haykeense

whizqueen:

I can only see messages of people I follow. Lol what’s your handle? I’d DM you

_eddybaba

One of the best comment on this thread. Kudos bro!

Nuel4:
so you actually believe your mom wasn't treated as a human by your father? Lol
Look, the problem is that you people scream too much about things you know little to nothing about

You sounded like the wife! How did you know all these?

Mstick:
He cheated on her, she has every DAMN RIGHT to leave the marriage. Because he took her to Canada doesn't give him the right to hurt her.

Where did you get these info from ? Using unthinkable in the context the bolded were written is shocking. Please get your facts right.

Minxie:

1. google it. there are so many examples and incidences of oppression.
2. societal norms change all the time.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that a black person could even walk in the same street as a white person.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that a woman could wear pants.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that people could stop worshipping pagan Gods.

See how society changes? It's fine, nobody is pressuring you to be an advocate for human rights. Just know that society is changing with or without you. There are more people who want the change. After all, norms are determined by the majority. Sorry guy

You really found a jackpot. Now, it is obvious she's the type of woman any sensible man would want. When a woman is rich and she is still humble and matured, I say that's divine.

EVILFOREST:

Thank You so much.
My WIFE is a TRADITIONAL person.
She likes African Villages and Masquerade dances.
And she likes investment so much.
She is not a SLAY QUEEN at all.
KIDS visit Nigeria almost every year.

Ok

shollay09:
Well,any Canadian babes willing to roll with me can send me a message..... Let's get to know each other ..... By the way, na naija I dey oo

����������

I hate loneliness
A lonely mind is a devil’s workshop
Hit me up now,I swear you won’t regret meeting a nice guy like me.
I’m ready to settle down.
I have a house and 2 cars

Kekereekun123:
Its a norm in canada even white girls too are lonely. That why u see them with dog and cats. In a civilized word any lady that wants kids can buy sperm. Unfortunately our 9ja ladies still carry the i must marry mentality to canada. Men don wise. Marriage is a bondage and can ruin you. You can lose your house and still be paying child support join. Who be fool?

honestly this is so funny.

I meant one IJGB, Baba say e wan marry me, but he will never take me abroad. Omo I asked his reasons and you don't wanna hear the reasons. I *shooketh* o

Men yaf wise up honestly

Girlbestfriend:



honestly this is so funny.

I meant one IJGB, Baba say e wan marry me, but he will never take me abroad. Omo I asked his reasons and you don't wanna hear the reasons. I *shooketh* o

Men yaf wise up honestly

This the reason
He know quite alright that when you're over there
You will become the ruler of the house and any small quarrel you will be advised my pear groups to divorce him owning all his hard earn property

ZINIBANKS:

This the reason
He know quite alright that when you're over there
You will become the ruler of the house and any small quarrel you will be advised my pear groups to divorce him owning all his hard earn property

You're not far from the truth(interns of his reply)

But he was assuming. You really do not know much about a person until you live with them.

Sound Take. Well captured.

madridsta007:


It is the Diaspora at large but the case of Canada is particularly striking as the weather, distance between cities, etc make socialising very difficult.

We must say the truth as it is. Nigerian girls, who are not used to approaching a man, largely struggle in the area of a relationship if based in the Diaspora.
1. They are not used to approaching a male.
2. They are not the first of the pick when a responsible Nigerian man-and there are few of this category- is looking to marry. The Nigerian female in the diaspora competes with the white girls, black British/Canadian/American girls who are citizens, other black African girls who are argurably more submissive and, if they are from the Southern part of Africa, we know how their physical structure are . Also, the Nigerian guy would prefer to travel to Nigeria and find a bride based in Nigeria. We know this happens.
3. The Nigerian lady makes a lot of money and because of their hard work, do super well in their career. This is actually commendable. However for most humans, this sadly comes with arrogance, [add the inability to cook] near-zero respect, and too many illogical requirements in a man.
They become more sensible and rational when they are 32, 33 years old and it becomes more difficult at that age. Some are reading this and know this. I know some that actually moved back to Nigeria to try get married.
In the end, they struggle. Hence you see them on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you see them as feminists, etc. Loneliness and depression sets in and, because of pride and the fake strong personae they have built, they dont talk. They rather fight everyone that tries to help them.

I feel for them but they should know that there is always a way out to amend wrongs. First of all, kill pride. Kill it, it wont help you. When you come off as arrogant to a Nigerian man, African man, his spirit leaves the conversation. You can mock it, call him weak, call him "incapable of handling a strong woman", and all those temporary comforting nonsense but it is you that will end up lonely and seeking companionship from YouTube. The Nigerian man has a number of worries and challenges and isnt ready to add another trouble to himself. Next, study the place you want to relocate to. Most people just move without checking. Join and participate in a church, not necessarily student groups as this ends after 1-2 years. Learn how to cook ooo! Make sure you keep and maintain strong contacts in Nigeria. And if you need to take a career break to move to Nigeria to sort out relationship issues, do so. Dont let the presumably good life of the West fool you and make you hit mid-thirties while single.
Make a move. That is the point.

Girlbestfriend:


You're not far from the truth(interns of his reply)

But he was assuming. You really do not know much about a person until you live with them.

And until you live with them (by taking them over there) you don't give them a chance to show they are actually the type to divorce you and take half your wealth.
Warri people have a saying: Dem no dey use blockus test odeshi
Better safe than very very sorry
Kings are waking up

The level of stupidity from these low self esteemed Nigerian men is nauseating.
My beautiful Nigerian ladies, don’t fall for this trash. They want to make themselves more desirable by putting you down. You guys are just a bunch of scared baby boys in diapers talking about how Nigerian Guys prefer to go for exotic women. If you like go for exotic tortoise, who the Bleep cares?? Tell me how long that would last for. By the time you ask her for Fufu and she goes to mix flour and give you pancake to eat with oil water una go sabi body. Look at how disgusted her face turns every time you attempt to make Yoruba food. They hate the smell of Nigerian food so you people will still sneak out to go and eat Amala in Bola’s house. Who is deceiving who? You better begonce!!!!!! How many of these black men stay long term with their so called exotic beautiful white women. How many?? It’s evident everywhere. Check the stats!!!! White men lasts longer with black women than the reverse!!
Ladies, travel the world , make your money, love God and don’t live your lives to please any useless Nigerian untrained boyman. Love will find you at the right time. These guys are a bunch of manipulators with castrated emotions looking for who to bring down. Loneliness Dey everywhere and you’d be surprised that they suffer it the most cos nothing ever seems to satisfy them. Make una go look for wives for heaven. NITWITS!!! You can only feel less of yourself if you allow it. Contrary to popular beliefs, men don’t bring happiness, marriage doesn’t bring happiness especially if you marry for the wrong reasons or the wrong person. You’d crave for your single life because the stress that comes with marriage will age you. Build a strong mind, find happiness in the smallest things and most importantly, block every negativity . Men are indeed SCUM. Get a Love Machine and see how they act scared.
Nigerian men are scared of how independent, intelligent, hardworking, resilient, mature and beautiful our Nigerian women are so they attempt to sell you that exotic bullcrap!

Lol. The one above me is just pained and confused
Foreign women DROOL over Nigerian men. That's a fact.
Foreign men AVOID Nigerian women. That's a fact.
A very SMALL percentage of foreign men seek racial and intellectual superiority in relationships and Nigerian women provide that. Delusions help no one.
That is why there are dozens of posts and appeals from Nigerian and Ghanaian girls who thought life will be better by hooking a foreign mate with their pussys advising their sisters never to fall in the same trap. A great percentage of the foreign men purchase them (YES I SAID PURCHASE) in order to have a mate who they can dehumanize and who will show them the level of submission they cannot get from a white woman

I like how skewed your research is. If it makes you and your weewee feel better by all means. Anything to make yourself happy. So your judgement is based on one small story you read from a Ghanaian woman? chai!!! You better wake up and smell the coffee

crownedrookie:
Lol. The one above me is just pained and confused
Foreign women DROOL over Nigerian men. That's a fact.
Foreign men AVOID Nigerian women. That's a fact.
A very SMALL percentage of foreign men seek racial and intellectual superiority in relationships and Nigerian women provide that. Delusions help no one.
That is why there are dozens of posts and appeals from Nigerian and Ghanaian girls who thought life will be better by hooking a foreign mate with their pussys advising their sisters never to fall in the same trap. A great percentage of the foreign men purchase them (YES I SAID PURCHASE) in order to have a mate who they can dehumanize and who will show them the level of submission they cannot get from a white woman

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nenelistic:
I like how your skewed your research is. ���if you makeshifts and your weewee feel better by all means. Anything to make yourself happy. So your judgement is based on one small story you read from a Ghanaian woman?��� chai!!! You better wake up and smell the coffee

LMFAAOOOOOO!!!! One story?? Did you say one storrryyyy?? ?? You really think the depths of everyones knowledge and experience is limited to what nairaland feeds us right?? LMMMMFFFFFAAAAOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! You have some waking up to do yourself sis!!

Go and find your white woman now and live happily ever and whilst you are it;make sure you don’t cheat cos you might get shot in the head. Racism is still real

crownedrookie:

LMFAAOOOOOO!!!! One story?? Did you say one storrryyyy?? ?? You really think the depths of everyones knowledge and experience is limited to what nairaland feeds us right?? LMMMMFFFFFAAAAOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! You have some waking up to do yourself sis!!

You gave an example based off of an instablog story and not your experience. We know your type. Do what makes you happy and Keep your unhealthy experiences to yourself and your children. Feed them these lies that Nigerian women, including your mum and your sisters are not marriage materials.This life is not one size fits all

crownedrookie:

LMFAAOOOOOO!!!! One story?? Did you say one storrryyyy?? ?? You really think the depths of everyones knowledge and experience is limited to what nairaland feeds us right?? LMMMMFFFFFAAAAOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! You have some waking up to do yourself sis!!