gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

I know lots that returned home to marry husband's back in Naija. It worked for some though but there is one particular one that had to walk out cos of domestic violence. The boy she married wanted to kill her. Beats the hell outa her, beings other women to her house and if she complains, beats her and join. This is only after 3 years of marriage. She had to run for her piece of mind but not before the boy got his papers

JustinNepolian:
The problem is that most Nigerians here don't make deep research about their intended destinations ( Canada, US & parts of Europe)... Those guys over there live a very private life and not being related to any of them makes it difficult to accept you, of which most have trust issues if you happen to be a person of colour.

Your only hope of acceptance is from the church particularly Pentecostals but you've got to prove yourself worthy of their trust like being very committed or joining any department in the church... Too bad if you ain't a church goer of which most indulge to kill boredom.

School is a very good avenue to showcase yourself and talent of which you've got to be at the top of your game...before they somehow get to accept you and as for marriage, those guys are afraid of anything beginning with M- word.

Truth is many people that moved there are surprised, disappointed and depressed with what the got upon arrival. Weather nkwanu...is discouraging because you can't put up with the snow for too long.

If you're a student try to have a girlfriend particularly blacks that are citizens before you graduate... It will help you to break the barrier easily and don't be greedy because it will kill your chances...and this is my conclusion [b]Canada is better than US..100times [/b]and that's if you want peace of mind.

Why do you say so?

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It is the Diaspora at large but the case of Canada is particularly striking as the weather, distance between cities, etc make socialising very difficult.

We must say the truth as it is. Nigerian girls, who are not used to approaching a man, largely struggle in the area of a relationship if based in the Diaspora.
1. They are not used to approaching a male.
2. They are not the first of the pick when a responsible Nigerian man-and there are few of this category- is looking to marry. The Nigerian female in the diaspora competes with the white girls, black British/Canadian/American girls who are citizens, other black African girls who are argurably more submissive and, if they are from the Southern part of Africa, we know how their physical structure are . Also, the Nigerian guy would prefer to travel to Nigeria and find a bride based in Nigeria. We know this happens.
3. The Nigerian lady makes a lot of money and because of their hard work, do super well in their career. This is actually commendable. However for most humans, this sadly comes with arrogance, [add the inability to cook] near-zero respect, and too many illogical requirements in a man.
They become more sensible and rational when they are 32, 33 years old and it becomes more difficult at that age. Some are reading this and know this. I know some that actually moved back to Nigeria to try get married.
In the end, they struggle. Hence you see them on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you see them as feminists, etc. Loneliness and depression sets in and, because of pride and the fake strong personae they have built, they dont talk. They rather fight everyone that tries to help them.

I feel for them but they should know that there is always a way out to amend wrongs. First of all, kill pride. Kill it, it wont help you. When you come off as arrogant to a Nigerian man, African man, his spirit leaves the conversation. You can mock it, call him weak, call him "incapable of handling a strong woman", and all those temporary comforting nonsense but it is you that will end up lonely and seeking companionship from YouTube. The Nigerian man has a number of worries and challenges and isnt ready to add another trouble to himself. Next, study the place you want to relocate to. Most people just move without checking. Join and participate in a church, not necessarily student groups as this ends after 1-2 years. Learn how to cook ooo! Make sure you keep and maintain strong contacts in Nigeria. And if you need to take a career break to move to Nigeria to sort out relationship issues, do so. Dont let the presumably good life of the West fool you and make you hit mid-thirties while single.
Make a move. That is the point.

I'm sorry to comments at this time. But my older cousin in Canada followed a route like this. Took a career break, came to Nigeria, find a man and got married. Now she's happy and told me she's doing finer than before

divorce settlements and govt will give ur house and property to ur divorced wife is probably d reason

That means even the white women over there are lonely too, Omo I don't just understand their government was it a woman that made that law or a man? I want to know.

Lade18:



I'm sorry to comments at this time. But my older cousin in Canada followed a route like this. Took a career break, came to Nigeria, find a man and got married. Now she's happy and told me she's doing finer than before

Glad to hear this. Congratulations to her!

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

big fat lie, these girls dey enjoy abroad life. she no go tell you how many oyibo guys dey her mata because she no wan cast. bliv naija women at your own peril.