princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

Imagine somebody you picked from Nigeria.... they will want to outdo the real Canadians in everything. What did the parents say?

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

Canada is quite expensive. $3500 is not a heck of a lot over there. Translating $ into NGN is not like for like because the purchasing power is quite different..

EVILFOREST:

But you keep saying, you are a VERY FOOLISH BOY
Change that Name first, else na

I no go gree. It will remain like that

Farki:


Nigerian women and jealousy, that's how I was single for years in school, when I started dating one yellow pawpaw the same girls who didn't look my face demanded I break up with her.

Lol
Just like that?
They must be joking

SenecaTheYonger:
From this thread, it seems to me that Nigerian girls have been pampered too much in Nigeria but took it for granted.

They aspire for equality only to land in a country with true equality. I'm sure they miss all the attention they get from men while in Nigeria.

Well, pick your poison i guess.

Hahaha. Kuku knack me stick for head

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

pls hlp a brother out in this lockdown 0241557094 gtbank.anything is welcomed

If I can get only invitation letter and supporting documents I wouldn’t mind marrying any girl ohh.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

Is it the NIGERIAN woman or the system because the last time I checked, white women also take full custody and child support.

You people just want to insult your Naija sisters at every given opportunity.

EVILFOREST:

MY BROTHER the THING that saving me in diaspora today is the Lady that I married.
................ an exceptional Nigerian.

I realized she LOVED me wholeheartedly more than I Loved her then.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, I had a lot of Ladies humming around me with the expectation of marriage but I was confused.
90% of them were leeches and slay Queens.
But when I realized how much this LADY loves me more than I cherish her, I married her immediately and developed undying LOVE for her.
She's a JEWEL.
She Falls Sick, I fall Sick.
While still in the US, She specifically told me that she would like us to rent an apartment where WHITES mainly resided.
I asked her why... and she said, she wanted a have a peaceful home and was not ready for HOME BREAKERS and GOSSIPERS.
MY BROTHER since we started living among the whites, it looks like we just packed in today.
No Troubles, Nobody has your Time.
Yet you get amazing wishes and gifts at birthdays.

This is nice to hear. If I may ask, how does one figure out when a girl or woman loves you more than you love her?

healthserve:


The kids will grow up and ask questions and know the truth. Sorry

it depends on how old they are. If they are still very very young she will poison their minds against their father and his family members

EVILFOREST:

MY BROTHER the THING that saving me in diaspora today is the Lady that I married.
................ an exceptional Nigerian.

I realized she LOVED me wholeheartedly more than I Loved her then.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, I had a lot of Ladies humming around me with the expectation of marriage but I was confused.
90% of them were leeches and slay Queens.
But when I realized how much this LADY loves me more than I cherish her, I married her immediately and developed undying LOVE for her.
She's a JEWEL.
She Falls Sick, I fall Sick.
While still in the US, She specifically told me that she would like us to rent an apartment where WHITES mainly resided.
I asked her why... and she said, she wanted a have a peaceful home and was not ready for HOME BREAKERS and GOSSIPERS.
MY BROTHER since we started living among the whites, it looks like we just packed in today.
No Troubles, Nobody has your Time.
Yet you get amazing wishes and gifts at birthdays.

How did you know she loved you for you and not your money before marriage? I'm really curious, I don't trust Nigerian girls anymore. I just want my kids that's the reason I'm still considering a proper relationship and maybe marriage else I just see them as prostitutes on per second billing. You pay them from week to week to continue being with you and the moment things go rough, they become very rude and even proceed to leave the relationship/marriage.

greggng:



Bros connect me with one of them ....she most be ugly cos I am not getting the best from beautiful women...she most 've good character to make up for her ugliness

Hit them up on their youtube or instagram. That's where they congregate now. Don't believe the bulls.hit they type or say about being single and happy. They are crying for a man. Just act gentle and don't act crazy. Dem go warm up.

Animals before men?

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

appini:
There is one spirit that normally enters Nigerian women once they get to Canada, they always believe they can survive and live a better life without a man.

It's not just Nigerian women, it's a black problem. Once they have a job some assume they can be independent. In reality they can but that's if they wrongly assume that the basis of a union between a man and a woman should be determined mainly by financial status.

That's what messed up African American families in the US. One of the past presidents deliberately came up with social service support that give benefits and housing to jobless black single mothers which encourage a lot of black single mothers to have children out of wedlock. That's how "baby-mamas" was invented. The whiteman know that once you messed up the black family unit, the entire black community is messed up. A white guy I ran into even told me about the American president that came up with the social benefit system for single mothers. Can't remember his name now.

Damilare65:
Na thread be this, no insult, no tribalism, just vibes and ideas

I swear........

dawnomike:
Well, i kind of disagree with that...

Thank God ur disagreement is "kind of", not totally.

Cocao:
This is very funny. So as a Nigerian woman looking to immigrate to Canada I should think twice because of men? Men? Hahahahah... You people won't really allow women to make their choices in peace. Ha!

My cousin in USA gave me this advise when she heard I had plans to relocate. She is now heading to 50yrs.
"If you are in a serious relationship, try to seal it b4 u move," else, you can move, get your papers, come for a visit after a while and trust your male cousins to hook you up for marriage to a good person. Another option is to do surrogate with a donor sperm, have a child, let ur mum or another trusted person train till 4 years and you come pick your child cos school starts at 5 years in ca.
A Lady must not be with a man.

Pls check my sig for your infared thermometer

kalufelix:
Not just Canada ..but diaspora at large...African girls can house and feed a man as long as he stays with her...oyibo prick no dey strong and African guys dey find foreign women...

It is the Diaspora at large but the case of Canada is particularly striking as the weather, distance between cities, etc make socialising very difficult.

We must say the truth as it is. Nigerian girls, who are not used to approaching a man, largely struggle in the area of a relationship if based in the Diaspora.
1. They are not used to approaching a male.
2. They are not the first of the pick when a responsible Nigerian man-and there are few of this category- is looking to marry. The Nigerian female in the diaspora competes with the white girls, black British/Canadian/American girls who are citizens, other black African girls who are argurably more submissive and, if they are from the Southern part of Africa, we know how their physical structure are . Also, the Nigerian guy would prefer to travel to Nigeria and find a bride based in Nigeria. We know this happens.
3. The Nigerian lady makes a lot of money and because of their hard work, do super well in their career. This is actually commendable. However for most humans, this sadly comes with arrogance, [add the inability to cook] near-zero respect, and too many illogical requirements in a man.
They become more sensible and rational when they are 32, 33 years old and it becomes more difficult at that age. Some are reading this and know this. I know some that actually moved back to Nigeria to try get married.
In the end, they struggle. Hence you see them on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you see them as feminists, etc. Loneliness and depression sets in and, because of pride and the fake strong personae they have built, they dont talk. They rather fight everyone that tries to help them.

I feel for them but they should know that there is always a way out to amend wrongs. First of all, kill pride. Kill it, it wont help you. When you come off as arrogant to a Nigerian man, African man, his spirit leaves the conversation. You can mock it, call him weak, call him "incapable of handling a strong woman", and all those temporary comforting nonsense but it is you that will end up lonely and seeking companionship from YouTube. The Nigerian man has a number of worries and challenges and isnt ready to add another trouble to himself. Next, study the place you want to relocate to. Most people just move without checking. Join and participate in a church, not necessarily student groups as this ends after 1-2 years. Learn how to cook ooo! Make sure you keep and maintain strong contacts in Nigeria. And if you need to take a career break to move to Nigeria to sort out relationship issues, do so. Dont let the presumably good life of the West fool you and make you hit mid-thirties while single.
Make a move. That is the point.

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

OP link me up with any girl who is lonely in Canada, I am ready to build solid and lasting relationship with her please

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gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

BABANGBALI:
it depends on how old they are. If they are still very very young she will poison their minds against their father and his family members

Nah. After a while they will ask questions. When they find out the truth, it won't be funny.

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

Can you connect me to her. Am based in Nigeria, am serious.

Minxie:


actually yes. my mom was treated very much like a human. My father joined the equal rights bandwagon ages ago. When you have strong women, the only thing you can do is adapt. If your success and happiness is attributed to the oppression of others (women or the LGBT community) you are no different from the ones who oppressed our ancestors for their happiness and success. Think about it... and if you feel okay with being the same as them, expect the same retaliation that they got

if you don't respect my existence, you can expect my resistance.

can you explain to me how women were oppressed by our ancestors?
Celebration of LGBT is an aberration of societal norms and values.

How will it help me if Nigerian girls are lonely..

IdioticNLmods:
There's this Nigerian girl that has been following my brother up and down in New Orleans USA, she is very brillant and top of her department in the University. It got to a point she started threatening my brother's life and setting up my brothers several times thereby landing him in serious trouble that almost sent him to jail. My brother was just a JJC and hasn't gotten used to the system over there. This girl almost wrecked my brother's life because of marriage. My brother ran to Illinois and has been there ever since making a living for himself.. But this same girl still calls him almost everyday with different numbers and even send people to call him too. My brother is very very tired of her disturbance.
The truth is that only Nigerian guys can have time for 99% of our Nigerian girls over there.. Only way out is to be humble and find a man here in Nigeria before going there.

U don sabi them already.
Encourage your brother to cleave to the whites if he is not too sure.
WHITES are already exposed.
Most of them see WEALTH as nothing.
So they tend to live a very simple Life

This is why I don't encourage single girls/ladies to enter this PR express entry. What the OP said is true. A lady that left us more than 6 years ago when we were in the banking sector told me that she was always feeling bored and intended coming back but have not been able to secure something decent in Nigeria.

She said the place is too boring for her without any family member even though she tries to socialize with people but at the end you still go back home to your loneliness and misses the usual TGIF we do on Fridays, weekend weddings and other social events.

Most important to her now is to get married as the chances of her getting hooked in Canada is too remote and fast approaching 33 years.

Nigeria may have its own problems but as a single lady, if you are doing well in Nigeria, abeg maintain here o

LIVINGICON:
Why won't they be lonely? The relationship climate over there is quite different. And trust naija guyz na canadian babes or any other foreigner sure pass.

After bleeping black pvssy here you travel out to continue it there are you ok?
New environment new pvssy

gargoylern:

Mehn bro, dem ugly sha.

Ugly with terrible characters.
Someone said they they send the fine ones to the US and the wor wor ones to Canada lol

I think it has to do with the culture over there. Most of the whites are from broken homes, so they got nothing to offer cos of the psychological problems they have developed as child. And the Nigerian men would want to secure their lives by marrying a white.

I'm sure it will be different in UAE

Seems like men are really favored when it comes to this marriage choice of a thing.

It's getting increasingly difficult for women to get a serious man for a relationship that would lead to marriage,much especially the self made and accomplished ones(even here too in Nigeria)

If Canada own is like this,how would it be for naija girls living in Iceland
I heard it's much more difficult getting a partner over there(I mean for ladies)