Why do long term relationships break up? Give 4 reasons why long term relationships break up.

dis ur question is hard o!

1) too much of everything is bad
2) familiarity breeds contempt

because bad belle people break them up.

tpia1:

because bad belle people break them up.

. . .because u allowed bad belle pple to break it up for u

1. Betrayance
2. Winch
3. Bad confluencial frnds
4. He don sea anoda girl wey fine pass,

familiarity, obsolence,

I don't know why because I and my wife dated for thirteen years before we got married.

Both short n long term r/ships break. So kini big tin abt long term r/ship. Ok mayb d Mr/Mrs right shows in na. Abi?

Do you have any statistics for this? % breakup?

Did you mean "Why do most long term relationships break up ?

A tough question indeed !!

1. Hidden skeleton dat has been revealed
2. Third party
3. Seeing somebody else
4. When value drops

FOR THE first time in a long time, i need to think before replying. however, most people say they get tired of the relationship - of each other. and i think that is because there was no long term commitment like marriage vows to the relationship.

cld b tirin
peer group
exposure
outta love

Vijay4life:

I don't know why because I and my wife dated for thirteen years before we got married.

THAT MEANS BOTH OF U STARTED DATING AFTER U STOPPED BREAST FEEDING.
HOW OLD ARE U ANYWAY?

90 percent of long-term r/ships breaks up because people get bored of repetitions without solid grounds such as marriage. I can bet with you, most mariages will break up after some years but for the vows on the alter. And so it follows that after getting used to your partner, you get tired of familarity and for such a long term as 5yrs and above. This is QED cos there's no vow for beter for worse, Most relationships that leads to marriage is withing zero to 2 yrs. Statistically prooved.

nurabela:

Why do long term relationships break up? Give 4 reasons why long term relationships break up.

@poster, which kind stupid question be that??

don't know why !!!!.sorry

For a moment i thought this was a mid semester test question or something. or is it a take home assignment?

bad friends
insincerity
exposure
love don finish

Out grown each other!

Distance!

mojo semi retired!!

Facebook!!

I just started a relationship that i know will be long term. Do you mean i should marry at 20

mine is 8years i i wish just flirted until i got ready for marriage

I just started a relationship that i know will be long term. Do you mean i should marry at 20

try and see

This is one of the few meaningful posts I've ever seen on NL! Naturally, lovers usually get tired of each other for one reason or the other. And that's why prophet Mohamed (S.A.W.) advised the muslims lovers to tie the knots as quickly as possible and not to waste too much time on courtship.

nonsense

bad belle

forcing oneself to luv partner

no grooving

Well in my own opinion; long term relationship tends to break due to the following reasons:

1.   Unnecessary family pressure/interferences:   Most long term relationship get broken when the family members (from either of the divide) begins to mount too much pressure on the relationship.  When relationship gets too long family members starts to interfere one way or another and could cause problems.

2.   Too much familiarity:  In most relationships, both couples keeps their weaknesses away from their partners and projects their strengths until marriage. but the longer the relationship lasts the more they let down their guard and starts showing those hidden sides of their life.  The more familiar they get; the less intrigued they will be about each other, they starts getting bored with each other and more skeletons in the cupboard will start becoming exposed and could spark a break in the relationship.

3.   Love lost (Fades):   No matter how docile you may think you are there is that thing that makes you remain a human and that is curiousity.   Many relationships starts with excitement, anxiousness and flair, and so in time love tends to behave like an esposed ice-cream it starts melting away with time and gradually loses its grandeur, interests starts wavering, trying out new things-(curiousity) starts rearing its head.

4.   Unforgiveable mistakes/Occurences:  There are things that are bound to occur in a relationship, and that includes mistakes and misdoings (to err is human), some are easy to forgive and forget and some are very hard to forgive, but are unforgetable, if those later ones happen in a long term relationship before marriage, the couple learns to deal with it or break up especially if it has become a recurrent occurence.


I don try abed1

na God will

1. People change
2. Things change
3. Situations change
4. Medical changes

One word. . . CHANGE. For better of for worse. . .the only true constant in life is CHANGE.

No condition is permanent in this world.

Bring it on!!!