I wanted 3 kids but settled for 4 with my wife. The last is almost 3yrs. My wife has been practicing safe period sex which has been working for us even in the spacing of our kids. The method just failed and my wife has been devastated, she has lost touch with things around her, she cries, lost appetite, suffering insomnia. I've done all I could to make her get over it and it's not working. I fear for her health. Many things are bothering her, the thought of starting afresh (she has given out all our baby things), going through pregnancy wahalla etc. Pls ur advice and words of encouragement will be highly appreciated on how to weather this storm. Thanks

Both of you should seek for a medical personal, they are the ones to advise you on what is best for your wife or both of you

Hmmmm...since you were at your final busstop, you ought to have actively seek effective family planning methods from the hospitals. How could you think counting days is foolproof when you are actively having se.xx?

Anyways, you need to really support her now by being extra kind...help with the kids, house chores, make plans towards the arrival of the baby coming, get her to start her hospital runs asap and generally be good to her. She will get over it soon.

I wish her a healthy pregnancy and you guys lots of money to take care of your large family cos you need it! Hmmmm.

Kai...

This is what we call " one for the road".

Abeg make madam take am easy. That baby was destined to come through her for a purpose.

The above should calm her down.

That baby na destiny kid o. He was meant to happen

Special baby.

Your wife wont regret having her.

the thought of giving birth while Buhari is still the president of Nigeria is heart wrecking!

Djei:
I wanted 3 kids but settled for 4 with my wife. The last is almost 3yrs. My wife has been practicing safe period sex which has been working for us even in the spacing of our kids. The method just failed and my wife has been devastated, she has lost touch with things around her, she cries, lost appetite, suffering insomnia. I've done all I could to make her get over it and it's not working. I fear for her health. Many things are bothering her, the thought of starting afresh (she has given out all our baby things), going through pregnancy wahalla etc. Pls ur advice and words of encouragement will be highly appreciated on how to weather this storm. Thanks

Wow of not that Corona is reigning now, would have suggested you take her on a vacation, a resort probably in Lagos of anywhere else..She needs to clear her mind. The stress of caring for another baby is weighing her down and she needs to be strong before it affects her health. She just needs little space from her present environment. She will get over it.

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...since you were at your final busstop, you ought to have actively seek effective family planning methods from the hospitals. How could you think counting days is foolproof when you are actively having se.xx?

Anyways, you need to really support her now by being extra kind...help with the kids, house chores, make plans towards the arrival of the baby coming, get her to start her hospital runs asap and generally be good to her. She will get over it soon.

I wish her a healthy pregnancy and you guys lots of money to take care of your large family cos you need it! Hmmmm.

Thanks and amen to your prayers

HarunaWest:

Wow of not that Corona is reigning now, would have suggested you take her on a vacation, a resort probably in Lagos of anywhere else..She needs to clear her mind. The stress of caring for another baby is weighing her down and she needs to be strong before it affects her health. She just needs little space from her present environment. She will get over it.

Thanks, will figure out something bro. Thanks again

bolseas:
Special baby.

Your wife wont regret having her.

Amen!