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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by jamesbridget13(f): 11:08am On Apr 18, 2020
Veryfoolishboy:
read your own post again. Now read it to yourself slowly

Don't learn the hard way bro. Go and buy your own clipper
pls how much can i get a good clipper? Help with a good brand name if any
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 19, 2020
Millenniumlady:
try am
seen it?
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 10:32pm On Apr 19, 2020
Millenniumlady:
My husband will pay for it
seen
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Millenniumlady(f): 10:34pm On Apr 19, 2020
Descorts:
seen
post the way i post mine full length
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Nobody: 10:35pm On Apr 19, 2020
Millenniumlady:
post the way i post mine full length
lol
yours wasn't full tho'
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Millenniumlady(f): 10:36pm On Apr 19, 2020
Descorts:
lol
yours wasn't full tho'
That is what i want to see lemme confirm something
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Veryfoolishboy: 5:22pm On Apr 20, 2020
jamesbridget13:
pls how much can i get a good clipper? Help with a good brand name if any
whal is 20k
I use GTS and cost just 5k
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Veryfoolishboy: 5:23pm On Apr 20, 2020
elyonchee:
clipper is 14k
what's the name and brand?
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by jamesbridget13(f): 11:53pm On Apr 20, 2020
Veryfoolishboy:
whal is 20k
I use GTS and cost just 5k
thanks i really appreciate your response

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 1:35pm On Apr 25, 2020
Amazinglyqueer:
That's so brave of you op,keep being you.
Dear Amazinglyqueer, I've been following your diary like my life depends on it. I've always had one or two things to pick up from each of your post and I want to thank you immensely..
Your analysis on the stages after being diagnosed is just apt and fearfully accurate.. my wife got stuck in the denial, anger and depression stage for too long.
She denied the result to the point of going to different hospitals to run the test and even thought of flying off to India.
She later directed all her anger at me after she knew that nothing can change the outcome of the test and blamed me viciously for her misfortune (disregard all the people saying under my post that she must have infected me thus she took it calmly).
Then the depressed stage kicked in, and I actually feared that I would come back one day and see her hanging from the ceiling in suicide.. Thank God that didn't happen.
After many excruciating months, she accepted and moved on.. and we moved on.. I cannot begin to tell you the number of things she destroyed in her depressed state. LoL.. They were all replaceable tho.

So, Thank you my dear and keep doing what you're doing.. Its time we start opening up.. one day at a time.

N.B: And if that guy messes up, don't worry, my younger bro is always ready and available..lol.. a very good lad.

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Amazinglyqueer(f): 3:26pm On Apr 25, 2020
OutharryHIV:

Dear Amazinglyqueer, I've been following your diary like my life depends on it. I've always had one or two things to pick up from each of your post and I want to thank you immensely..
Your analysis on the stages after being diagnosed is just apt and fearfully accurate.. my wife got stuck in the denial, anger and depression stage for too long.
She denied the result to the point of going to different hospitals to run the test and even thought of flying off to India.
She later directed all her anger at me after she knew that nothing can change the outcome of the test and blamed me viciously for her misfortune (disregard all the people saying under my post that she must have infected me thus she took it calmly).
Then the depressed stage kicked in, and I actually feared that I would come back one day and see her hanging from the ceiling in suicide.. Thank God that didn't happen.
After many excruciating months, she accepted and moved on.. and we moved on.. I cannot begin to tell you the number of things she destroyed in her depressed state. LoL.. They were all replaceable tho.

So, Thank you my dear and keep doing what you're doing.. Its time we start opening up.. one day at a time.

N.B: And if that guy messes up, don't worry, my younger bro is always ready and available..lol.. a very good lad.
. Aww! I'm so emotional right now,I've been trying to pin down my thoughts on what people living with HIV(PLWHIV) go through,their challenges and all but just didn't have the nerve to do it as it could be emotionally draining atimes when you begin to think about the past and what you would have done differently. But that your post got me thinking really deep and i was like well*here's your time amazingly queer* Thank you outharryHIV,you inspired me. I like the fact that you ignored some questions that was personal,silence is golden you know!!! As for your wife I'm happy she overcame those stages,kudos to her. And for your younger bro*that got me laughing really hard you know* I will still keep my fingers crossed though,maybe just maybe......

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Saxobeat: 12:05pm On Jul 16, 2020
passion007:


Of course, as long as you're Undetectable, you CAN NOT transmit HIV to anyone else.

That is a fact established since 2017.

https://www.prn.org/index.php/prn_news/news/the_partner_2_study_and_undetectable_equals_untransmittable
I had sex with a positive lady twice and it was unprotected. She doesn't joke with her medication she takes it daily at the appropriate time since she was declared positive. Am scared to my bones right now. Before her appointment with her doctor was at interval of 3 months which was changed to 6 months. Should I be worried The meds she take is in a blue container.

Amazinglyqueer
Rossycee
Sheblayze
Naslow08
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Rossycee(f): 10:19am On Jul 17, 2020
Saxobeat:
I had sex with a positive lady twice and it was unprotected. She doesn't joke with her medication she takes it daily at the appropriate time since she was declared positive. Am scared to my bones right now. Before her appointment with her doctor was at interval of 3 months which was changed to 6 months. Should I be worried The meds she take is in a blue container.

Amazinglyqueer
Rossycee
Sheblayze
Naslow08
It's possible her viral load is undetected since she's consistent with her medication but you still need to go for a HIV test, if it comes out negative, repeat the test after 3months and this time do a confirmation test.. Please be careful.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Saxobeat: 10:59am On Jul 17, 2020
Rossycee:

It's possible her viral load is undetected since she's consistent with her medication but you still need to go for a HIV test, if it comes out negative, repeat the test after 3months and this time do a confirmation test.. Please be careful.
Thank you so much...
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by passion007: 4:13pm On Jul 17, 2020
Saxobeat:
I had sex with a positive lady twice and it was unprotected. She doesn't joke with her medication she takes it daily at the appropriate time since she was declared positive. Am scared to my bones right now. Before her appointment with her doctor was at interval of 3 months which was changed to 6 months. Should I be worried The meds she take is in a blue container.

Amazinglyqueer
Rossycee
Sheblayze
Naslow08
Have an open discussion with her in the first instance. If she's been open about her status, you can be open about your concerns. If she's undetectable, then there's absolutely nothing to be worried about. A test may give you reassurance but it's not needed if she's undetectable. In that case, she simply cannot transmit the virus.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by knowhowk: 4:57pm On Jul 17, 2020
God Heal our Land
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Saxobeat: 6:16pm On Jul 17, 2020
passion007:

Have an open discussion with her in the first instance. If she's been open about her status, you can be open about your concerns. If she's undetectable, then there's absolutely nothing to be worried about. A test may give you reassurance but it's not needed if she's undetectable. In that case, she simply cannot transmit the virus.
Thanks... I will do just that.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Amazinglyqueer(f): 12:18pm On Jul 18, 2020
Hello Saxobeat, Rossycee already gave you the
detailed advice I would have given as well as others. My only question is did she inform you of her status before you had sex with her?
Drugs in a blue container... That's TLD I'm on same medication,its actually very effective in suppressing the virus. You will be fine,cheer up!!!

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Coinvision: 6:38pm On Jul 18, 2020
Amazinglyqueer:
Hello Saxobeat, Rossycee already gave you the
detailed advice I would have given as well as others. My only question is did she inform you of her status before you had sex with her?
Drugs in a blue container... That's TLD I'm on same medication,its actually very effective in suppressing the virus. You will be fine,cheer up!!!


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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Saxobeat: 10:50pm On Jul 19, 2020
Amazinglyqueer:
Hello Saxobeat, Rossycee already gave you the
detailed advice I would have given as well as others. My only question is did she inform you of her status before you had sex with her?
Drugs in a blue container... That's TLD I'm on same medication,its actually very effective in suppressing the virus. You will be fine,cheer up!!!
Thanks... I had a heart to heart talk with her today n told me the doctor informed her that she is "undetectable" the last time she went for check up.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Saxobeat: 10:51pm On Jul 19, 2020
passion007:

Have an open discussion with her in the first instance. If she's been open about her status, you can be open about your concerns. If she's undetectable, then there's absolutely nothing to be worried about. A test may give you reassurance but it's not needed if she's undetectable. In that case, she simply cannot transmit the virus.
She is undectable. She told me this evening. Thanks for the support

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Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Rossycee(f): 11:08pm On Jul 19, 2020
Saxobeat:
Thanks... I had a heart to heart talk with her today n told me the doctor informed her that she is "undetectable" the last time she went for check up.
Okay that's good. Just go for a test for reassurance.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Amazinglyqueer(f): 7:39am On Jul 20, 2020
Saxobeat:
Thanks... I had a heart to heart talk with her today n told me the doctor informed her that she is "undetectable" the last time she went for check up.
Good to know she's undetectable,stay safe please.
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by seglabsy(m): 9:13pm On Oct 04, 2020
OutharryHIV:

I'm really sorry you got it the way you did.. I'm not really good at writing or expressing myself.. took me a great deal of time to put that one together.
I can take it down if you wish.
pls whatsapp me i have solution for the virus
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Freelane33(m): 12:58am On Dec 03, 2020
Lol why saying pls ? If you have a solution within you , you don’t beg people to come to you , people will come to you without saying pls .mr man take your scam somewhere else or go and get some Arv and face the wrath , stop scamming people if you don’t want HIV OR SOMETHING CRAZIER THAN HIV TO LOCATE U
seglabsy:
pls whatsapp me i have solution for the virus
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Freelane33(m): 12:59am On Dec 03, 2020
Meh God will heal everyone of you going through the phase whenever I wanna fvck I always come on this thread to have a rethink about the dreadful pit of hell I wanna pound
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Freelane33(m): 4:31am On Dec 30, 2020
LOL


HIV IS A SCAM.

Eating well n living a healthy life will always keep a human brings cd4 count high.

HIV CAUSING AIDS IS A SCAM
Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by LKO(m): 7:05am On Mar 24, 2021
Amazinglyqueer:
Good to know she's undetectable,stay safe please.


Please what does it mean for the virus to be undectable? Does it mean if a carrier goes for a test after use of the drug for say six months, the test won't detect the virus?

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