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I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:07pm On Apr 16, 2020
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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Naijacounselors: 5:12pm On Apr 16, 2020
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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Iyiataata92: 5:14pm On Apr 16, 2020
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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sammychimex(m): 5:15pm On Apr 16, 2020
Is your acute sexual anxiety covid-19 related? If not, We are prioritizing right now. We will deal with your sexual fantasy/anxiety later.


WE ARE ONLY OPEN TO COVID-19 CASES ONLY.

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:16pm On Apr 16, 2020
sammychimex:
Is your anxiety covid-19 related? If not, We are prioritizing right now. We will deal with your sexual fantasy/anxiety later.
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Nobody: 5:16pm On Apr 16, 2020
Hmm...this one is strong.

You need to exercise more, relax your mind. Be cool. Try smooching her... romancing her for a long time before banging.

Stop taking any drink or substance.

The only thing that might make my prick not stand, is maybe when she ain't beautiful, i see something that turns me off, or I have no interest in sex that moment.

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:17pm On Apr 16, 2020
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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sammychimex(m): 5:19pm On Apr 16, 2020
[quote author=sighting post=88514641]please help me I'm losing my mind [/quote


Do you masturbate or are you into drugs? This could be a contributing factor

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by nero2face: 5:20pm On Apr 16, 2020
try to be more erotic whenever u want to have some time with her, do crazy things and let her be carried along, u can initiate de idea of seeing some crazy movies together if it can help, most importantly, see a doctor to see if u had an infection u treated wrongly...
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by milliman(m): 5:21pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?

U dey watch porn too much you cant get hard with a real woman that's for the anxiety

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by McBrooklyn(m): 5:21pm On Apr 16, 2020
First of all, have it at the back of your mind that sex is overrated.. Then give sex time and stop to dey soapy that's if you practice the act more frequently.. Try chop Wella while you abstain and get enough fruits to eat as well e.g watermelon and the likes..


Prick wey fall still fit still rise once again with proper motivation.. You go dey alright!

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:22pm On Apr 16, 2020
iyke926:
Hmm...this one is strong.

You need to exercise more, relax your mind. Be cool. Try smooching her... romancing her for a long time before banging.

Stop taking any drink or substance.

The only thing that might make my prick not stand, is maybe when she ain't beautiful, i see something that turns me off, or I have no interest in sex that moment.

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Nobody: 5:22pm On Apr 16, 2020
kiss

Take two shots of "oga abeg herbs".
Thank me later.

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:23pm On Apr 16, 2020
milliman:


U dey watch porn too much you cant get hard with a real woman that's for the anxiety
yes I do watch porn once in a blue moon.I get hard immediately I launch any porn site.But it's only once in blue moon.i am not addicted to it
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Spman: 5:23pm On Apr 16, 2020
I had dx same issh earlier dx year.

Pls reduce ur sugar intake.
Stop masturbation

then do exercise mostly squats and kegel then chew bitter kola,eat fruits and when she is around watch movies with her first or any comedy skit and laugh together thenn proceed let ur mind be on her ....dont let anythin distract u

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:24pm On Apr 16, 2020
[quote author=sammychimex post=88514725][/quote]

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sammychimex(m): 5:28pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
I do masturbate once or twice in a month but I don't take drugs


Oga just relax take your time and do your do, stimulate each other's body well. You go dey alright last last. There is nothing inside the hole that bites.

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Kobicove(m): 5:31pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
please help me I'm losing my mind

You need to relax and just let things flow naturally when you're with a lady.

By the way it's possible you are on some medication that is interfering with your hormones

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by bestabigaelever(f): 5:33pm On Apr 16, 2020
Relax brother
Relax

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:34pm On Apr 16, 2020
Kobicove:


You need to relax and just let things flow naturally when you're with a lady.

By the way it's possible you are on some medication that is interfering with your hormones

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by milliman(m): 5:35pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
yes I do watch porn once in a blue moon.I get hard immediately I launch any porn site.But it's only once in blue moon.i am not addicted to it

Stop watching all at once and dont masturbate, exercise well so you get comfy with your body

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:39pm On Apr 16, 2020
Spman:
I had dx same issh earlier dx year.

Pls reduce ur sugar intake.
Stop masturbation

then do exercise mostly squats and kegel then chew bitter kola,eat fruits and when she is around watch movies with her first or any comedy skit and laugh together thenn proceed let ur mind be on her ....dont let anythin distract u
I'll start taking fruits now and bitter kola.Thank you very much
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:40pm On Apr 16, 2020
milliman:


Stop watching all at once and dont masturbate, exercise well so you get comfy with your body
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Nobody: 5:41pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
It can be embarrassing when you're about making love to a woman and your prick will not stand.I do smooch her and sometimes I do have erection but the moment I want to initiate sex I lose the erection completely and I'll be restless.I don't know what is wrong with me
Eat banana, watermelon, reduce your sugar intake and stop alchohol. Always exercise too

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:41pm On Apr 16, 2020
McBrooklyn:
First of all, have it at the back of your mind that sex is overrated.. Then give sex time and stop to dey soapy that's if you practice the act more frequently.. Try chop Wella while you abstain and get enough fruits to eat as well e.g watermelon and the likes..


Prick wey fall still fit still rise once again with proper motivation.. You go dey alright!
will put into practise

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 5:45pm On Apr 16, 2020
milliman:


U dey watch porn too much you cant get hard with a real woman that's for the anxiety
hmmmmm
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by Spman: 5:58pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
I'll start taking fruits now and bitter kola.Thank you very much

alright give me a feedback as time goes on..

I knw hw u feel.
Mine i was depressed, i even took sex enhacing drugs sef
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by klenton(m): 5:59pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?

Bros your completely normal
i remember when i use to date this very pretty and beautiful gal around my area, her father was a former commissioner and highly respected, i loved her and wanted to keep her forever, then anxiety set in and after the first time of sex with her, i couldnt maintain an erection with her anymore, i will be very hard and Hot but once she comes my dee will just go flaccid, the more we try to get it up, the more flat it becomes, but once she leaves the dee will immediately Jack up, it became bad that anytime she calls me and i hear" are you at home" my mind will just skip, anxiety sets in and the previous episodes of me not getting up will start playing in my mind.

TBH it did my affect my relationship with her, but after meeting a therapist, i learnt to relax and see my gal as any other gal, i stopped trying too hard to sexually impress her, i focused more on our friendship and less on sex.

the biggest mistake you can ever do is having it at the back of your mind like your doing now, with that you will never get erection with her cus the fear of not getting up will make it not to get up.

if it's possible tell her no sex for now, when she comes do not initiate sex, tell yourself you don't owe her and watch the anxiety disappear.
I wonder why guys are always at the receiving end of everything, while a woman just needs to open leg whether she likes you or not, whether she is anxious or not, the thing go enter.... I swear a man's world is not easy, see my man naw, see Toto em no fit chop.

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by PureGoldh(m): 6:02pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
The last time she came somebody advised me to take Viagra of which I did but I did not feel aroused all through my mind was just panting as if I have not had sex with a woman before.I am fed up

Bro...fly away from Viagra...that sh*t have after effects

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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by weyreypey: 6:11pm On Apr 16, 2020
sighting:
I'm having serious problem of acute anxiety.I have lost beautiful relationships because of it... I'm not a virgin I have had sex with a woman before and most were done in the course of anxiety but the moment I am able to penetrate the anxiety will never affect me anymore in subsequent sex.Now I just found a girl I hope that I can spend the rest of my life with but this anxiety is killing the relationship on two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise.I do have morning erection and all that but not with my babe whenever she comes around my heart is always panting I don't know what to do I'm losing my mind.I have had to drink hard drink but it's not working for me .I hope this is not how i am going to continue living for the rest of my life.I don't want to lose this girl somebody should please help me
what can I do please.I don't know what triggers the anxiety in me I don't know it I am frustrated.Anyone has experienced this before?what can I do?
The world is having a serious COVID-19 issue... FFS you can quietly contract Corona and end it all
Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 6:16pm On Apr 16, 2020
[quote author=klenton post=88516093]

Bros your completely normal
i remember when i use to date this very pretty and beautiful gal around my area, her father was a former commissioner and highly respected, i loved her and wanted to keep her forever, then anxiety set in and after the first time of sex with her, i couldnt maintain an erection with her anymore, i will be very hard and Hot but once she comes my dee will just go flaccid, the more we try to get it up, the more flat it becomes, but once she leaves the dee will immediately Jack up, it became bad that anytime she calls me and i hear" are you at home" my mind will just skip, anxiety sets in and the previous episodes of me not getting up will start playing in my mind.

TBH it did my affect my relationship with her, but after meeting a therapist, i learnt to relax and see my gal as any other gal, i stopped trying too hard to sexually impress her, i focused more on our friendship and less on sex.

the biggest mistake you can ever do is having it at the back of your mind like your doing now, with that you will never get erection with her cus the fear of not getting up will make it not to get up.

if it's possible tell her no sex for now, when she comes do not initiate sex, tell yourself you don't owe her and watch the anxiety disappear.
I wonder why guys are always at the receiving end of everything, while a woman just needs to open leg whether she likes you or not, whether she is anxious or not, the thing go enter.... I swear a man's world is not easy, see my man naw, see Toto em no fit chop.
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Re: I'm Having A Serious Sexual Problem by sighting: 6:18pm On Apr 16, 2020
Spman:

alright give me a feedback as time goes on..
I knw hw u feel. Mine i was depressed, i even took sex enhacing drugs sef
Okay

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