XhosaNostra:



@bolded, crushes usually don't live up to how you envisaged them in your mind lol.

No wo der I used to get this thing where a girl spends time trying to get your attention then when you start talking or go on a date she seems to turn cold all of a sudden.

Jaqenhghar:

No wo der I used to get this thing where a girl spends time trying to get your attention then when you start talking or go on a date she seems to turn cold all of a sudden.

Yeah, it's like that sometimes & the person you never really cared for in the beginning, you end up falling madly for them. The "he's not my type" is usually the one lol. Basically, real love has to grow on you.

XhosaNostra:



@bolded, crushes usually don't live up to how you envisaged them in your mind lol.

Let me just chip in a little on this.
I doubt you to some limits.
Especially when the crush lives his/her life with full originality and only prone to positive changes which still makes him/her more attractive to the crusher.
Saying from experience. (Got even my blood relatives wishing If only I wasn't a brother).


Don't mind the English ooo!!,
These days nairaland active members prefer scrutinizing the "English words written" than the actual message your sentence is suppose to carry/deliver.

Fidecoo:





Let me just chip in a little on this.
I doubt you to some limits.
Especially when the crush lives his/her life with full originality and only prone to positive changes which still makes him/her more attractive to the crusher.
Saying from experience. (Got even my blood relatives wishing If only I wasn't a brother).


Don't mind the English ooo!!,
These days nairaland active members prefer scrutinizing the "English words written" than the actual message your sentence is suppose to carry/deliver.

@bolded, it may be true, but they could also be biased in how they view you lol. We all tend to see our relatives in the most positive light, unless when they're undeniably horrible human beings.

XhosaNostra:



So this one na only friendship?

Well anyway, who knows life. Our paths could some day cross or not lol.

I hope.

XhosaNostra:
Yes. In fact, I was obsessed with him. I'd watch everything he did. I knew his whole schedule. Basically, I stalked the guy He was so handsome though, I couldn't help myself.
After months of stalking, I started planning meeting him. So one evening as he returned from work, I decided I was going to throw away the trash, which means we were going to bump into each other on the stairs I didn't wanna make it too obvious, so I dressed in normal "house clothes". I'm one of those people that look more attractive when I'm a little shabby & dirty, so I went in for the kill in my grimiest look I can pull
Anyway, we crossed paths for the 1st time & we both nodded our greetings as we passed each other. After two or more such orchestrated meetings, we had a chat. He said something & my dreams literally came true in that narrow staircase
Long story short, he wasn't what I expected. After a few chats, I lost interest in him. I wouldn't call him dumb, but he wasn't too bright lol. All big & beautiful with a tiny brain

You are sapiosexual, i guess

Randy100:
I am still in love with two of my landlady's daughters.

More like you are in lust with two of them

AFONAMARO:


More like you are in lust with two of them

We are saying the same thing. The love we have for the opposite sex is called lust.

AFONAMARO:


You are sapiosexual, i guess

In a sense, yes.

Randy100:
We are saying the same thing. The love we have for the opposite sex is called lust.

Lust is quite different from love. One is sacrificial while the other seek to take unsure advantage

czarr:
I would if it even made a bit of sense, by some people you mean you abi?,i know of a twin born in the same month,same day so ofcourse same sign.....guess what? they are nothing alike.

I understand people want to feel like there is more to life that what we see like we are connected to the stars somehow...Lol

I know of a guy whose pick up strategy is this sign of a thing...girls are fascinated by it.

My identical twin daughters are exactly what you mentioned above

AFONAMARO:


Lust is quite different from lust. One is sacrificial while the other seek to take unsure advantage

Son of man, who told you that lust is not sacrificial.

Randy100:
Son of man, who told you that lust is not sacrificial.

Descendant of Adam, lust is laced around ulterior motive which is often one sided. More of, go in and devour. Love in the other hand seek to please and make another happy

AFONAMARO:


Descendant of Adam, lust is laced around ulterior motive which is often one sided. More of, go in and devour. Love in the other hand seek to please and make another happy

Young man, how do I make you understand this. Every love or lust has ulterior motive. I need to create a thread for better explanation. I will have to mention you.

Randy100:
Young man, how do I make you understand this. Every love or lust has ulterior motive. I need to create a thread for better explanation. I will have to mention you.

Old man, i will be waiting