Not in this corvid-19 lockdown that some persons have been lockup in a location for almost 30 days.

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Am surprised with some of our comments that defends indecent dressing,pls tell yourselves the truth,there difference between decent and indecent dressing.

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Let's stop wasting our time chasing shadows. You're a Christian, and so am i(although not a staunch one). In the end the solution involves winning them to christ,reforming their mind and all that. And that, many would reject. Because it's a free world, and freedom implies the ability to express one's self whether sinful or otherwise. So far as the common laws aren't broken. Besides all this you would find trying to make people "decent" a messy and totally futile attempt. You can whitewash society as much as you want, to give it the appearance of a sane and morally upright one. It's like spring cleaning your house, but in the end where would all the trash go to? Well, the answer is "somewhere". Immorality is here to stay. For all we know Nigerian law is anti-narcotic. We don't even allow cannabis use even though alot of the developed world allow for it's use. But, in the end drug use is still a prevalent problem here. Y'all should stop wasting y'all time

invinzible1:


See how you are confident in your ignorance.. thinking you said something wise. Well people like you needs to be foolish for wisdom to be valued... Carried on with your foolish assertions that is not factual and truthful.

But you have not made any point to counter his own.

LMAO... Y'all think our ancestors got to where we are by being chaste?

Kobojunkie:


Curb Sexual immorality? You made you police over how another human being chooses to express himself/herself sexually, by the way? Your Traditional rules and Cultures have failed woefully in squashing people's innate freedoms, but rather than learn from that, you insist it is your place to "curb sexual immorality"?
@Poster, I suggest you reexamine yourself and your belief system. Where do you think you get this right to tell others how to live or not live their own lives? Why do you make it your business what they choose for their own existence when you have work still to do in yours?
Where does this god-complex of yours come from? Questions for you to ponder!

Very simple question....
It's your responsibility and obligation as a
true chiristian and worshiper of God.
Common sense....

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OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

All these people preaching about sex every time, are perverts. Even in our University days where there are over 200 different so called fellowships for God but, you see some of the president of the fellowships (including members) after preaching against sex go to hostels and be begging for sex late in the night. Remember in Africa as a continent, no country is as religious as Nigeria but are we better than other countries in fairness, love, chastity, sins wise... to name a few? The answer is NO. I hate coming to NL every Sunday only to see people talking about sex as if it is the only sin or the biggest sin to say. We should tell ourselves the truth and stop deceiving others. IS CHEATING, LIES, NOT LOVING ONE ANOTHER, ENVY, HATRED, DISCRIMINATION, TRIBALISM, TO MENTION A FEW NOT SIN AGAINST GOD? We should be careful for we cannot mock God!!! Tell me how apostles in the days of Jesus Christ whose their work was to be busy preaching about sex Everytime. Look for other means to be winning souls for God and stop deceiving yourself man.

Oh God help me! This is one major problem am battling with, I just can't do without sex. No day passes without me craving for/ having sex. Any day I don't do it I become somehow restless all through that day. ......Even last night I did it with someone I swore never to sleep with again and am feeling kinda sad now because of what it led to the last time which I don't want to happen again.

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Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

What’s your problem seff...u too get sense!!

Truth is always three dimensional. U cannot look at something from one perspective and declare it absolute. In the Bible we saw where God ordered His prophet to marry a prostitute...we saw how Jesus saved a prostitute from death, we also so how a prostitute was saved from the fall of Jericho. The truth is what u resist, persists. The Amount of attention and energy pple are giving to sexuality is what is promoting the sex industries. The solution is transcendental. If we use religion to repress sex it only grows bigger. If we keep making it a big deal it continues to be a big deal. Love your neighbor as us Love urself no greater commandment than this. If u love ur neighbour u would not want to sexually abuse his daughter. If u feel u cant hold urself olosho deh for street. U don't have to rape anybody .

Its A Shame That When We're Given Any Slightest Opportunity, We'll Rather Have Ourselves Killed Than Remain On Focus Because Most Of Us Talk Before We Think. This Is Why Nigeria Has Divided Along Sectoral Line. If We Are Not Draging Tribe, It Will Be Religion Or Political Differences. Can We Bury This Old Fashion & Think Contemplery For Once. Calling Names Is The Most Stupid Thing Anyone Could Have Done, You Could Have Made Your Point Without Mentioning Anyones Name To Avoid Provocation. Everyone Has Reasons That Informs Their Decisions Good Or Bad, Let's Not Jump Into Quick Conclusions When We Have Not Yet Understood Their Viewing Point Please, Remain Blessed You All.

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cococandy:


Didn’t take long .

Oh how can we curb men’s sexual excesses?
Answer: further oppress the women. You know man was created that way and can’t help himself . He has little control and it’s the work of God.

Well what about women who have such tendencies?
Answer: you mean those oloshos? Shame on them. That’s not what God wants for them. He told all the male prophets so and they told us.

Just another page in the patriarchy handbook. Rinse and repeat.

I don't think the OP meant to attack the female folk, he is only thinking of possible ways of reducing sexual immorality and being a man he spoke about the temptations experienced by men. Women also also experience sexual temptations, you could shed more light on that as a woman.

Anfieldboss:



I don't think the OP meant to attack the female folk, he is only thinking of possible ways of reducing sexual immorality and being a man he spoke about the temptations experienced by men. Women also also experience sexual temptations, you could shed more light on that as a woman.

He probably didn’t. It’s only the ingrained misogyny speaking. Some People don’t even realize when they do so.

It baffles me how ppl are easily prone to name calling and insult when another person shares an opinion. No single person has all the truths. If u have a belief system. It is ur belief system, it doesn't make it an absolute truth. When another person comes around with a different belief, it is his, it doesn't make it absolute truth either. The thinking of what u think u know to be truth and right and every other opinion is wrong is what leads to extremism and extremist easily becomes terrorist

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Giwoni:
All these people preaching about sex every time, are perverts. Even in our University days where there are over 200 different so called fellowships for God but, you see some of the president of the fellowships (including members) after preaching against sex go to hostels and be begging for sex late in the night. Remember in Africa as a continent, no country is as religious as Nigeria but are we better than other countries in fairness, love, chastity, sins wise... to name a few? The answer is NO. I hate coming to NL every Sunday only to see people talking about sex as if it is the only sin or the biggest sin to say. We should tell ourselves the truth and stop deceiving others. IS CHEATING, LIES, NOT LOVING ONE ANOTHER, ENVY, HATRED, DISCRIMINATION, TRIBALISM, TO MENTION A FEW NOT SIN AGAINST GOD? We should be careful for we cannot mock God!!! Tell me how apostles in the days of Jesus Christ whose their work was to be busy preaching about sex Everytime. Look for other means to be winning souls for God and stop deceiving yourself man.

Read very well before you spew nonsense, everyone is guilty of one sin or the other but Jesus has wipe away that guilt for those of us that belief, so am not guilty of anything you think

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When the age of marriage for struggling men is as high as 35 but the age they start to burn is 15. You cannot escape fornication easily. Sexual starvation is as bad as food starvation. A burning young man will be driven to fornication if he has no Hope's of getting married anytime soon. The economic situation is a key driver of this problem. Before a struggling man can say he is financially ready he must have been in his late 20s or early 30s but such has a man has been starving since he was 15. How do you make such a man to deal with the starvation?

Two

Our culture also has a fault. We have made marriage a project when marriage is meant to be as simple and affordable as possible. Many customs have made marriage very difficult. Before a starving young man can think of marriage he has to have a job paying at least 150k, he must not be carrying his extended family's financial responsibilities and he must have a strong savings culture. How many men attain this conditions? Many men have to contribute to supporting parents and siblings and yet you expect them to save enough to foot the bill of marriage imposed on them by customs?

Three

Many ladies and their families want a ready made man. Many ladies do not want to help a man become ready, no, they want him already made. I sometimes say it, if your man is already made how are you relevant to him? You had no part in his struggles and no contribution to his success but you and your family want him. Most struggling men will have to toil hard till they are older trying to become financially made without the support of any female. If ladies took it upon themselves to yield to a good man when he is nothing and help him work his way up, he will make it earlier in life and be able to settle down with the helper who assisted him all this while. Sadly this is not the case so most men have to labor alone and labor for long whilst starving for sex...doesn't this lead to fornication?

Four

Our pastors also have a fault. Our pastors, most of them, usually preach that until a man is financially ready he is not ready for marriage. But these foolish teachers cannot see the result of their teachings. If financial readiness is a determinant of marriage then we must accept the current rate of fornication. Because if it will take a man another 20 years from the age of 15 to become financially ready, how have you provided for his sexual starvation during those 20 years?

Five

Most ladies have decided to make their bodies available before marriage. It is sheer stupidity for a lady to sleep with man whose parents you don't know, who doesn't know your parents, whose aspirations for marriage has not been declared to your parents and whose parents have not accepted you as a wife. When ladies do this stupid thing they give men the impression that marriage is overrated since their sexual starvation can be satisfied before marriage at a cost must less than the cost of marriage. This fuels fornication. When a man knows that the lady next door neighbor has a utility he can use to satisfy his sexual starvation at a very minimal cost he finds it hard evading such a temptation. Could David, the man after God's heart, evade such a temptation when Bathsheba made her hole available for use?

Six

For most men, I don't know about women, sex is a difficult thing to evade. I know you want to mention Joseph and Job but you must not forget Reuben, Judah, Abimelech, Samson, David, Solomon...its so bad that a man in the Corinthain church slept with his mother. Fornication was found in the Thyatiran church. Men need intercession concerning fornication. It is the only force you cannot confront easily in prayer and the only recommendation the bible gives is "flee".

Giwoni:
All these people preaching about sex every time, are perverts. Even in our University days where there are over 200 different so called fellowships for God but, you see some of the president of the fellowships (including members) after preaching against sex go to hostels and be begging for sex late in the night. Remember in Africa as a continent, no country is as religious as Nigeria but are we better than other countries in fairness, love, chastity, sins wise... to name a few? The answer is NO. I hate coming to NL every Sunday only to see people talking about sex as if it is the only sin or the biggest sin to say. We should tell ourselves the truth and stop deceiving others. IS CHEATING, LIES, NOT LOVING ONE ANOTHER, ENVY, HATRED, DISCRIMINATION, TRIBALISM, TO MENTION A FEW NOT SIN AGAINST GOD? We should be careful for we cannot mock God!!! Tell me how apostles in the days of Jesus Christ whose their work was to be busy preaching about sex Everytime. Look for other means to be winning souls for God and stop deceiving yourself man.

Read very well before you spew nonsense, everyone is guilty of one sin or the other but Jesus has wipe away that guilt for those of us that belief, so am not guilty of anything you think.
By the way, I dropped this post on 23 of April, it reached FP today:

What you tolerate becomes the norm.

To curb degeneracy in Nigeria, real men have to speak up.

Women are fickle brained and usually follow trends and will act like animals if not guided.


First line of attack .. celebrities.. attack any celebrity promoting immorality.

Start with mc galaxy , slim case, bobrisky .. etc attack with verocity.


Reject all sorts of counter culture sexuality..


Gay mudfckers, once they take over, its game over.

Ban strip clubs .. and criminalise prostitution.

If not , most of you will struggle to find a partner. Its almost too late already because most Nigerian men are simps and will not speak against such but promote it instead.

OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

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For you to assume that indecent dressing is the greatest influence for the cause, shows that you are problem

I think the way we can reduce it is early marriage for both guys & ladies. Because biologically, the body is ready for sex @ puberty & the urge comes continuosly. So imagine waiting for about 15 more years or more to do something that the urge comes everyday. Our system is faulty, that's why because by 20 you're still in year 1 in university & not even financially ready to marry. But if the system is good & by 20 you already have a good job... there's nothing stopping you from getting married rather than sleeping around. This is not a total solution but this will reduce sexual immorality to minimal

mildflame:
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For you to assume that indecent dressing is the greatest influence for the cause, shows that you are problem

No, you are the problem.
You are simply opposing the truth, and you will continue living in bondage if you don't accept it.

My issue is with the man in the picture. What kind of run is that? Same hand, same leg

OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

By encouraging godly marriages where both spouses perform their duties.

That is the major remedy to adultery/fornication.

Maximus69:


See small pikin wey wan put mouth for wetin him no sabi!

For your information, Kumuyi no call him Church Pentecostal nah Gospel him call am.

Pentecostal can't worship conveniently with Deeperlife because ordinary hairdo of a Pentecostal from Christ Embassy makes a female subject of Hellfire before a Deeperlifer, not to talk of artificial polished nails, eyelashes, lipsticks, jewelries, trousers, slim-fits etc!


Go ask your Papa and Mama wey born you, before you begin chuk mouth for wetin pass you say which Church for this Nigeria condemn television!

So that them go tell you story wey happen before them born you!

I was still giving respect to&following a part of your assertion before u muddled everything up.

Sexual drive is strong but marriage is strong enough to contain it and to provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in this work of sexual disorder!