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7 Attitudes That Cause Delay In Marriage For Ladies by silencer73(m): 1:12am On Apr 25, 2020
*1. BOY-FRIEND*
The last thing on a Boy's Mind is Marriage.
Boys don't think of marriage, they want to make money first, they enter into relationship just for fun and sex, that's why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they'll deny her, because they aren't ready for Marriage..
Stop dating boys.
Boyfriends will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they'll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.
*2 ENGAGEMENT RING*
This makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man engaged you and when the serious suitors that are ready to settle down see the ring, they'll pass over you because the ring tells them you have been taken.
And time is going, uncle isn't saying anything again, the ring self have start to rust on your finger in protest.
Many engagement rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders.
Aunty, say no to Lord of the Rings.
*3. HARD TO GET*
you tend to decline marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.
It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don't pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.
Until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying "can't he even wait for me"
Wait for you? Who do you think you are?
Aunty, If you love the brother and you perceive he is God's will for you, accept the proposal.
*4. PRIDE*
You always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful and educated.
You believe that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them.
You do not greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars.
Aunty, calm down and be humble.
You won't marry yourself oh.....
*5.TRIBALISM*
I'm from Oyo and must marry someone from Oyo so our marriage will be Deep.
I'm from Rivers state and must marry from Rivers. River will soon carry you.
This attitude has kept many bound, they entered menopause and are about to join the Women's league because of their age.
If God is leading you to another tribe, kindly obey Him, stop delaying yourself by yourself
*6. BAD CHARACTER*
The character of some ladies shocks even the devil.
They will open their mouth to insult someone and you will cry for the person..
They quarrel and fight in public, no shame, self respect and dignity.
Their pride, their arrogance, their attitude, all the brothers are running, sorry, FLEEING from them like ants running away from fire. Who wan die?
This attitude has kept many ladies single, by the time any brother gets close because of her beautiful MASCARA, her CHARACTER will chase him away.
Aunty, this year, work on your character, your date will be fixed this year In Jesus name!
*7. POOR DRESS SENSE*
You tend not to dress well because you are going to heaven. Special Heavenly candidate.
You dress and add 10 years to your age .
You dress and brothers will be greeting you "Good afternoon Ma." "Yes Ma" "Thank you Ma"
You use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie. You indecently tied a wrapper around your waist.
You are a lady but dress like a man; Sister, no Man wants to marry his fellow man.
You dress like egungun that is going to the express.
Dress well, don't under dress and don't over dress.
Dress modestly, smell good because it's not a sin.
We said don't dress indecently, we never said don't dress well.

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Re: 7 Attitudes That Cause Delay In Marriage For Ladies by tripplephi: 3:29am On Apr 25, 2020
silencer73:

*1. BOY-FRIEND*
The last thing on a Boy's Mind is Marriage.
Boys don't think of marriage, they want to make money first, they enter into relationship just for fun and sex, that's why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they'll deny her, because they aren't ready for Marriage..
Stop dating boys.
Boyfriends will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they'll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.
*2 ENGAGEMENT RING*
This makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man engaged you and when the serious suitors that are ready to settle down see the ring, they'll pass over you because the ring tells them you have been taken.
And time is going, uncle isn't saying anything again, the ring self have start to rust on your finger in protest.
Many engagement rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders.
Aunty, say no to Lord of the Rings.
*3. HARD TO GET*
you tend to decline marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.
It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don't pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.
Until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying "can't he even wait for me"
Wait for you? Who do you think you are?
Aunty, If you love the brother and you perceive he is God's will for you, accept the proposal.
*4. PRIDE*
You always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful and educated.
You believe that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them.
You do not greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars.
Aunty, calm down and be humble.
You won't marry yourself oh.....
*5.TRIBALISM*
I'm from Oyo and must marry someone from Oyo so our marriage will be Deep.
I'm from Rivers state and must marry from Rivers. River will soon carry you.
This attitude has kept many bound, they entered menopause and are about to join the Women's league because of their age.
If God is leading you to another tribe, kindly obey Him, stop delaying yourself by yourself
*6. BAD CHARACTER*
The character of some ladies shocks even the devil.
They will open their mouth to insult someone and you will cry for the person..
They quarrel and fight in public, no shame, self respect and dignity.
Their pride, their arrogance, their attitude, all the brothers are running, sorry, FLEEING from them like ants running away from fire. Who wan die?
This attitude has kept many ladies single, by the time any brother gets close because of her beautiful MASCARA, her CHARACTER will chase him away.
Aunty, this year, work on your character, your date will be fixed this year In Jesus name!
*7. POOR DRESS SENSE*
You tend not to dress well because you are going to heaven. Special Heavenly candidate.
You dress and add 10 years to your age .
You dress and brothers will be greeting you "Good afternoon Ma." "Yes Ma" "Thank you Ma"
You use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie. You indecently tied a wrapper around your waist.
You are a lady but dress like a man; Sister, no Man wants to marry his fellow man.
You dress like egungun that is going to the express.
Dress well, don't under dress and don't over dress.
Dress modestly, smell good because it's not a sin.
We said don't dress indecently, we never said don't dress well.

the root is POVERTY.... A poor man will not be in a hurry to marry any lady, MONEY HUMBLES PRIDE. EVERYONE HAS A PRICE O
Re: 7 Attitudes That Cause Delay In Marriage For Ladies by Staphylococcus: 4:30am On Apr 25, 2020
tripplephi:


the root is POVERTY.... A poor man will not be in a hurry to marry any lady, MONEY HUMBLES PRIDE. EVERYONE HAS A PRICE O

I disagree with you. The majors is that they are looking for the perfect guy like Jesus.

Tall, handsome, well to do, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, doesn't womanize, doesn't complain, perfect dress sense and religious.

In the quest to get the perfect one, they become midnight newspaper.
Re: 7 Attitudes That Cause Delay In Marriage For Ladies by WaleGab: 4:36am On Apr 25, 2020
Staphylococcus:


I disagree with you. The majors is that they are looking for the perfect guy like Jesus.

Tall, handsome, well to do, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, doesn't womanize, doesn't complain, perfect dress sense and religious.

In the quest to get the perfect one, they become midnight newspaper.
Re: 7 Attitudes That Cause Delay In Marriage For Ladies by tripplephi: 11:49am On Apr 25, 2020
Staphylococcus:


I disagree with you. The majors is that they are looking for the perfect guy like Jesus.

Tall, handsome, well to do, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, doesn't womanize, doesn't complain, perfect dress sense and religious.

In the quest to get the perfect one, they become midnight newspaper.

If they are looking for that, how come politicians ugly, short, fat, are increasing in the number of girls that are loyal to them. Perfection does not put jewelries on them o.


GOOD GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS. Being good gets boring. Most ladies need money before they can respect any man.
Re: 7 Attitudes That Cause Delay In Marriage For Ladies by Staphylococcus: 12:02pm On Apr 25, 2020
tripplephi:


If they are looking for that, how come politicians ugly, short, fat, are increasing in the number of girls that are loyal to them. Perfection does not put jewelries on them o.


GOOD GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS. Being good gets boring. Most ladies need money before they can respect any man.

The ideology about the money thingy is false. Their mind is not home. They just use that to maintain status. Those ladies have where their hearts belong. Their likes you will see fvcking drivers and gardeners.

When you see the likes of Shade Okoya, Bianca Ojukwu, Regina Daniels and Carolina Danjuma, Will you say they fell in love? They only took advantage of money, not that their husbands is their perfect dream.

This ladies you talking about are just over ambitious and perfectionist. In the quest to settle with the best, at some point, they will settle for the best available.

Being rich only makes every girl loyal to you, it doesn't buy their hearts or love once their heart is not at home with you.

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Re: 7 Attitudes That Cause Delay In Marriage For Ladies by tripplephi: 4:39pm On Apr 25, 2020
Staphylococcus:


The ideology about the money thingy is false. Their mind is not home. They just use that to maintain status. Those ladies have where their hearts belong. Their likes you will see fvcking drivers and gardeners.

When you see the likes of Shade Okoya, Bianca Ojukwu, Regina Daniels and Carolina Danjuma, Will you say they fell in love? They only took advantage of money, not that their husbands is their perfect dream.

This ladies you talking about are just over ambitious and perfectionist. In the quest to settle with the best, at some point, they will settle for the best available.

Being rich only makes every girl loyal to you, it doesn't buy their hearts or love once their heart is not at home with you.

Strong points... you are right but these days WHO LOVE HELP?

Love does not put food on the table. That is why priorities have shifted to money

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