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When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Interesting15: 6:37am On Apr 26, 2020
Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Listen, I don't care what modernism or so called civilization is saying. This is the Will of God, and any contrary opinion doesn't matter. In fact, anything contrary will always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you have backslided already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by FreshBoss007: 6:43am On Apr 26, 2020
And this is the reason why younglings should be advised to steer off romantic relationship and instead seek friendship between peers


Romantic relationship even amongst adults has caused more doom

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Timil: 8:32am On Apr 26, 2020
How sure are you that this is all God wants?.. or is it because the Bible says so?.

No one knows what God really wants, what he wants isn't in the Bible nor Qur'an nor Torah nor any other religious books.
Don't be deceived by those books that were written by men claiming to be inspired by GOD when they weren't.

Any sound mind can sit down to write a book and say God has inspired him or her to write it. OP even you can write your own religious books and people would believe it especially Nigerians so far you hide under the guise that GOD INSPIRED YOU or GOD SAYS.

God has given us a sense of reasoning and a free will to live the way we choose and make our own decisions.

If God had wanted us to live in a specific way he would have come live with us in earth to guide us or send his emissaries to come live with us so as to enforce his rules/laws to live life.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Dogalmighty17: 10:09am On Apr 26, 2020
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Kizyte(m): 10:09am On Apr 26, 2020
I was gonna say "sex, this Sunday morning?" Until I read the body of the texts

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by ikombe: 10:10am On Apr 26, 2020
grin

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by sunshineV(f): 10:10am On Apr 26, 2020
If God wants sex before marriage why do u have a d.ck and it gets hard before marriage?

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by TruthSpeaker: 10:10am On Apr 26, 2020
As in disturbance? Look if you don’t believe in premarital sex, keep it to yourself. Why do you have to associate people wanting sex to be witches/wizards, demons, diabolical etc? Sex is a physiological need/pleasure, so it is not a bad thing to do. What you should be advocating for is for casual sex to be done with condom.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by BUSHHUNTER: 10:10am On Apr 26, 2020
How do you know what God want?










OP

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by chukzbozz86: 10:10am On Apr 26, 2020
Let he/she have it jor

After all no bi get am,.

Your body is body of Christ

Enemy of progress

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Dangrace01: 10:10am On Apr 26, 2020
What!!!!
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by IAmSkinny: 10:10am On Apr 26, 2020
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Joesef45: 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
Hahaha that’s very true

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Jeromejnr(m): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
Many are called, few are chosen.

Many will give excuses now for their love of sin, but will they on the day of the Lord?

Many who claim to be Christians also fall prey in justifying this sin, I say this to your shame.

Eternal regret is the reward of the cowardly and those who turn from the commandments of the Lord.

Be wise and flee from the wrath to come.

To the truly faithful, hold fast to your crown, so that no man may take it.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by airminem(f): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by toffyz(m): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by ecolime(m): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
So sex matter na your problem in the midst of all these corona virus wahala.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Millenniumlady(f): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
Celibacy is the real deal

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by sylve11: 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex

Abeg who get solution to what the op is seeking for?


in fact, the op don make me vex. I dey call police. angry cool

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by holluwizzy(m): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
You have said it all.



Timil:
How sure are you that this is all God wants?.. or is it because the Bible says so?.

No one knows what God really wants, what he wants isn't in the Bible nor Qur'an nor Torah nor any other religious books.
Don't be deceived by those books that were written by men claiming to be inspired by GOD when they weren't.

Any sound mind can sit down to write a book and say God has inspired him or her to write it. OP even you can write your own religious books and people would believe it especially Nigerians so far you hide under the guise that [b[GOD INSPIRED YOU or GOD SAYS.[/b]

God has given us a sense of reasoning and a free will to live the way we choose and make our own decisions.

If God had wanted us to live in a specific way he would have come live with us in earth to guide us or send his emissaries to come live with us so as to enforce his rules/laws to live life.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by SWORD419(m): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
Its seems very few Christians are practicing the true teachings of Christianity

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by ednut1(m): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
Another baseless trash.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by nairalee(m): 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
But na me dey disturb am for sex o

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Mopolchi: 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by OluwajobaCrownJ: 10:11am On Apr 26, 2020
Space Booked grin grin grin

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by wunmi590(m): 10:12am On Apr 26, 2020
Nice write up OP.


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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Osagyefo98: 10:12am On Apr 26, 2020
Abraham had a side chick who he has sex with God didn't condemn him but blessed the fruit and encouraged him more in life..


David had many side chicks but still a man after God's heart..


Solomon had multiple wives and side chicks but God still blessed him with wisdom...

Jacob married two wives, married first one and still dated the second one yet God blessed him.


Samson upon all escapades with Delilah, God still gave him chance

Even Pastor Wilson, sucking ministry of Ethiopia..

It is only in Africa that will turn the Bible upside down with un related analysis in real life...God has thought of Good for us and not evil..


He said to Adam I had created all these for you to enjoy....Let's guide ourselves on what we write and stop misleading people


Check Op life, and discover many amorous relationships perfectly hidden from people

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