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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Ospic2014: 4:36am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.
what use of the Virgina after marriage?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by SSam01: 4:37am On Apr 28, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Sounds like what is coming from a sex starved jealous woman. Bible said he that cannot hokd himself should marry. So who should she save her pussy for? If the mam was doing it once a month she would have still complained

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MostIncredibleDFirst: 4:39am On Apr 28, 2020
These days you hear all sorts of nonsense coming from married people. To dey fvck woman inside marriage don come become problem. Op may not even have anything else to offer her husband inside the marriage sef. Worse still her toto may not even be sweet, but her unfortunate husband is locked up in the so-called marriage union, and is not expected to fvck good pussies outside! With this sort of dramas inside marriages, why would some of us men think of wasting our money and time marring any woman? Women are too problematic in nature.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by GAZZUZZ(m): 4:40am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You obviously do not have any children . It will all end after that, so enjoy it while it lasts .

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Futuragetty: 4:41am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man. He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it every day. I am tired. This lockdown has even increased the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
I may not be a lady who has had a similar experience as you have. But have you talked about this with him. If you have, then you need to tell him to stop. Trust me, he will.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by franugo(m): 4:45am On Apr 28, 2020
rtdCivilservant:
Too much sex is stupid, in fact doesn't even make sense, only an abnormal person would do that. Ur husband doesn't even need to be told at least he should know that u are not a machine, why would he always engage u in sex, he lacks respect for u. Please talk to him about it before he kills u with sex because if u die he will look for someone else to continue the rubbish with, u said he is faithful but I seriously doubt it perhaps all the rubbish he's been doing with other stupid girls out there before lockdown he is now giving u the overload due to this lockdown. I am sorry to say this that he is not a responsible man, what sort of rubbish is that?

Ridiculous comment. Wife says he's faithful, you, a random and unknown commenter say he isn't Are u seeing the folly?

@op, lady said almost everyday, not everyday. Honestly I feel she's just not enjoying the sex, dts all. D frequency of the sex isn't d issue here, enjoyment might most likely be. Woman talk to ur husband and leave us out of it, he isn't a machine neither are u a slave. Tell him ur fantasy, if its cunnilingus u fantasize about, let him know. If u don't like main sex all d time, give him a Mouth Gig or handjob. Most men want release, how they get it doesn't matter. I recommend 69 kiss @julietsim

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by franugo(m): 4:48am On Apr 28, 2020
James289:


gbam. some women ehh am disappointed, they think marriage is all about sex... Service oga my foot. Such men can even sleep with anything even if the wife gives him daily... He is so dangerous even to his children. I bet his jobless that's why it's always sex that is on his mind, Nonsense

Where in d op did she say he was jobless?? So u people can't give advice without vilifying n belittling d husband

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by lateefGRDT(m): 4:49am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido
we know una type

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by teflonbuzz: 4:50am On Apr 28, 2020
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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ignis: 4:51am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You are very lucky. Just be thankful to God
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by franugo(m): 4:51am On Apr 28, 2020
GAZZUZZ:


You obviously do not have any children . It will all end after that, so enjoy it while it lasts .

Lol..we'll probably get a new topic in a years time... And the same people bashing the man for wanting it now will say he's getting outside that's why he's no longer asking.. Confused set
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by franugo(m): 4:51am On Apr 28, 2020
ignis:


You are very lucky. Just be thankful to God

kiss
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by erai30(m): 4:52am On Apr 28, 2020
Hmmmm well if I may ask? Wetin make dem buy monkey if not for play. grin
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by franugo(m): 4:53am On Apr 28, 2020
lateefGRDT:
we know una type

Lol ..she has a point though, low "passing-across" skill but has a point
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by dheolexaone(f): 4:54am On Apr 28, 2020
I understand ur plight and hearing the statement that would u prefer I get it outside...

My dear, if a man has a high sex libido and can't get it off his mind having an off duty for at least 2days, u can't keep such men wt sex.

Pls, stay off the track dt he is a good man and don't cheat, says who?

One thing u dt needs to ring a bell in ur ear is that u have to let all form of jealousy go and clear ur mind off his cheating act iin any form or d other. It will give u peace.
Talk to him about it. Don't stop!
It will come to a time when he will later turn sex into a monstrous agent for u to do because all u will see about it is pain.

Don't die in silence.
Let ur mother know about dz or u father depending on the intimacy u av for ur parents because this issue u see will still be a big issue and they will later blame u for not confiding in them or not voicing out.

I feel ur pain. God will be wt u n help him change his machine duty to a normal human.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by semyman: 4:58am On Apr 28, 2020
Mad people
If he's not you will complain
Confused specie
Good only for runs
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by sirblend: 5:04am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.
There are some women who wants it everyday..I once had that experience....I always tried keeping her busy..

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Caapho: 5:06am On Apr 28, 2020
Madam Bleep your husband well jor
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by fof1: 5:09am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
Married women who who experienced this, please advice me. I am getting tired

Communication & Prayer is key Solution Pls. He is not unusual. With time he will STABILIZE. U are just 2 Years...And pls DO NOT CHIDE HIM ANY DAY BCOZ OF IT. GOD WILL SURELY SEE U THROUGH. Communicate more. PLS
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by hamzat2003(m): 5:10am On Apr 28, 2020
That is the reason why he married you
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by IdeasPro(m): 5:12am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
Even on your pubic holiday?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by jagaban002(m): 5:14am On Apr 28, 2020
sassysure:

It's not advisable to live with that. At first ladies see this as form of showing affection and continue to enable it so to pull out is now problem.

I don't know about others and I don't lack self esteem but I will never allow a man to pound me more than twice a week. We check out this before saying I do.
That's part of compatibility.
If we can't agree on that, all man go his way. Can't continue doing something I don't enjoy. men like that have high sexual hormones. They should learn how to masturbate, get fulfilment from mouth action or even bang sex doll and leave me alone. I didn't come to this world to rump everyday.
Low self exteem in Marrige , so you will divorce if he ask 4 times in a week my sister just be ready to marry and impotent man

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by fwzolamide1(m): 5:15am On Apr 28, 2020
I'm someone like your husband. My wife didn't allow me to have sex with her for 3 days , because I'm addicted to it. After , that 3days she still refused. Ever since , when she refused to do that. I'm no longer addicted to it again, unlike before.

I would advise you to cut the days , that both of you used to have sex . So that your husband can realize, that he is addicted to it too much.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by megley(f): 5:16am On Apr 28, 2020
Even days of the week has weekends...

Everyday sex is too damn much

Make the man reason am

He should have considerations for the woman and her "little village" as my late husband used to call it

Everything should be done with moderation, so the good book say.

Too much of everything, even a good thing... Is bad

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by franugo(m): 5:17am On Apr 28, 2020
codesport:
....why can't you suggest to her to allow the man get a second wife instead of unnecessarily subjecting the man to unwarranted hardship?.

Don't mind dt child... She obviously hasn't passed puberty stage
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by bedah(m): 5:17am On Apr 28, 2020
Am married for four years I love my wife so much. This is exactly one of the reason i started seeing someone because she is always tired.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by franugo(m): 5:20am On Apr 28, 2020
sassysure:

It works for u, fine.
U accepted it, don't assume it will work for others.
And it's low self esteem. Women being afraid they may lose their husband to the other lady is the cause of this. Let me satisfy him so he won't go out. Make a research babe. That is exactly what this babe did. She was the good wife that shouldn't deny her husband, he is too good to her so why will she withhold herself. It's a sin. Part of the virtuous woman.
So she keep on enabling the selfish act from her husband.
She never ever initiate sex cos she never hunger for it

That's the most selfish act a husband can pull against the wife and guilt trip her if she says otherwise cos she lacks the self confidence to say no and mean it.
U can term it anything u want.

I don't get...did op say she has never initiated sex And even if she hadn't, dt can easily be misconstrued by d husband as shyness....let her open her mouth and talk to HER husband, after all she isn't a slave
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by tydi(m): 5:26am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Son of a bitchhh, is a black beefy man the only available option for me? You are sicckkk in the brain.

You gat no choice dear. You're struck and drained.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by jagaban002(m): 5:27am On Apr 28, 2020
Any man that’s having sex everyday just want to kill himself , no advice anyone can give u than to talk to mr Jonny sins heart to heart that you is wife not sex slave and he should take it easy with you And pray about it , please don’t lose ur home because of sex if leave him you don’t know who u gonna meet next .
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Sike(m): 5:27am On Apr 28, 2020
Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!
Best comment ever!
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by BEEFIE: 5:28am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

lockdown doesn't means lockout
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Combus: 5:30am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.
Take it as a fun then you will enjoy it.

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