[quote author=Liliantalks post=89194813] u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it [/quote
is your man also entitled to your money?

sexylassie2:
leave all these broke men here acting like their mother didnt ask their father for money when they were dating

FRUSTRATED SLUT, WETIN NA?
NO WORK AGAIN? ABI DEY NO DEY PATRONIZE YOUR SLUTY BUSINESS?
TAKE HEART DEAR, EVERYTHING WILL BE OVER.



FIRST_CLASS ODE.

Justbehave:
Everything you said here would have been right if only you can offer any other thing apart from your kpekus.

she has nothing to offer other than SEX. Oloshoism in a different form.

Liliantalks:
think about it , whenu strike a girl n u feel she has nothing to offer you than sex u dump her ,, but let’s be realistic , many men r married to their women cause of sex , and many women r married to their men cause of money , the others is a relevant plus . Sex and money brings both sex together

If that's the only point of getting married, I rather die single. Your mentality is so wrong.

DeHill:

she has nothing to offer other than SEX. Oloshoism in a different form.

Thats why I can't give in to their manipulations.All she said here is just to coerce simps into spending money on them.

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

it depends on the relationship. are you in a transactional relationship? ie a relationship where the woman is offering sex and man is offering money. If that is the kind of relationship you are in then you have a point.

If you are in serious relationship ie a relationship that both the man and woman is hoping would lead to marriage, then you have no point.

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

pls, go and start OLOSHO work. Even if a man spends all his money on you, you will still dump him for a richer GUY.
Entitlement mentality is a very serious mental illness.

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

pls, go and start OLOSHO work. Even if a man spends all his money on you, you will still dump him for a richer GUY.
Entitlement mentality is a very serious mental illness.

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

pls, go and start OLOSHO work. Even if a man spends all his money on you, you will still dump him for a richer GUY.
Entitlement mentality is a very serious mental illness.

In a NORMAL healthy relationship, both the male and female go out to work a d bring in the bread, taking care of them selves with THEIR OWN money equitably, everybody contributing equally where needed and both of them making viable long term plans for their futures

But in this country what is the norm is for a broken lady with nothing of note to contribute latching on to a man that will take care of her needs ant the needs of her wretched village

Nigerian men this is wrong

Get yourself a strong capable woman so that your own daughter will not log on nairaland to display the way these ladies living wretched lives do

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

well said OP, as a guy this ur talk pain me but it's the sad truth

sexylassie2:


runsgirl just like me do it for fun and little cash

all these broke boys are quick to call names and get inferiority complex fast

wot i no undastand z why sexylassie2, an old wuman wey dey beg 2 b a babymama dey call pipu broke

pesin wey a low bujet sweetcunt97 wit all ha 97 bodi counts dey giv advise. dame sexylassie2 dey call pipu broke

Liliantalks:
so my boyfriend is not my man ?? He’s now my what? Why then r we hving sex? Be realistic Biko ! Many guys out there r responsible and still doing the needful, u don’t need to tell me I will definitely discontinue with a stingy man , dating a stingy man is like being cursed

According to you, who is a stingy man? I will like to read your views....

Liliantalks:
our mothers r more entitled than we are , a million and one times . So we just started being entitled? Who thought us to be entitled, who thought that a man who can’t take care of you should be dumped . Oh ladies just started being entitled out of the blue . U can complain here but reality will remain reality.

Not true. Our mothers were more decent than most ladies we have around today.

Poverty, lack of purpose in life and laziness are some of the factors that has made some women to develop the entitlement mentality.

A woman I'm dating dare not ask me for money for hair. Truly money is not my problem at all, I grow it everyday like grass aside my monthly pay slip thanks to the internet but I am a man of principle.

I don't do anything with small girls and I guess this OP is a poorly brought up small girl that knows nothing about life apart from her stupid hair on her empty head but someone like me will always pass and least I can do is to peep from my side mirror when I have passsed if and only if you set and that's all.

As a matter of principle, my own principle is that my woman's hair is her responsibility just as my hair is my responsibility and this sticks. Now one Lady I was talking with asked if I don't give her money for hair as my gf will I give her as a wife? I didn't give a straight answer. The last thing I can do is to put myself on a pedestal where I become a cash cow to some worthless girl looking for where to cash out.

Having said this I do not expect things to always be rosy. As a matter fact I have nothing to gain from a woman that doesn't know how many satoshi makes one bitcoin but just sex and so I make them understand that in everything I do with you I invest zero of my emotions and so walking away is as easy as ABC.

Men need to just grow a thick skin. I see a lot of guys come here and say they have to put up with a lot of things because they love her and I ask what nonsense love.

These broke men want to always have sex without obligations.

You cant have your cake and eat it too.

MedicH:
A woman I'm dating dare not ask me for money for hair. Truly money is not my problem at all, I grow it everyday like grass aside my monthly pay slip thanks to the internet but I am a man of principle.

I don't do anything with small girls and I guess this OP is a poorly brought up small girl that knows nothing about life apart from her stupid hair on her empty head but someone like me will always pass and least I can do is to peep from my side mirror when I have passsed if and only if you set and that's all.

As a matter of principle, my own principle is that my woman's hair is her responsibility just as my hair is my responsibility and this sticks. Now one Lady I was talking with asked if I don't give her money for hair as my gf will I give her as a wife? I didn't give a straight answer. The last thing I can do is to put myself on a pedestal where I become a cash cow to some worthless girl looking for where to cash out.

Having said this I do not expect things to always be rosy. As a matter fact I have nothing to gain from a woman that doesn't know how many satoshi makes one bitcoin but just sex and so I make them understand that in everything I do with you I invest zero of my emotions and so walking away is as easy as ABC.

Men need to just grow a thick skin. I see a lot of guys come here and say they have to put up with a lot of things because they love her and I ask what nonsense love.

But you want free sex?

You want where she will open her legs for you without no issue.

To drain life out of her but then when she ask for ordinary hair money, you say No
But when she starts rejecting you from having sex, you start complaining and forming attitudes.

sexylassie2:



But you want free sex?

You want where she will open her legs for you without no issue.

You and sex. How much will I pay to to have sex with you?

Descortes:
that's a lady

Yeah

sexylassie2:
These broke men want to always have sex without obligations.

You cant have your cake and eat it too.

Tah....
negodu Ashawo

when I was a guest I see threads like this and just laugh , men boosting up and down , ladies arguing! What’s money for hair ? If I am going to shoprite to get stuffs we go together, almost every month. It’s nothing to me , if her hair is messy I know , she doesn’t need to ask , I know she would make her hair twice a month , we share sub , we share Netflix. I don’t even regard it as money , I won’t spend more than 20k a month or 30k if there is any special need , and I hv her Pusey any day any time , u get a runs babe and pay her 10k a night, lol Na wah for Una argument o

sexylassie2:
leave all these broke men here acting like their mother didnt ask their father for money when they were dating

Broke Ashawo

Maybe it’s because i am an Igbo guy , I can’t even be among my friends n debate this nonsense debate, the insults u will get, lol
Right from the beginning of my life , I always Dey help women, some I Bleep , some I won’t , some cm around ones a while , tell me ur problem n I help out except I don’t hv or I am pissed with the babe . I no Dey reason all those things at all.

People don’t know the meaning of the word MONEY IS NOT MY PROBLEM, spew it around n then again start arguing about giving women money !! Who I suppose give money b4? Man?

Just say u no get , or u find woman wey no get big eye , wey ur small money go fit maintain .

I like independent women but woman money no Dey sweet me. I will still do what I hv to do as a man .

Dande55:

God forbid.

What we have in this generation are not men but sick lazy dogs.

She should be the head of the relationship and be calling the shots.
Tufia, I pity the lady

Not every lady is a broke ass girl like you ... the more reason guys should runaway from a brokelyn like you

sexylassie2:



But you want free sex?

You want where she will open her legs for you without no issue.

To drain life out of her but then when she ask for ordinary hair money, you say No
But when she starts rejecting you from having sex, you start complaining and forming attitudes.

Free sex?? See I've had my fair share and I do not date for sex. I pride myself as one man that can stick with a no sex till marriage relationship and there's a NL member here that can attest. Thing is how can we be useful to ourselves aside the obvious. How exactly?

StrongandMighty:


Not every lady is a broke ass girl like you ... the more reason guys should runaway from a brokelyn like you

Oga, I'm not broke but God forbid I date someone I pay his bills.
May your sisters take up the responsibility of the man in the house. May she shoulder the house hold bills and take responsibility all by herself.
Useless lazy man.

MedicH:
A woman I'm dating dare not ask me for money for hair. Truly money is not my problem at all, I grow it everyday like grass aside my monthly pay slip thanks to the internet but I am a man of principle.

I don't do anything with small girls and I guess this OP is a poorly brought up small girl that knows nothing about life apart from her stupid hair on her empty head but someone like me will always pass and least I can do is to peep from my side mirror when I have passsed if and only if you set and that's all.

As a matter of principle, my own principle is that my woman's hair is her responsibility just as my hair is my responsibility and this sticks. Now one Lady I was talking with asked if I don't give her money for hair as my gf will I give her as a wife? I didn't give a straight answer. The last thing I can do is to put myself on a pedestal where I become a cash cow to some worthless girl looking for where to cash out.

Having said this I do not expect things to always be rosy. As a matter fact I have nothing to gain from a woman that doesn't know how many satoshi makes one bitcoin but just sex and so I make them understand that in everything I do with you I invest zero of my emotions and so walking away is as easy as ABC.

Men need to just grow a thick skin. I see a lot of guys come here and say they have to put up with a lot of things because they love her and I ask what nonsense love.

Bro any tip on how to earn side income online?

I don't suffer myself to date an entitled girl. Sadly, even the so called educated ladies earning big have same mentality.

Dande55:

Oga, I'm not broke but God forbid I date someone I pay his bills.
May your sisters take up the responsibility of the man in the house. May she shoulder the house hold bills and take responsibility all by herself.
Useless lazy man.

typical ideology of a Muslim...

Theundertaker:
Maybe it’s because i am an Igbo guy , I can’t even be among my friends n debate this nonsense debate, the insults u will get, lol
Right from the beginning of my life , I always Dey help women, some I Bleep , some I won’t , some cm around ones a while , tell me ur problem n I help out except I don’t hv or I am pissed with the babe . I no Dey reason all those things at all.

People don’t know the meaning of the word MONEY IS NOT MY PROBLEM, spew it around n then again start arguing about giving women money !! Who I suppose give money b4? Man?

Just say u no get , or u find woman wey no get big eye , wey ur small money go fit maintain .

I like independent women but woman money no Dey sweet me. I will still do what I hv to do as a man .

You are right. Simps are known to always reason like you. So carry on. You are a real man.

Why should a man care if a woman is broke or not ? Weyti concern u with woman money, u like the body n u feel comfortable around her , that’s all that really matters .

I rest my case

Dande55:

Oga, I'm not broke but God forbid I date someone I pay his bills.
May your sisters take up the responsibility of the man in the house. May she shoulder the house hold bills and take responsibility all by herself.
Useless lazy man.

STFU... you're a brokeass girl
and that's the reason why you feel so comfortable attacking anyone that refuses to spend his money on a lady or anyone that says his gf spends on him..
go and make money then change your mentality being broke has ruined your normal sense of reasoning

StrongandMighty:


STFU... you're a brokeass girl
and that's the reason why you feel so comfortable attacking anyone that refuses to spend his money on a lady or anyone that says his gf spends on him..
go and make money then change your mentality being broke has ruined your normal sense of reasoning

Yea, I'm broke very broke. But that wouldn't change my stance. I can never date a lazy broke idiot like you. Call it whatever, I will never take take responsibility of any man. It's called standard. Go and hustle and stop being a lazy entitled emasculated id1ot.

You see what many of us seem not to Understand is that...Women are incapable of loving Men the way Men want to be Loved...it's always something for something...theres no such thing as unconditional Love with women...the only woman who can love you unconditionally is your Mother