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Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by farem: 9:36pm On May 09, 2020
Banker Takes N3 Million Loan For Wedding, Commits Suicide After Two Months Marriage Crashed

The family of Mr. Okpanachi John is currently mourning after their son committed suicide over his marriage crashed two months after his wedding.

John WAR learned works in one of the new generational banks in the Kaduna branch and is 37 years of age.

His elder brother Michael Okpanach, said, a note found beside his corpse inside his sitting room reveals he committed suicide over his marriage crash. He, however, added that the deceased borrowed over N3 million from a bank for his wedding.

John, who lives at the Sabo area along the refinery road in Kaduna, married a lady from the Ankpa area of Kogi state while he comes from Ofu local government in the same state with his wife.

Michael said John’s marriage hit a rock as soon as they wedded, narrating how his brother had on many occasions called him to report how the wife was trying to turn him into a house boy, an attempt he said his brother resisted.

He disclosed that the marriage finally came to an ended when John’s ex-wife pulled him out of a car he was driving on a busy street of Kaduna, on the ground that the car is a wedding gift from her father, claiming her husband has no right to drive the car without her approval.

Michael told WAR, angry with the development, his younger brother; John terminated the marriage, two months after the wedding and did not come out of the trauma until he committed suicide.

John who committed suicide on Tuesday morning according to the elder brother drank a poisonous chemical suspected to be a sniper and was seen when his neighbours forced open his door when they did not see him until 1:00 pm.

He, however, added that his dead body has been deposited in a mortuary while the family is preparing to take him back to Ofu for burial.

https://www.westafricareporters.com/banker-takes-n3-million-loan-for-wedding-commits-suicide-two-months-marriage-crashed/

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by GOFRONT(m): 9:38pm On May 09, 2020
Chaiii......

Where are those Pallbearers, Let them come and dance with him.....

Soured Marriages everywhere Nowadayz.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by opera1(m): 9:40pm On May 09, 2020
Double wàhálà. A Failed relationship is 101% better than a failed/crashed marriage.

2ndly: Don't do beyond ur limit to impress others.

Why 3m loan jux for "unmatched wedding?"

Ending his life is the worst option.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by saheedbadmus(m): 9:40pm On May 09, 2020
I for say see brother wey mumu but love makes us do stupid things.. Rest In Peace ..May God give enough strength to the bereaved family to bear the irreparable loss. May the departed soul rest in peace.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by mployer(m): 9:40pm On May 09, 2020
People Sha.

Shit happens when you go carry wetin pass you.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Cuddlebugie(f): 9:41pm On May 09, 2020
The deceased had the unmatched misfortune of marrying his "oga" and plunging himself into debt for a marriage devoid of love and respect.

He divorced his "oga", yet, he had no peace, so, he ended things by commiting suicide.

What a miserable life he lived!

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by fuckingAyaya(m): 9:43pm On May 09, 2020
My wedding reception Address no time for rice no reach us

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by ojun50(m): 9:48pm On May 09, 2020
fuckingAyaya:
My wedding reception Address no time for rice no reach us
Forget make Yoruba people no knw the address

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by gaby(m): 9:51pm On May 09, 2020
People wey dey live their lives to impress the world or seek their validation.

One would begin to ask if they ever dated at all, and how the woman come take see the poor guy finish within such a shortie.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by bukatyne(f): 10:10pm On May 09, 2020
If the deceased knew that the marriage/wife/relationship was so important to him, why didn't he seek a compromise rather than a divorce? undecided

God be with his parents and everyone who would be affected by this loss.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by sisisioge: 10:16pm On May 09, 2020
Oh my goodness! What an unreasonable fellow!

1. He married a witch. Did he not court her before marriage? Surely , he saw the signs.

2. He borrowed money for a party...what an unwise fellow.

3. He allowed another human to run him out of life....what a weakling! Him and him God go dey talk am.

Hian!

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by CsRockefeller(m): 10:19pm On May 09, 2020
I really feel sorry for him, I am sure he didn't see this coming, he must have loved her enough to take that loan then BOOM!! It came down crashing. cry

I am beginning to think being single might be better than being married.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Nobody: 10:21pm On May 09, 2020
What a pity.
He hoped the hypergamy would work out in his favour. The simp. Taking that much loan for a wedding and eventually committing suicide because of the dead-on-arrival marriage only proves that he was never a confident fellow. And was really the architect of his own doom.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by CsRockefeller(m): 10:22pm On May 09, 2020
sisisioge:
Oh my goodness! What an unreasonable fellow!

1. He married a witch. Did he not court her before marriage? Surely , he saw the signs.

2. He borrowed money for a party...what an unwise fellow.

3. He allowed another human to run him out of life....what a weakling! Him and him God go dey talk am.

Hian!

But your not a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So you don't have a clue. angry

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by yomi007k(m): 10:23pm On May 09, 2020
I think what happened here is that the lady comes from a rich family and the guy tried to keep up by getting a loan.

He was hoping to eat his cake and have it but the lady turned him to a house boy.

Fake Love
Fake Life.


#personal opinion.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by topedoski(m): 10:25pm On May 09, 2020
Love is deeper than what we imagined

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Pavore9: 10:53pm On May 09, 2020
Sad.
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Plead(m): 10:56pm On May 09, 2020
Tale by moonlight.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by dingbang(m): 11:37pm On May 09, 2020
yomi007k:
I think what happended here is that the lady comes from a rich family and the guy tried to keep up by getting a loan.

He was hoping to eat his cake and have it but the lady turned him to a house boy.

Fake Love
Fake Life.


#personal opinion.
I think so too

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Yuceeluv(f): 11:43pm On May 09, 2020
Is this a Joke?

SMH! Stop living your life to please people. This is where it ends.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:56pm On May 09, 2020
borrowed 3M for his wedding...?! when are these people gonna learn?!

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by chiemmanuel(m): 12:26am On May 10, 2020
Wedding is for a day
Marriage is for a lifetime

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Nobody: 1:02am On May 10, 2020
Just AVOID MARRIAGE If U can.
Just avoid it, however if you recently got married and realise you have made the worst mistake, Please Run away..... Just evacuate yourself from it.
Your DEATH is not worth it.

Being unmarried doesn't stop you from having a CHILD or being a FATHER.
IF that GUY had invested 3 MILLION NAIRA as a Single FATHER.... he would have been alive today and happier.
Memory Verse:
Nowadays MARRIAGES draw you closer to the DEVIL.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Sijo01(f): 1:05am On May 10, 2020
farem:
Banker commits suicide after divorce...


A banker identified as Okpanachi John, working with a branch of one the new generational banks in Kaduna, has reportedly committed suicide.

The 37-year-old, who was said to have borrowed N3 million for his wedding from the bank two months ago, took his own life after the marriage crashed.

Michael Okoanachi, his elder brother, said a suicide note found beside his corpse inside his sitting room, revealed that he committed suicide over his failed marriage, West African Reporters reports.

He confirmed that his late brother took loan from his place of work to finance his wedding.

The deceased, who lived in the Sabo area, along the refinery road in Kaduna, married a lady from Ankpa area of Kogi State, while he hailed from Ofu Local Government Area of the same state.

Michael said John’s marriage hit the rock as soon as they wedded, narrating how his brother had on many occasions, called him to report how the wife tried to turn him into a house boy, an attempt he said his brother resisted.

He stated that the marriage finally ended, when John’s wife pulled him out of a car he was driving on a busy street in Kaduna, on the ground that the car is a wedding gift from her father, and he has no right to drive it without her permission.

Michael noted that his younger brother, who became angry and embarrassed over the development, terminated the marriage two months after the wedding, and did not come out of the trauma until he committed suicide.

He said John drank a poisonous chemical suspected to be a sniper on the morning of April 5, 2020.

He stated that his neighbours forced his door open at about 1.00pm, when they did not see him.

According to him, his body has been deposited in a mortuary, while the family is preparing to take him home for burial.


shocked shocked
Egbami o

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by fastseo: 1:14am On May 10, 2020
cry
Only in Africa u will see people borrowing money for parties... ( wedding) rather for investment that will yield returns.
Even though he pays 100k per month he would have used 2 years and 6 months to clear up the loan minus interest.

That's why I tell people to always do a simple wedding, you don't need to invite the world.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Bola146(f): 2:57am On May 10, 2020
Omo see gobe shocked shocked borrowed 3 million what Ha.. he invested in wedding and not a good business Abiru man wo niyi oooo Jesu ?! Kai!

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by johnkey: 4:37am On May 10, 2020
Borrow money to do wedding lol idiot. If your family members contribute money for your wedding you're also an idiot lol.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by cococandy(f): 5:00am On May 10, 2020
He probably committed suicide because after the divorce, he didn’t know how to pay back the money.
The wife and her family might have been his back up plan in repaying the loan. I don’t necessarily think he took his own life because he missed his wife so much.
More like he didn’t see things working out according to his plan. Which is sad. May he Rest In Peace

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by edoman2016: 5:26am On May 10, 2020
cococandy:
He probably committed suicide because after the divorce, he didn’t know how to pay back the money.
The wife and her family might have been his back up plan in repaying the loan. I don’t necessarily think he took his own life because he missed his wife so much.
More like he didn’t see things working out according to his plan. Which is sad. May he Rest In Peace
How can you reason like this? Can't you read the man is a banker and not jobless. The man committed suicide because the wife simply has bad attitude and not a wife material.

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by mzDIY: 6:09am On May 10, 2020
Hmmmm, people shud stop putting so much effort into wedding planning and focus on the marriage after.

Wedding is a 1 day event, u will feed and dance for other people that will not even remember the taste of the jollof rice .

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by cococandy(f): 6:17am On May 10, 2020
edoman2016:

How can you reason like this? Can't you read the man is a banker and not jobless. The man committed suicide because the wife simply has bad attitude and not a wife material.

That makes more sense than killing himself for a wife that he already broke up with. It’s not like she left. He initiated the break up

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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by PuZZyNegro: 6:59am On May 10, 2020
farem:
Banker commits suicide after divorce...


A banker identified as Okpanachi John, working with a branch of one the new generational banks in Kaduna, has reportedly committed suicide.

The 37-year-old, who was said to have borrowed N3 million for his wedding from the bank two months ago, took his own life after the marriage crashed.

Michael Okoanachi, his elder brother, said a suicide note found beside his corpse inside his sitting room, revealed that he committed suicide over his failed marriage, West African Reporters reports.

He confirmed that his late brother took loan from his place of work to finance his wedding.

The deceased, who lived in the Sabo area, along the refinery road in Kaduna, married a lady from Ankpa area of Kogi State, while he hailed from Ofu Local Government Area of the same state.

Michael said John’s marriage hit the rock as soon as they wedded, narrating how his brother had on many occasions, called him to report how the wife tried to turn him into a house boy, an attempt he said his brother resisted.

He stated that the marriage finally ended, when John’s wife pulled him out of a car he was driving on a busy street in Kaduna, on the ground that the car is a wedding gift from her father, and he has no right to drive it without her permission.

Michael noted that his younger brother, who became angry and embarrassed over the development, terminated the marriage two months after the wedding, and did not come out of the trauma until he committed suicide.

He said John drank a poisonous chemical suspected to be a sniper on the morning of April 5, 2020.

He stated that his neighbours forced his door open at about 1.00pm, when they did not see him.

According to him, his body has been deposited in a mortuary, while the family is preparing to take him home for burial.

Source?

The guy died an idi(o)t

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