spinna:
He make big party..
Then him start to spray...
because him love him wife...
Mrs Wife come runaway...
Bank manager run come..
He say Mr pay me your debt..
Wetin he dey fiiiind?

Palava he dey find
Palava he go get ooooo.

I was about to type this Fela song but I just saw yours

3 million for a bloody 2 hour ceremony??!... Who was he trying to impress??! Of course, we all know the answer!!!

Instead of marrying who merely tolerates you, better stay single!!!

We need to stop pressuring people directly or indirectly to get married... Singleness is not a taboo!!!... Failed society with misplaced priorities!!!

edoman2016:

How can you reason like this? Can't you read the man is a banker and not jobless. The man committed suicide because the wife simply has bad attitude and not a wife material.

Banker? On how much salary?

Ladycewhy:
you were probably drunk reading that thread , present your evidence or STFU.


And since you don use your mouth swear if you don't bring your evidence na the swear go kill you.

You know life isn't that serious. So chill

stevmatt15:


I have lots of things to pray for, since I was born I never include woman or wife in my prayers. no be by force to marry. I have lots of cousins to train to brighter future, why then will I waste my time prayer for a woman WO-MAN?
NOOOOOOOOO
I am not marrying.

How I wish I was one of ur cousins.
I will flex ur money, open a business, make u my wedding sponsor and give you a grand child. Ur cousins are fortunate.

ochukwuma15:
He didn't commit suicide because of the money he borrowed from the bank.

He didn't commit suicide because he separated or divorced the wife.

He committed suicide because of threats from the wife and her family

threats over what exactly?

CsRockefeller:
I really feel sorry for him, I am sure he didn't see this coming, he must have loved her enough to take that loan then BOOM!! It came down crashing.

I am beginning to think being single might be better than being married.

u are right b single is good sometimes and people use to say that he or she who is single his or her -in -law dnt use to dead ,dnt do pass ur power

Angelfrost:
3 million for a bloody 2 hour ceremony??!... Who was he trying to impress??! Of course, we all know the answer!!!

Instead of marrying who merely tolerates you, better stay single!!!

We need to stop pressuring people directly or indirectly to get married... Singleness is not a taboo!!!... Failed society with misplaced priorities!!!

Seriously! But aren't you among those Nairaland male calling some female evening newspaper?

Omoluabi16:
You know life isn't that serious. So chill

this is my chill face bro.

pansophist:
Women are sensitive alot to social status, far more than men could ever imagine. The deceased ex wife knew that he is a broke hustler living beyond his means to impress and compliment her, it was an artificial charade that she saw through, instead of being organically a strong man that can actually fund the wedding without indebting himself. She just cant help herself but loses respect for him. He even made matter worse by validating her behaviours by killing himself, proving that he has little worth.

yes....she might not b aware of d loan

bukatyne:
If the deceased knew that the marriage/wife/relationship was so important to him, why didn't he seek a compromise rather than a divorce?

God be with his parents and everyone who would be affected by this loss.

Aunty you are always on threads dishing out unrealistic advices ... hope you aren’t a TOXIC being seeking or hoping to find a man to condone your toxicity.. it apparent the woman had no iota of respect for her late husband and u are advocating compromise ... manage manage till you die ....is Marraige the essence of your existence..if you attempt and after applying reasonable measures to address your problems without success ..take a long WALK to freedom... stop deceiving gullible folks who would manage and manage till they leave the Marraige in a casket !!!!

Gold digging marriage is deadly

bukatyne:
If the deceased knew that the marriage/wife/relationship was so important to him, why didn't he seek a compromise rather than a divorce?

God be with his parents and everyone who would be affected by this loss.

Exactly, after all he was a gold digger.

well he invested the borrowed money in a sucide-tense-marriage in return he reaped coolers of rice n stew n soup etc...

iamloyalty:


Seriously! But aren't you among those Nairaland male calling some female evening newspaper?

Me??! Where??! When??!... Look through my profile and comments ma.

I am very much against the useless and meaningless bandwagon or norm of compelling matrimony on people far from ready!!! That's a backward thinking pattern, especially in this age.

I never ever view married people as in anyway better than their single counterparts...

That woman, according to the story, treated him so harshly and badly. Its really sad. Wish he didn't succeed at killing himself.

Depression is real. I think his family members didn't help him on time.

Gracemadeit:
Hebrews 5:13 For every one that useth milk is unskilful in the word of righteousness: for he is a babe. 5:14 But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.

Shatap

grandstar:


What compromise? He married the wrong lady, period!

He focused on the outside rather than the inside and got badly burnt.

Whose fault was it that he married the wrong lady?

Why didn't he run scenarios on divorce and putting up with her/working things out?

It is his parents I pity:

After investing a lot into him.

So sad�

farem:


https://www.westafricareporters.com/banker-takes-n3-million-loan-for-wedding-commits-suicide-two-months-marriage-crashed/

MARRIAGE IS A SCAM, UNA NO GO HEAR.
JUST BE A Bleep BOY AND LIVE HAPPILY.

GOFRONT:
Chaiii......

Where are those Pallbearers, Let them come and dance with him.....

Soured Marriages everywhere Nowadayz.

We are here..... What's the latest ����

clarity4clear:
Make you no do pass yourself! 3M loan for wedding and the marriage still come Crash, hmmmm double wahala! God rest his soul.

and the nigga die join.

CsRockefeller:
I really feel sorry for him, I am sure he didn't see this coming, he must have loved her enough to take that loan then BOOM!! It came down crashing.

I am beginning to think being single might be better than being married.

Or just just be fucking ladies around and break some hearts.

My GO have been saying repeatedly, don't marry your enemy

opera1:
Double wàhálà. A Failed relationship is 101% better than a failed/crashed marriage.

2ndly: Don't do beyond ur limit to impress others.

Why 3m loan jux for "unmatched wedding?"

Ending his life is the worst option.

Wedding ceremonies are never for guys, no benefit whatever for guys. its only for womens' ego...

Punchline33:
You don't need too much to wed in Nigeria if you use your head and you don't need too much to enjoy the marriage too. In my house, once I provide money for food, I choose when to, how to and if I will do any other thing at home. My wife dare not ask unnecessary questions and yet, she is crazy all over me. With little money she will cook two sets of soup and serve me food and clears the plates when am done. She kneels down to greet me every morning (am still shock on this) and she tells me to pray for her. As a man, you can choose your wife carefully by not expecting anything from her. I mean material things. It is wrong to marry a woman because of what you stand to gain materially. If my wife later changes tomorrow when she starts making her own money, I won't care because I have enjoyed the marriage for some years atleast. Guys forget beauty and big nyash, marry humility and fear of God and other things will follow.

Hmmmmmm.

May your daughter may a man like you.

yomi007k:
I think what happened here is that the lady comes from a rich family and the guy tried to keep up by getting a loan.

He was hoping to eat his cake and have it but the lady turned him to a house boy.

Fake Love
Fake Life.


#personal opinion.

na so

Stupid man

edoman2016:

How can you reason like this? Can't you read the man is a banker and not jobless. The man committed suicide because the wife simply has bad attitude and not a wife material.

Im ashamed at ur sense of reasoning.
So because hes a banker means he is wealthy bah? U dont know anything boy
He committed sucide cos he doesnt see himself been able to payback d loan. He was doomed

MhizJoyce:

Read the story again and tell me how possible it is for a woman to pull a man out of a moving vehicle.

Nothing is impossible.
Going by the story, it's apparent the lady, the daughter of a rich man, did not respect her husband.
What can't a scornful woman do?

the news source (https://www.westafricareporters.com/) is very low budget na.