ibkayee:

Lol I prefer it to American too actually, they sound too cheerful for me

UyaiIncomparabl:


See ehn, if I continue to indulge you for these irrelevant quarrels, tomorrow go come meet us for here.

My last quote for you tonight, Joseph. Grow up, really grow, have sense, and I mean lots of it because if you continue like this, you may not turn out well. All these boys sef!

KanwuliaBaby:


94 banned ones and 50 active ones.

I think “Pyguguru” aka “spambottucks”, a moderator, is in love with me.

Plead:


And they were all created in your name? Inserts shocked smiley.

KanwuliaExtra talk oh

KanwuliaExtra:




https://www.nairaland.com/4514470/nairaland-x-point-o-10

Plead:


Dash me one na.. one that doesn’t have kanwulia in it.

I have only about 5 accounts and this one is the only one not on a lengthy ban. No emails to create another one jare.

Can I send a pm?

bukatyne:
Happy Sunday peeps.

I see, hear and read a lot of ladies been advised to 'face their career (which is actually work sef) and think of marriage later'.

Or just the short form 'career before marriage'.

Whatever variation of the advise, it generates laughter in me because:

1. Work/tilling the ground is actually a man's curse;
2. Work is just a means to an end: survival, sustenance etc.

Work in itself cannot give satisfaction hence replacing your family with 'work' always ends in tears.

There is a reason work is often described as 'soul sucking'.

I watched an interview of Kourtney Kardashian where she said as she turned forty, she was afraid to die empty and felt she wasn't living enough.

That is a work/job: it gives you money and the fine things of life however, it can never give fulfillment. That's why even the very rich after they have made money start to look for causes how they can touch the lives of people positively or negatively.

That is not to say we should not be productive or resourceful. Every human should to the best of their ability be productive in a job, vocation or their calling.

Now, there is something called 'calling or purpose'. This is the reason why you were created on earth. People's purpose range from pulling drugged kids off the street, inventing something to make our lives easier to writing lyrics that touch the soul. It can as well be spiritual as per pastors, evangelists, teachers, etc. etc.

How do we discover this purpose or calling?
1. God tells you;
2. You discover what you do effortless or what you are always drawn to. Some people would say what you can all day got free and be satisfied;
3. You discover your talents or gifts.

Some people are extremely lucky that their calling is their work. E. G. Someone whose calling is taking off drugged youth off the streets working in a NGO into rehabilitating drug addicts etc.

Every body has the duty to discover their purpose and fulfill it.

In summary, work is just work: a means to an end of living a better life and fulfilling your purpose/assignment in earth.

Update: Original thread ended on page one.

Drama started from page two.

Myer:


How does one find his/her purpose?

Have you found yours?

bukatyne:


Pray to God and ask him to show you.

Myer:


Lol I can assure you that that doesn't work.

I stand to be corrected if you can prove me wrong though. Be honest, has God informed you of your own purpose? Other than the generic biblical purpose to serve and worship God.

bukatyne:
Happy Sunday peeps.

I see, hear and read a lot of ladies been advised to 'face their career (which is actually work sef) and think of marriage later'.

Or just the short form 'career before marriage'.

Whatever variation of the advise, it generates laughter in me because:

1. Work/tilling the ground is actually a man's curse;
2. Work is just a means to an end: survival, sustenance etc.

Work in itself cannot give satisfaction hence replacing your family with 'work' always ends in tears.

There is a reason work is often described as 'soul sucking'.

I watched an interview of Kourtney Kardashian where she said as she turned forty, she was afraid to die empty and felt she wasn't living enough.

That is a work/job: it gives you money and the fine things of life however, it can never give fulfillment. That's why even the very rich after they have made money start to look for causes how they can touch the lives of people positively or negatively.

That is not to say we should not be productive or resourceful. Every human should to the best of their ability be productive in a job, vocation or their calling.

Now, there is something called 'calling or purpose'. This is the reason why you were created on earth. People's purpose range from pulling drugged kids off the street, inventing something to make our lives easier to writing lyrics that touch the soul. It can as well be spiritual as per pastors, evangelists, teachers, etc. etc.

How do we discover this purpose or calling?
1. God tells you;
2. You discover what you do effortless or what you are always drawn to. Some people would say what you can all day got free and be satisfied;
3. You discover your talents or gifts.

Some people are extremely lucky that their calling is their work. E. G. Someone whose calling is taking off drugged youth off the streets working in a NGO into rehabilitating drug addicts etc.

Every body has the duty to discover their purpose and fulfill it.

In summary, work is just work: a means to an end of living a better life and fulfilling your purpose/assignment in earth.

Update: Original thread ended on page one.

Drama started from page two.

ThothHermes:
It fascinates me all the time.

They are supposed to be the "sophisticated", " modern", "independent" career women. But somehow, threads by a woman who is not as modern as they are supposed to be continues to bite them.

You've seen the OP's name, so you already know what to expect. The easy thing would be to ignore the thread. But for where, they'll read the thread and make notes. The truth continues to frustrate them.


As the good book says: "we can do nothing against the truth but for the truth"

bukatyne:


See our efiko, efiwe o!

Children nor de tey big

Translated verbatim from my language.

Keep peppering them joor.

So you have a job, husband, kids and even have time for them

Carry go!

Lol.

This. Is. Hilarious. It low-key, subtle feels like saying, "bam! what I've been preaching all along?"

This thread is crazyy.

Lemme continue chilling, and reading comments.

bukatyne:


Me ke?

The fact that you spoke ten pages about your family FIRST with pictures is proof enough for me.

The thread was not even about family to start with.