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|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by CHoccolaTE: 12:03am On May 14, 2020|
Lol, you have a point tho,
But at least it's better than the ones that want 100 percent 24/7 submission while being jobless bums at the same time
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ybaby: 12:05am On May 14, 2020|
My sister I love being submissive but no woman should abhor an infidel in the first place talkless of infidel making demands.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by djon78(m): 12:06am On May 14, 2020|
That's why many men lock up with there money. Some have died with huge money in the bank without any of there family knowing about it.
Some men even place more value on there siblings than there spouse, so any day he goes, his close family members lay hold on his things.
That's why genuine honesty and empathy must be displayed in a marriage. Because it makes some men Harden up and see marriage more like a business engagement.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by CHoccolaTE: 12:09am On May 14, 2020|
They are many in Nigeria
Infidels claiming head of house and demanding submission
There was a topic about one like that some days ago
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Omoluabi16(m): 12:13am On May 14, 2020|
We go dey alright.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Nobody: 12:18am On May 14, 2020|
Keep selling your pussy to d highest bidder, I hope to have my share someday.
And I will.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ybaby: 12:27am On May 14, 2020|
If a man is not a provider which money is he now locking up ??
You guys will fight everything except poverty
O ma se o
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Prymestrr(m): 12:27am On May 14, 2020|
Ybaby:Mama chill your roars abeg. Don't play the dirty game coz you'll only end up hurting yourself when the chips are down and you go to bed re-examining your day. You're bigger than this
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ybaby: 12:30am On May 14, 2020|
Why are you speaking for me
hurt myself how
Mi that I am here at past 12midnight you think I don't know what I am doing?
I am infidel police
Donot be concerned about me sir
Quick question - Are you the one paying your children school fees sir??
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by tunmiluabi: 12:31am On May 14, 2020|
Thank you much appreciated.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ybaby: 12:33am On May 14, 2020|
God bless you sir and may you NEVER EVER experience what you went through again.
Sending you kind thoughts
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Prymestrr(m): 12:34am On May 14, 2020|
Ybaby:Go back to my comment. Thank you.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ybaby: 12:36am On May 14, 2020|
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Prymestrr(m): 12:38am On May 14, 2020|
Ybaby:If you say so. Made you laugh at least
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ybaby: 12:39am On May 14, 2020|
Hubby has come to call me - will reply all mentions tomorrow.
Hopefully today's infdel will make a decision to be tomorrow's provider.
God bless us all.
O dara o. My Oga seeks me
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by djon78(m): 12:40am On May 14, 2020|
I am telling you real life issues I have witnessed and you are here making noise.
Empathy is the key here. When a woman have your kind of mindset. It makes men become more business minded in there union. I am talking from experience.
I have always adviced guys to hustle up and not just have one streams of income, but several, that has been my philosophy . But on the flip side a mean less empathy wife is a no no. It turns marriage into more of business which may not augur well with the woman. That's how some men place there siblings over there spouse concerning there money.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Nobody: 12:52am On May 14, 2020|
Don't make me hunt you, I won't just fight nasty online, I will also do it offline.
You've been warned.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by TheSociopath(m): 2:53am On May 14, 2020|
Are you married?
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Nobody: 3:25am On May 14, 2020|
Another fake story. It's difficult for an average person to write so well, any person with a brain can differentiate when a 'real' story is being told.
I think I should say something, women get worked up when they start to shoulder the family responsibilities because it's not 'natural' to be the bread winner when they have a man. It affects their psych and they can't handle it, that's why you see a hitherto good woman becoming a beast when the man loses his job.
A nice man will also start becoming aggressive if he has to starts handling the kids and the chores when he has a wife who does nothing but crosses her legs.
We have natural roles as males and females and when that role is reversed, both gender starts becoming aggressive and unhappy.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Gerrard59(m): 4:47am On May 14, 2020|
Which is why I say feminism is a scam and the biggest mankind has witnessed in centuries.
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|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ybaby: 5:33am On May 14, 2020|
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by djojo(m): 5:49am On May 14, 2020|
Seriously I don’t understand most People on Nairaland, someone will drop his true life story for you to learn from and you will be saying its a fiction. I pity some people’s life. Just pray you don’t experience bad marriage
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 6:19am On May 14, 2020|
tunmiluabi:Do not allow women of easy virtue to draw you down. These feminist will emotionally blackmail you. They will make you believe that your wife's actions and inactions are all your fault. Does your marital vows centers around your provision alone? What happened to the love that bonded you together. You were never wrong and do not allow those foul mouthed women to justify your wife's actions. No man is praying to be down but this is something that can happen to anyone on earth. Even Job being the most righteous man on earth during his time of temptation was asked by his wife to commit suicide because of the pain he was in. But he held on and things changed. Marriage is a real "for better for worse". Things will not always be rossy. Oga, if the remaining women on earth are these ones who are blaming you up and down then there is no reason to remarry. Our purpose on earth is to serve God and not to die over a woman.
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|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by XXLMANDIGO: 8:14am On May 14, 2020|
Sorry for your past experience Op,and I also commend your patience , big kudos.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Sankabson(m): 8:54am On May 14, 2020|
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Sankabson(m): 8:56am On May 14, 2020|
darfay:Oponu ayi rada! Bye!!!
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by dayleke: 9:07am On May 14, 2020|
God bless your family.
One thing though, just because it works for you does not make it a yardstick.
I saw where you kept saying a man should not eat from a woman's sweat......and even supporting it biblically.
Is it not the same bible that says both of them come together together to become one.
If you find yourself in a situation whereby the way the traditional roles were supposed to be played out do work, adaptation is needed.
Marriage is a partnership, there is no my money or your money as long as trust is there and there is transparency.
In some environments where both the couple have to combine incomes to raise the family, it can not work especially in the western world. All hands are needed on deck. There is no traditional role for any gender. Understanding is needed.
Any of the parent can cook, assist the kids with homework, attend PTA meetings etc.
What works for couple A May not necessarily work for couple B.
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by generationz(f): 9:12am On May 14, 2020|
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Ybaby: 9:12am On May 14, 2020|
Sir, if you want to be eating from your wife's sweat you are welcome to eat it... infact some parents eat from thier young kids sweat and ask them to hawk. Everybody wants different for thier life.
I gave my opinion and experience and belief.
However every human has free will.
Eat away sir. (It is a prayer)
|Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by UjuJoan2: 9:21am On May 14, 2020|
If I were a man, I would do everything possible to be able to provide for my family. And if I know I would not be able to, I will never get married
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