There have been several misconceptions about introverts and introversion. The lack of words in a conversation creates enough room for impressions.

Nevertheless, understanding introverts will help promote a socially balanced world, where everyone can embrace the beauty they hold within.

Introverts can be described as mystery books that need special keys to unlock. However, the outside impression may override the person’s drive to look within.

But those that are willing to search out the key to unlock the book, will be mesmerized by the adventures they find.

In like manner, this article will disclose some of the keys to understanding introverts better, with 6 things every introvert wants you to know about them.

1. We don’t hate conversations, we simply dislike small talks

Many people often ask why introverts don’t talk.
The answer to this question is commonly misconstrued. Some simply indicate that perhaps introverts don’t know what to say. Nevertheless, the truth behind every introvert’s quietness, is the major dislike for small talks.
Small talks can be best explained as informal chitchats, which usually occur at social gatherings. These are conversations that revolve around abstract or surface topics, without any concentric balance.

“How’s the weather?”
“What did you have for breakfast?”
“Tell me everything about yourself.”

Every introverts perceives small talks as uneventful topics that would cost a lot of emotional energy to pour out.

Many people have noted that if you want to get an introvert’s attention, talk about deep insightful topics. Then again, it depends on what your introvert likes to talk about or what matters to them. If you happen to matter to them, believe me when I say they will be completely engrossed in any conversation you bring up.

So instead of trying to communicate with an introvert with casual topics, focus on connecting deeply. All introverts crave meaningful relationships, and would invest all their emotional energy to keep one.

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