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Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 12:23pm On May 13, 2020
So I only See it in Nollywood movies and I never believed it would happen to me.
We have been dating for over a year now and due to the nature of my school( A private University), we don't get to see often.
I introduced her to my best friend one month into our relationship and since then, we usually hang out together whenever am around.
Long story short, When this Lock down began, since my girlfriend's house was close to mine, I strolled down only to find my best friend on top of her........ I gently closed the door without them noticing.
NB: My best fried also lives in the same vicinity.
Since the incident, over three weeks now I haven't taken any of their calls neither did I allow any of them to visit me.
I am confused and I really don't know what to do right now.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Sundrus: 12:25pm On May 13, 2020
cheesy virus ....welcome to the world
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by KristaPretty(f): 12:25pm On May 13, 2020
You are confused and don't know what to do

Pray for them and forgive them both, you don't necessarily have to keep the relationship or friendship kiss kiss

Next please!

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 12:26pm On May 13, 2020
Sundrus:
cheesy virus ....welcome to the world
U had similar experience?
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 13, 2020
All this made-up stories grin ..well incase it's Tru.. a friend of mine once bleeped another friend of ours babe ..the guy raised hell, he was gonna do this or that..laslas they are settled now and the fucker even loaned him a huge amount of money he couldn't get elsewhere in the beginning of this year...moral of the story, na d girl no get sense and na she dey surfer consequences now.. inshort na olosho den dey call her now undecided

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 12:28pm On May 13, 2020
KristaPretty:
You are confused and don't know what to do

Pray for them and forgive them both, you don't necessarily have to keep the relationship or friendship kiss kiss

Next please!

The thing is I love them both n I value our friendship. I don't know if I should listen to them
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 12:28pm On May 13, 2020
Heistman:
All this made-up stories
I pray u don't experience it!
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by KristaPretty(f): 12:30pm On May 13, 2020
wenson:


The thing is I love them both n I value our friendship. I don't know if I should listen to them

Forgive them both, I said it earlier. Don't make the attempt of wanting to have your girlfriend back. Shit happens. Just keep them as casual friends.
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by KristaPretty(f): 12:31pm On May 13, 2020
Heistman:
All this made-up stories

No be made up o. Found myself in such shoe once, I think say na nollywood I de watch till it dawn on me say na real life grin grin grin grin grin I believe am die

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Sundrus: 12:33pm On May 13, 2020
wenson:

U had similar experience?
yes oh. We dey call am virus. E get some people way no believe in commitment or loyalty when e comes to relationship or friendship; na them dey run virus. If u no fit spot/identify people like that, u go surely learn the hard way, e go hard u prevent the doom way dey ahead.
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 12:34pm On May 13, 2020
KristaPretty:


Forgive them both, I said it earlier. Don't make the attempt of wanting to have your girlfriend back. Shit happens. Just keep them as casual friends.

It might not be easy keeping her as a casual friend since I loved n still love her. It'd be better if we cut each other off.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Nobody: 12:35pm On May 13, 2020
KristaPretty:


No be made up o. Found myself in such shoe once, I think say na nollywood I de watch till it dawn on me say na real life grin grin grin grin grin I believe am die
lol I Know, I've edited the post tho
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Nobody: 12:35pm On May 13, 2020
wenson:

I pray u don't experience it!
post edited
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 12:36pm On May 13, 2020
Sundrus:
yes oh. We dey call am virus. E get some people way no believe in commitment or loyalty when e comes to relationship or friendship; na them dey run virus. If u no fit spot/identify people like that, u go surely learn the hard way, e go hard u prevent the doom way dey ahead.
kiss Now it's going to be hard trusting any lady again
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 12:38pm On May 13, 2020
Heistman:
All this made-up stories grin ..well incase it's Tru.. a friend of mine once bleeped another friend of ours babe ..the guy raised hell, he was gonna do this or that..laslas they are settled now and the fucker even loaned him a huge amount of money he couldn't get elsewhere in the beginning of this year...moral of the story, na d girl no get sense and na she dey surfer consequences now.. inshort na olosho den dey call her now undecided
grin grin So I shouldn't react much when it comes to my best friend?
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Sundrus: 12:39pm On May 13, 2020
wenson:

kiss Now it's going to be hard trusting any lady again
no be everybody dey run virus. Except say u wan join the virus club. grin
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Nobody: 12:46pm On May 13, 2020
wenson:

grin grin So I shouldn't react much when it comes to my best friend?
u have every right to react bro...evn u fit cut ties with him if u want...but I think life big pass phussy matter my brother..who would have thought the guy that betrayed his friend would come tru for him this year when he needed it badly...just use wisdom, even if u finally settle with him.
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by KristaPretty(f): 1:05pm On May 13, 2020
wenson:


It might not be easy keeping her as a casual friend since I loved n still love her. It'd be better if we cut each other off.

Shebi I tell am, he was saying she is my friend and he is my bestfriend yen yen yen.
Until they give am wedding invitation e eye go clear grin grin grin sha invite us
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Nobody: 1:40pm On May 13, 2020
O.P and people in your shoes, you all have a very low Human Psychology Quotient.

I know friends or should I say acquaintances that would sleep with my wife or girlfriend if they have the chance, I also have female friends that would sleep with my friends, brothers or neighbors if the chance presents itself.

The signs are always too telling, I stopped myself from dating a lady I met here last year because the signs were written all over.

I always go with my head into anything, over analysis na my problem but my instincts have never failed me.

Leap before you cross, lest motor jam you.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by SmellySperm(m): 1:41pm On May 13, 2020
yes...it ended in tears

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 3:19pm On May 13, 2020
Heistman:
u have every right to react bro...evn u fit cut ties with him if u want...but I think life big pass phussy matter my brother..who would have thought the guy that betrayed his friend would come tru for him this year when he needed it badly...just use wisdom, even if u finally settle with him.
Thanks a lot man

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 3:20pm On May 13, 2020
KristaPretty:


Shebi I tell am, he was saying she is my friend and he is my bestfriend yen yen yen.
Until they give am wedding invitation e eye go clear grin grin grin sha invite us
grin grin grin I won't attend
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by wenson(m): 3:22pm On May 13, 2020
Obingene:
O.P and people in your shoes, you all have a very low Human Psychology Quotient.

I know friends or should I say acquaintances that would sleep with my wife or girlfriend if they have the chance, I also have female friends that would sleep with my friends, brothers or neighbors if the chance presents itself.

The signs are always too telling, I stopped myself from dating a lady I met here last year because the signs were written all over.

I always go with my head into anything, over analysis na my problem but my instincts have never failed me.

Leap before you cross, lest motor jam you.
Sir, how was I supposed to know when am not always around? Sometimes I think it's cos of d distance.
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by KristaPretty(f): 4:20pm On May 13, 2020
wenson:

grin grin grin I won't attend

I will bring party rice for you then grin
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jun 09, 2020
OP how far? Whats the latest?
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by callmeRichie(m): 4:08pm On Jun 09, 2020
[quote author=wenson post=89500123]

My brother take your time oo. Any friend that can fvck your girlfriend is a potential killer! likewise for a babe that can fvck her guy's friends too!

That's an utmost betrayal! Forget that thrash say "life pass fvcking". It should be "Life is more precious than fvcking"


I suggest you keep your distance and save your ass first!

If you would be comfortable, you can just keep it at greetings level bro! I can't take that shit ever!!

Forget say we are friends.

Don't be so foolish to have think they are still your friends again

#Once bitten....
Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Cheated On You With Your Bestfriend? by paulolee(m): 5:21pm On Jun 09, 2020
it happened..na just to free both of them because i didnt trust any of them from day one

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