Am totally confused, anyone is free to judge me but I need an advice on what what to do before I commit murder. ��
I was having an affair with a married man. Although he promised me marriage . I accepted him because he was helping my family alot because am from a poor background. He told me that his wife has been an unable to give him a male child that she has four girls for him. He promised that if I can give birth to male child for him that he will marry me and change the life of my family. So after some months I got pregnant for him and we went to scan and scan detected that it's a baby boy. We became happy so out of excitement the father of my child rented an apartment for me. So when it was time for me to give birth I was in labour for 3 days, because of it my mother went to see a spiritualist. The spiritualist told my mother that the man's wife is not happy with me after that he told my mother to perform some rituals, after my mother has done that,I gave birth and it happened to be a baby girl and to my greatest surprise she has a down syndrom��. Immediately my baby father saw her he left us in the hospital and I never saw him again. Ever since then I have been suffering with the child. The baby is three months now. Last week I went to the man's house to plead with him to be taking care of the child's welfare or I will drop the child in his house. The man said that he can't father a child like this that she is not his daughter. And I attempted to drop the baby the wife came out and said that I must leave with the baby that she can't take care of another woman's child.
Ever since then i feel like killing the baby and myself. Please I need an advice because tears has been my food for the past few months now.���

I've read this story before on this forum before.

Afowofa. But, God will help you, He is the father of the fatherless and the mother of the motherless. Don't commit murder nor suicide, God may never forgive you. I know God is coming to help you out soon.

I only pity the innocent child...

dawnomike:
I only pity the innocent child...

Same here how I wish the child can travel to advanced country

Never underestimate the power of a praying wife

Poor child!

@Mstick! Same here.
Very familiar story....

I won't judge you. But please don't kill that innocent child. Just take her to one of these fatherless and motherless baby homes or homes for special children and they will take the baby from you and nurture her.

That is how one 20-something year old girl killed her 1 year old daughter.

At least save the child's life, your own blood and take her to a fatherless and motherless baby home.

Una go just dey do anyhow!

Am totally confused, anyone is free to judge me but I need an advice on what what to do before I commit murder.

Killing yourself and your child will only make things easy for him. He'll celebrate your death.

Find a reason to live. If your can't then at least;

1. Sue him for child support OR
2. Give up your child for adoption.

Turn your dodo well, it's burning

Op don't kill your innocent baby, That's the only person I feel sorry for.

For even harbouring the thought alone, you are evil! Ehn i will judge you. Kill yourself and leave the baby alone. Oshi!

gandyluv:
Never underestimate the power of a praying wife

These are the things some ladies tell themselves in order to remain in their comfort pod and avoid having to actually do something definite about a disrespectful husband.

did her prayers turn the gender of the baby in vivo? and why couldn’t so called prayers stop her husband from philandering? Instead the prayers chose to punish a baby with birth defect?

Her prayers did nothing. Side chick had a case of false scan results. That’s even if this story is true.
Sounds like something a suffer head wife cooked up to console herself.

gandyluv:
Never underestimate the power of a praying wife

How did praying wife enter this story?

I know this story.

gandyluv:
Never underestimate the power of a praying wife

Oh really?

So, it's the wife's prayers that changed the gender of the baby to a girl and even changed the conditions of the baby to a sorry one? Bia, which God did the wife prayed to?, the God that can be so mean to suffer an innocent baby. Is he the same merciful God that I'm serving? No, it can't be!



@op, sorry about your situation. I hope you've learned from your mistakes.


You have every right to sue the philanderer, which will lead to DNA test to ascertain the true father of the baby and also vindicate you.

Super story. Instead of killing, simply drop it off at a motherless baby home or a rich man's gate.

Hian! You can't diagnose a new born of down syndrome nau madam. It takes a while into the baby's development to know. Biko take the baby to an orphanage instead of killing her. How could an already married man promise you marriage and you believe

Ma you have already made the mistake of getting pregnant for a married man please don't hurt that little soul she know nothing about all these... please keep her if you can fed for her or you can give her for adoption
Killing her will not solve the problem because that will be the beginning of your doom
Please don't harm yourself cos this is not the end of life...cos in at the end of each tunnel there is light...God have a better plan for you...

Ndi oso chi egbu, carry your cross.

SweetCunt97:
Super story. Instead of killing, simply drop it off at a motherless baby home or a rich man's gate.

No rich man will adopt an slowpoke, except if the man will use him for a renewal and such a child is even difficult to use for rituals. Lol

highbee02:




No rich man will adopt an slowpoke, except if the man will use him for a renewal and such a child is even difficult to use for rituals. Lol

Lolzzz... U get bad mouth

Msfaith2000:
Am totally confused, anyone is free to judge me but I need an advice on what what to do before I commit murder. ��
I was having an affair with a married man. Although he promised me marriage . I accepted him because he was helping my family alot because am from a poor background. He told me that his wife has been an unable to give him a male child that she has four girls for him. He promised that if I can give birth to male child for him that he will marry me and change the life of my family. So after some months I got pregnant for him and we went to scan and scan detected that it's a baby boy. We became happy so out of excitement the father of my child rented an apartment for me. So when it was time for me to give birth I was in labour for 3 days, because of it my mother went to see a spiritualist. The spiritualist told my mother that the man's wife is not happy with me after that he told my mother to perform some rituals, after my mother has done that,I gave birth and it happened to be a baby girl and to my greatest surprise she has a down syndrom��. Immediately my baby father saw her he left us in the hospital and I never saw him again. Ever since then I have been suffering with the child. The baby is three months now. Last week I went to the man's house to plead with him to be taking care of the child's welfare or I will drop the child in his house. The man said that he can't father a child like this that she is not his daughter. And I attempted to drop the baby the wife came out and said that I must leave with the baby that she can't take care of another woman's child.
Ever since then i feel like killing the baby and myself. Please I need an advice because tears has been my food for the past few months now.���

Pls get intouch Asap!

Mstick:
I've read this story before on this forum before.

Yup, nairaland threads are filled with recycled stories. Nothing seems new anymore

Me too I feel like killing myself but I dey fear judgment day. This suffer too much...

sisisioge:
Hian! You can't diagnose a new born of down syndrome nau madam. It takes a while into the baby's development to know. Biko take the baby to an orphanage instead of killing her. How could an already married man promise you marriage and you believe

Not true@bolded.
They come with characteristic facies that you can see even on the first day of birth.
Perhaps,you are thinking of cerebral palsy.

thorpido:
Not true@bolded.
They come with characteristic facies that you can see even on the first day of birth.
Perhaps,you are thinking of cerebral palsy.

Who am I to argue with a doctor!

I thought their behavioral pattern is the major diagnostic factor...ofcourse the distinct facial characteristics is a factor too. I just didn't think they could be detected at birth cos all babies look alike for the first few days of their lives . My bad.

I am going to be very sincere with you and blunt.

First you must be very stupid upstairs and foolish for you to think of being a 2nd wife just becos the 1st didnt give birth to a male child. So your plan was to break the woman's heart and home with your plan

2. You jeopardize your life just to leave poverty becos you wanted to use another woman's husband as a ladder for you and your parents

3. If you are well intelligent, you should know a woman giving birth to female children is the fault if the man dropping x chromosome so what gave you the impression he would drop y chromosome for you?

4. I am very sure your scan showed a baby girl. It might be you changed the result or planned with the hospital or lied to the man. Spiritualist scammed you and your mother. The sex didnt not change in the womb. Also since you did some rituals to deliver, devil must surely collect back so maybe the concoction had side effect on your child then

You have brought an innocent child into the world becos of your impatient so carry your cross

The ball is in your court. Ask God for forgiveness and ask Him for direction. The beg Him for mercy and divine help

sisisioge:



Who am I to argue with a doctor!

I thought their behavioral pattern is the major diagnostic factor...ofcourse the distinct facial characteristics is a factor too. I just didn't think they could be detected at birth cos all babies look alike for the first few days of their lives . My bad.

You'll pick them usually even at birth though babies tend to look alike.
They usually have slant eyes,a flat nose and ears sticking out

cococandy:


These are the things some ladies tell themselves in order to remain in their comfort pod and avoid having to actually do something definite about a disrespectful husband.

did her prayers turn the gender of the baby in vivo? and why couldn’t so called prayers stop her husband from philandering? Instead the prayers chose to punish a baby with birth defect?

Her prayers did nothing. Side chick had a case of false scan results. That’s even if this story is true.
Sounds like something a suffer head wife cooked up to console herself.

As in ehn, I get weak sometimes.