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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Segeshow: 12:05pm On May 23
PoshLines5:
embarassed embarassed So many people don't know sex is a spiritual thing, it can affect one's Destiny, so many people that bleep girls anyhow, not knowing her background, they have 1 or 2 things missing from their lives, wealth, breakthrough, problemg arise, some women have poison in between their legs, as well as some men. so brethren be careful.
Also, you violate the 6th commandment (Thou shalt not commit Adultery) because you may not end up marrying your partner. Even if you marry your partner, no dignity involved, what do u want to gain on your wedding night, i mean a secret both partners should expose to their self is no more, THINK ABOUT IT, the world we live in now, it not easy to resist the temptation but with GOD on our side, we will overcome. Be careful if you want to make it in this life, that road (premarital and casual sex) has destroyed many niggas that are supposed to be successful. kiss embarassed embarassed So many people don't know sex is a spiritual thing, it can affect one's Destiny, so many people that bleep girls anyhow, not knowing her background, they have 1 or 2 things missing from their lives, wealth, breakthrough, problemg arise, some women have poison in between their legs, as well as some men. so brethren be careful.
Also, you violate the 6th commandment (Thou shalt not commit Adultery) because you may not end up marrying your partner. Even if you marry your partner, no dignity involved, what do u want to gain on your wedding night, i mean a secret both partners should expose to their self is no more, THINK ABOUT IT, the world we live in now, it not easy to resist the temptation but with GOD on our side, we will overcome. Be careful if you want to make it in this life, that road (premarital and casual sex) has destroyed many niggas that are supposed to be successful.










Wow dude, you should sacrifice a goat,a cow, a dove and your firstborn son on an altar. You be babalawo true true, next thing you'll be taking about spiritual husband and wife. Why are you still chopping generations worth of bs?There is no spirituality anything to sex. Animals Bleep all the time , sex is just to procreate, period. If you talk about disease then maybe,trust us to add African bullshit voodoo to christianity and call it spiritual enlightenment. Oyinbo go read your post dey laugh say as long as there are people who still think this way, Africa will always lag behind. Continue. Wedone sah.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Odebayo4010: 12:06pm On May 23
You know that country are no good,so people are oppress,so they use what they have to get what they needs
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by alexpumpin: 12:09pm On May 23
lailo:
watch ur comments on this topic bcs Jesus is on this platform and whatever u say will stand against u on the judgement day.#nosayinowarnu

We should also watch what we read on this forum, and whatever you read will stand against the readers, you included.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by tosinjay(m): 12:11pm On May 23
Kobojunkie:

Wiser? According to a report I read not too long ago, wisdom is something we have not gotten more of in the last 150 years. People aren't wiser..

Remember
The children of this world are in their generation wiser than the children of light. Luke 16:8
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by gbagyiza: 12:12pm On May 23
An old man once told me that in their time father will not accept what his son or daughter brought back home, he will gather his family n relations n ask the child in the presence of these people to sworn about the legitimacy of that thing he brought to the father as a gift. If it is found that the gift is gotten through corrupt means, the father will reject it n the child will be inform to take it back to the rightful owner. But today the case is different, parent pushes their children to go n make money by all means, many parents don't caution their children when they discovered suspicious things around them. What I am trying to say is that, this generation of parents have failed in their parental responsibilities.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Silentspy: 12:13pm On May 23
Sex is for pleasure not for marriage.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by plaetton: 12:18pm On May 23
donnie:
The so-called religious organizations don't have the power to build or change society. ISRAEL must return to their identity as the people of YAH and keep the Commandments.

The spirit of YAH can quicken his people who are called by his name to obey.
The bulkshyt is strong with this one.
grin grin grin
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Elkcee(m): 12:28pm On May 23
[b][/b]am just thinking how the future generation will be......that one is just my concern.thank you
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Itzhandy: 12:29pm On May 23
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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by plaetton: 12:30pm On May 23
winj:
The crazy thing is that in Nigeria the following is normal but sexy clothes, and premarital sex are frowned upon.
-Nigerians by and large worship and celebrate corrupt politicians and criminals
-Nigerians support pastors who sleep with their wives and steal their money with 419 religions.
-Nigerians will accept bribes and gratification for services they are already paid to provide.
-Nigerians practice primitive traditions like having many wives, concubines and children born into instant poverty.

But when they see female on Instagram with semi nude outfits they start preaching religion and immorality!
Thank you so much.
I couldn't have said it better.
Nigeria is home to the most corrupt, and yet holier than thou people on EARTH. The most hypocritical people on Earth. The only person who qualifies to talk about the virtues of premarital sex is a person who never had premarital sex .
Everyone else should just shut up.

And anyone who didn't have premarital sex is not in any way more virtuous than a person who did.

People talk about their father's and grand parent's generations as if given the chance , they would gladly go back to those times.

Society has evolved beyond the pretenses and taboos surrounding sex and intimacy.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Samysearch(m): 12:39pm On May 23
Legitimately at least. Extra marital sex is a sin. Stay off!


iCauseTrouble:
This life is too short. There is no gain in dying a virgin.
You need to be fvcked atleast once!!!

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by hopefulLandlord: 12:44pm On May 23
festwiz:

Lol. If you're born as a Nigerian in a low income home, you're pretty much f**ked from birth.

that's no longer fork, that's rape
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by hopefulLandlord: 12:46pm On May 23
Racoon:
The world is changing but God's standard never change.
old and new testament comparison shows his standard changes lol
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Fabulouzjoseph: 12:46pm On May 23
jakD:


Go and study these two words thoroughly.

THEY and THERE

You really need to.

THERE should have been used in your sentence instead of THEY in both paragraphs.

THEY is a pronoun used instead of noun.
thanks for your correction.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Sagay212: 12:47pm On May 23
IT HAS BECOME A NORM BECAUSE IT IS VERY SWEET. PERIOD!
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Fabulouzjoseph: 12:49pm On May 23
BreconHills:


Are you sure you mean smarter? Your "they have easy access to information appears to qualify it, but 'smarter' is not accurate. You also seem to ascribe to the common idea that mankind is ascending knowledge wise rather than descending. I disagree. Knowledge that does create social justice, peace and protection of the planet is the same type of knowledge that a burglar or armed robber has.

My observation.
intresting i wish you could clarify me on this.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by 3kay945(m): 12:52pm On May 23
SenecaTheYonger:


Compare how easy it was to access porn in those days compared to now. Back then if you see someone with a porn CD, it's like they were holding a forbidden treasure. Now I can just type X wink in my browser URL and it'll autocomplete to my designated porn website.

Hmmm, ogbologbo grin

Anyway, the whole shit didn't start recently. Where I grew up, young girls of 13,14, 15 or just the sight of nipple, they started involving in the act.
They even do threeso.me grin (abi wetin they call am)

I was once invited to join their immoral act. I declined because I saw it as dirty. How can I take turn on a girl. God forbid!

So the society has always been a great influence on how people behave and see things. cool
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by MiddleDimension: 12:54pm On May 23
Kobojunkie:

How many people in Nigeria, for instance, use birth control?
the use of contraceptive is so common when you walk the streets if Nigeria, you see packs of condom on the ground and sometimes even the letex itself!
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Fabulouzjoseph: 12:55pm On May 23
Kobojunkie:

How many people in Nigeria, for instance, use birth control?
Alot condoms are sold in almost every chemist shop in nigeria, abortion pills though illegal in nigeria is also highly available in some places in nigeria. Also contraceptive pills and injections is also available in various hospitals around the country. undecided
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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by ifko: 12:56pm On May 23
Longman8:
they say charity begins at home,I think parent has failed in incurcating that moral and spiritual teachings to their children or wards, parent now get carried away with the daily hustling to provide for the family needs thereby neglecting some of the important measures in bringing their child up. Religious leader too has also fail in their own part,as most of the preaching in todays churches now seems to be centred on bringing money and more money to get huge blessing. VIRGINS are no more in the society this days.
Oga many of us that have godly teaching still fail woefully, we ain't proud of it but this thing take extra grace.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by MiddleDimension: 12:59pm On May 23
InyinyaAgbaOku:


STDs nko? Aside condoms, other contraceptives don't prevent them
that's why you wear a condom
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by MiddleDimension: 1:01pm On May 23
cococandy:


Because it’s beyond unreasonable to think that you can encourage sex amongst boys and somehow have the girls be all virgins. Are the boys sleeping with themselves?

this is what you see from religious people and they some how think it will work!

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by 3kay945(m): 1:11pm On May 23
With the level of poverty and over exposure to social media, premarital sex will not stop.

It will even increase in degree. So every responsible person should give birth to children they can comfortably cater for.

It might not reduce but atleast the level of immorality can be managed.

Imagine the current trend where some people are now force to buy smart phones/computers with full internet subscription for teenagers because of E-learning . Your guess is as good as mine cry
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Iree1: 1:17pm On May 23
because it's no longer a sin.....
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by 3kay945(m): 1:18pm On May 23
Longman8:
they say charity begins at home,I think parent has failed in incurcating that moral and spiritual teachings to their children or wards, parent now get carried away with the daily hustling to provide for the family needs thereby neglecting some of the important measures in bringing their child up. Religious leader too has also fail in their own part,as most of the preaching in todays churches now seems to be centred on bringing money and more money to get huge blessing. VIRGINS are no more in the society this days.

Your conclusion would be better said as SCARCE.

There are still good ones out there bro. I am not a saint but I know what I am saying.
So, harsh generalization isn't cool.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by hopefulLandlord: 1:23pm On May 23
Eulalia:

I remember from age 5, my mum would will tell us if we go near a man, he'll tear our private parts to pieces and that used to scare the hell out of us. Those warnings really guided me in a way to maintain and lead a decent life even after they left to be with the lord. I also made up my mind to pass such values to my children when the time comes.
This parenting style would most likely not work on your children as they may know you wouldn't carry out the threat. that's where everything starts falling like a pack of cards.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by KelejoS: 1:24pm On May 23
donnie:
The so-called religious organizations don't have the power to build or change society. ISRAEL must return to their identity as the people of YAH and keep the Commandments.

The spirit of YAH can quicken his people who are called by his name to obey.


Then YAH should give power to the so called religious leaders.
Or does God love the immorality going?
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by hopefulLandlord: 1:25pm On May 23
PoshLines5:
embarassed embarassed So many people don't know sex is a spiritual thing, it can affect one's Destiny, so many people that bleep girls anyhow, not knowing her background, they have 1 or 2 things missing from their lives, wealth, breakthrough, problemg arise, some women have poison in between their legs, as well as some men. so brethren be careful.
Also, you violate the 6th commandment (Thou shalt not commit Adultery)

Premarital sex is NOT adultery in any shape or form. maybe you should know what you're talking about before giving lengthy speeches?
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by naija4life247: 1:27pm On May 23
Bacteriologist:
Whatever happened in the past should stay there. So does sex automatically and suddenly become something sacred and accepted because of marriage (which is merely a certificate with two names and signature and few people invited to a feast)?,

The idea of premarital sex was to reduce the rate of unwanted pregnancies and to guilt trip people into getting married before having sex. Unwanted pregnancies can be abolished by using contraceptives and adequate sexual education. And marriage in all sincerity has outlived it's usefulness.

So "premarital sex" doesn't have command much fear as it used to. And this may not change soon. Sorry.

Omo Esu, unrepentant sinner, my partner in crime, I sight you.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by vickydevoka: 1:31pm On May 23
Because how ladies need premarital money.

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