pDudd:


You don't need to be married to get those things.

Must every post on nairaland generate war between men and women? With the level of hatrad seen here, is there any possibility of love affection in marriages out there at all?

aeion:
Considering all the begging threads on Nairaland from married people asking for money to feed their families, it's obvious Nigerians are getting married with little to no money or savings, and I'm very baffled by this!!!! You should be telling both males and females to each have a stable job/source of income and sufficient savings before getting married!!!!

ellapius:
hmmmmmm here u go again.... am writing a book on how to enjoy sex with your lady with whatever size u have. I will send u ecopy

Bolosiye:
.... salivating to have it

Married men and mortality
A major survey of 127,545 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. Men who have marital partners also live longer than men without spouses; men who marry after age 25 get more protection than those who tie the knot at a younger age, and the longer a man stays married, the greater his survival advantage over his unmarried peers. But is marriage itself responsible for better health and longer life?

Although it's hard to be sure, marriage seems to deserve at least part of the credit. Some have argued that self-selection would skew the results if healthy men are more likely to marry than men with health problems. But research shows the reverse is true: unhealthy men actually marry earlier, are less likely to divorce, and are more likely to remarry following divorce or bereavement than healthy men.

Another potential factor is loneliness; is the institution of marriage linked to better health, or is it simply a question of living with another person? Although studies vary, the answer seems to be a little of both. People living with unmarried partners tend to fare better than those living alone, but men living with their wives have the best health of all.

Numerous studies conducted over the past 150 years suggest that marriage is good for health. More recently, scientists have begun to understand why married men enjoy better health than their single, divorced, and widowed peers. But before we turn to the why, let's look at how marriage affects specific diseases, including America's leading killers, cardiovascular disease and cancer.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

modified.....
I have had to face so many hateful words from guys here becos I said all this. some have called me names from prostitute to pain heartbroken lady. it so bad to see how weak men transfer their frustration on ladies out there. I have e come to realize that many guys want smart ladies for a wife but don't have the balls to live with them.

EMIOMOADEOYE:


Since when did it start requiring balls to commit your life to someone.

That's what we are talking about.

That you think it requires guts simply says it all. For goodness sakes, all I want in a marriage is fairness and equity and love and passion. Life already has more than enough gut demanding issues and touch points to deal with. It makes absolutely no sense to bring that to the marriage front.

Some ladies are just so confused they mistake rebellion with independence.

If it requires guts to get married to you, then you simply are not fit for marriage. Marriage like I said is about understanding, equity, fairness, self sacrifice. If you can't bring all that then stay a spinster or bachelor.

Period

Balls ko, pussy ni

ellapius:
it's simple i give u names and contacts of ladies and their iG contact not runz girls real girls. u will never have the mind to ask them out. cos u don't have the balls

EMIOMOADEOYE:


Well since you have brass balls, why dont you first ask them out.

I dont do hand me down girls. I find my own girls.

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.