davirossi:
The problem with you brothers is you don't want to follow the steps of your fathers before you....it is a man responsibility to take care of a woman both financially, spiritually and otherwise...if your wife is working or wants to work thank God If she is not better do the necessary needful

Try and understand op.
He is a talking of would be husband's.
Date and marry only working girls

The biggest mistake is getting married atall. who da hell gets married thesedays, Marriage is an ancient, stressful, depressing and achaic institution where one is tied to the hips with one emotional, selfish, troublesome, self righteous, argumentative and obnoxious human. who da hell wants to be tied down for years with one smelly one sized vagina? when there are hundreds more different sizes, shapes and colours of vaginas out there, who da hell wants to be starring at the same bloody face, the same bad breath every morning? the same flat bottom? the same big bottom? the same large/small or medium breast, the same fat/slim individual.. all in the name of marriage. tueh!!



I am have been married twice, divorced twice, separated before and still single now. I know.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

fake studies...
A woman's problems END when she get married (at least on a financial level), while a man's problem just BEGIN(especially if d wife have no plans of making money).

Ol boy see analysis of demerit of marriage

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Do you truly believe this. Look around you there are more husbands'/wives' mothers around than husbands'/wives fathers. If men truly lives longer when married there will more old men than women. But there are more old women than men.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

SocialJustice:
Stop being a brainless bigot.

I mustn't agree to your hopeless ideology, must I?

Onukwu.

Kai!! See comments faa. marriage don suffer

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

But u're late. I wish I had someone to tell me this earlier. Bros, I learnt d hardest way. Such lady is a parasite, especially if she now take Zee world as her hobby.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

This your jab is TKO to womanhood :

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Sense wants to kill you, try to avoid it small

gentlemate00:
Ol boy see analysis of demerit of marriage

dt analysis make sense pass anything

bluefilm:


I mustn't agree to your hopeless ideology, must I?

Onukwu.

Sure but don't degrade and force your opinion on others who have different opinion from you.

You wan marry you no kon tell me oya send ya digit...

MelaninSkinGirl:


Because of societal pressures sir. If you leave women alone, I am sure they will be happy to maintain their singlehood status.

luvlyADESUWA:


My brother, you might be typing this out of frustration, but i tell you "it's very good to marry, it sweeter when u marry a good woman" It is BEST when both of you are working and contributing to the home.

The end shall tell, old age is NOT what any man prays to live without a wife by his side...
#fact

Most men in old age are terrorised by their wives in collaboration with their children.

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

Very true, when you get married you would be frustrated as the man

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

You are so right, man.

You can see as that Melanin-bitch is hopelessly selling the idea right here.

You don't need any apostle to tell you that she is dying to get married.

Maybe she's already in the 'evening newspaper' category which explains the desperation she is covertly expressing in this thread.

Damn!

No... I beg to disagree. I have seen people who started off as working classes but ended up as broke couples. I have also seen those whose marriage buttered their bread. That suitor that drives a Ferrari that you are melting for, could be driving his last car... ( I am not saying things change for the worse always) Though there are no hard and fast rules to marriage and its associated problems, I would solemnly advice anyone to look at for qualities that you could bear when the chips are down. For instance, If you are the talking type, remember, couples talk and waive hunger requests. Have it at the back of your mind that certain big things which you enjoy mostly may not be around after some years of entering the marriage room. Bodily curves and built would certainly disappear at some point; money sometimes may not be around for the most part, due to the arrival of the babies and other family dependencies. Marriage, may be societal norm but it is also a way of life in this part of the world. Some day you would wish to have someone who would sing for you, dance for you, play with you and take you for a walk. Discouraging people from marrying is not my idea of helping people fulfill theirr destinies. Afterall, no one gets into school to aim to finish with a third class but when life knocks there has to be an answer. The answer you give can be determining to go along with patience, forgiveness, charity (love) kindness and above all, endurance. It is these qualities that would make you be celebrated and for the world to continue with good people like you. How many descendants of Adolf Hitler do you know in the world?

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Your head dey there but have a kid or 2 when you can afford them. Don't if you think you'll be a lousy dad.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Man like me

Life is too short to put yourself under stress. Do what makes you happy. If it's marriage, go for it. If it's staying single and carefree, be my guest

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

Olorun oba!!!

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

see dis one! u are sounding as if gbola is not your factor in your dream marriage. Go after a man with pin screw, you will still be de same person that would come here and be seeking for solution and whining that your man is not screwing deep down....be sincere

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pDudd:


My nigga

Omo no go marry girl way get plenty siblings for huz, especially when she is d first born and also have up to 8 siblings, my brother na hell u dey oo ,,, u no go even see moni take buy toilet tissue self

Women( with few exceptions) are losing value day by day. This is the age and time that Karma will punish them for luring man(Adam) to forfeit his kingdom by eating Apple which hence brought woes and problems into the world.

Men are not marrying again ooo, we don tire for una and endless wahala, we have suffered too much in this so called marrying and taking care of a woman and children, the female species are lost from creation, our father God directed us to carry on and try to make things right, we have tried since then, we are tired, God should come and handle the female folks we don’t and would never understand them

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

Nnaabros:


Not true. Most women feel miserable, lonely and incomplete without a husband, crying 'God when' everywhere.

They see marriage as a bed of roses, because they have no wedding and marriage bills and expenses to worry about.

Most men just want to live a free fun life without the burdens of marriage. Even many married men still have extramarital adventures.

Leave that lady to keep deceiving herself with lies and propaganda... How can a man, a successful man, be miserable or depressed cos he's single??! Like wtf??!

Never knew Flavour, Wizkid, Davido, Blossom Chukwujekwu, Ubi Franklin, etc, were so terribly miserable and depressed... What's stopping them from getting or staying married??! Lack of funds??! Societal pressure??!

Everyone should smell the fvcking roses!!! Marriage institution is going extinct faster than we can imagine!!! This is REALITY!!!

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

Is that not what Una want? Them go hide for back go de beep gateman, jobless boys, danfo drivers etc say husband no de house or ehm too de work or ehm no de kain them well, ehm no de do 20 rounds

Where are our feminist ALPHA FEMALE? Come and challenge these status oo

Yet they won’t let single women be.

Never seen a bunch of frustrated humans like this.

Marriage is a good thing. The only issue is getting married to the right person with Goldy characters

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

INDEED THE BIGGEST MISTAKE IS TO MARRY YOUR ENEMY, WHETHER NIGERIAN,GHANAIAN. ENGLISH,FRENCH ............