MzD@rkSkin:

@Poster My girl,  I feel you.! SOME Nigerian women can be mean when they are in the mood and not all of them have the best of personalities or tolerance when it comes to foreign women and "their men".

Nearly a year ago, I created a very similar thread about their attitudes towards Jamaicans or "Jamos" as they call us. Not very many ppl on this site realize this is not some exclusive Niaja site, that if you type certain words on a search engine, this site can come up. That explains my being here. I looked up relationships btn African men and West Indian women, clicked a link and was brought to a very silly and sorry thread on this site about how we Jamo women are loose, ghetto and etc. I too took it to heart and tried to explain my view points making it clear that I see myself as a "distant African" but despite that I was attacked simply because by failing to let my emotions take a back seat, I ended up saying a few things I should not have which resulted in a month's worth of cursing back and forth.

So I understand you 100% mama. I say tho, don't generalize all Nigerian women because a lot of them are understanding and caring. Ignore those who do have a problem with your being foreign if you must but don't try to attack a whole group due to a few birds who are suffering from menopause and an addiction to Haterade.

We foreign women are not better or special than Naija women and we must keep in mind that in order to truly appreciate the men, you gotta respect the women. I sound like a broken record but it is fact because at the end of the say only a Naija woman fully understands a Naija man, and it is she at the end of the day who can teach you and me the ropes; so don't attack them. Otherwise, I am with you.

Orton1_0:

Atleast she opened her 'legs'.
Did dat LovePeddler you call your mum tell you about how she opened her big mouth and expanded arse hole and begged me to pour out my Nigerian made royal hot spermatozoa in them?
She was too Hot so i gave her a mule instead, now see the result, bitchy Hot Pinky17.lmfao

SMH,  

Pinky, I'm not saying you should be silent, just try not to generalize. Speak your mind but use tact because not all of the Naija women are against you.

MzD@rkSkin:

lol @ Mygoldie, I am gonna go back and read all of the comments, I hope you were not being a meanie LOL.

[color=#0055bb]SMH,  









Me ,Meanie? nah, i rarely hate on peeps,i only say it the way it is. trusssss me sis.

MzD@rkSkin:

lol @ Mygoldie, I am gonna go back and read all of the comments, I hope you were not being a meanie LOL.

SMH,  

Pinky, I'm not saying you should be silent, just try not to generalize. Speak your mind but use tact because not all of the Naija women are against you.

Idowuogbo:

kayyyy u abadoned mee

ID kabasa aka Ereluworldwider** Where are the things you brought from Australia cant abandon you ewo orisa

Mygoldie:

idowu you better leave Kay alone ,OR!

@ Goldie ID na  my person you know  

kay-money:


ID kabasa aka Ereluworldwider** Where are the things you brought from Australia cant abandon you ewo orisa



@ Goldie ID na  my person you know  

Mygoldie:





ok,noted.

Goldie its being cold and windy in Glasgow what temp. is london

Mygoldie:

its currently 11 degree celsius here.

how come your crying,are you cold?

What a time to enjoy summer
The cold and wind are blowing me away trying to hold my trousers together

MzD@rkSkin:

[color=#0055bb]^^^KAAAAAAAY!!!![/COLOR]

@ Jamo AKA Mzdark wetin naww** How are you doing and how is your 190 AND FAMILY? I hope everything is ok if so DOXOLOGY

pinky17:

The generalization did not start from me they have a thread on Zim women and SA girls ,  Iwas only replying to it that we can all be in general and insult,

kay-money:


ID kabasa aka Ereluworldwider** Where are the things you brought from Australia cant abandon you ewo orisa



@ Goldie ID na  my person you know  

kay-money:

@ Jamo AKA Mzdark wetin naww** How are you doing and how is your 190 AND FAMILY? I hope everything is ok if so [b]DOXOLOGY [/b]

Mygoldie:








Pmsl@ DOXOLOGY, those old skool days of writing love letters, hahahahaha.

@ Goldie small small life they go be that ooo** If so DOXOLOGY

kay-money:

@ Goldie small small life they go be that ooo** If so DOXOLOGY

MzD@rkSkin:

[color=#0055bb]@Kay, I'm fine sweetie , so it 190 and how are you?

[size=15pt]Mzdark am just too DOXOLOGY[/size],

Mygoldie:





hello Kay, Ditto.

i hope you are fine,if so Doxology.
oh my gawd!!!

@ Goldie am writing from the bottom of my heart where the sun never stop shinning

MzD@rkSkin:

@Kay, I'm fine sweetie  , so it 190 and how are you?

@Pinky   I understand sweetie. btw that thread Mrs.Chima created was my idea, she is not
being hypocritical, it was really a parody of another thread.

@Chima, I understand sis. She is emotional like me I see but she will see soon enough.
Some battles are not to be fought because some people no matter how nice you are to them
will not wish to make peace or like you. I like to discuss our differences as AAs, Jamo/Islanders, Africans
but when I sense envy/tribalism/hatred, then to me it's a wrap. I won't indulge in it.

kay-money:

[size=15pt]Mzdark am just too DOXOLOGY[/size],


@ Goldie am writing from the bottom of my heart where the sun never stop shinning

pinky17:

I know I was just emotional,I even showed the thread to my partner, It was not fair, I her a lot in my life from naija men and women claiming we have no culture cos we do not wear african costumes, now I hardly go to some of his friends hses cos their debates really frustrates me,  We spend xmas with my folks not one day was he was victimised but evry time I am with nigerians they always say negative things about my heritage,  We are all humans, I think dating a white guy is much easier,

Mavor:

My manliness is on fire!!!!!!!!!!! Chei!!!!!!!