Poster,

I know few ladies who are about 36 years old, going thru pressure to get married but are busy still looking for the right person. You need to get smart before u end up with no person. Im not suggesting for u to be desperate, Im saying consider the right things in the guys that r available to u, and not useless things like, he is not tall enough or he is too dark, i want high class dudes. Any lady at 36 still looking for the right guy is not serious

marriage is not for evryone,i wnda when we africans will realize that.as long as you not yoruba who attach so much 2 marriage and if u are PLEASE channel ur energy towards more productive things,u need to know wats happening out there. ALAWT!!!!!!!!!!
no come hurt urself

eshiema:

marriage is not for evryone,i wnda when we africans will realize that.as long as you not yoruba who attach so much 2 marriage and if u are PLEASE channel your energy towards more productive things,u need to know wats happening out there. ALAWT!!!!!!!!!!
no come hurt urself

Your tantrum is soo unnecessary. You do not have to be tribalistic.

Your point is clear, its all a matter of CHOICE but she wants to get MARRIED so she's got to be worried

Above 30 na yam?mshewww

@single; did u need a prophet or a seer to tell u that that name (single) is affecting ur life, u need to change that name or u remain single 4ever. MARK 4:9, He that hath ears to hear let him hear

From what I could 'see' about you, you really need divine, prophetic touch upon your life. While you are actually concentrating on building your future and career, you can actually set a ball in motion that will not only bring your desired husband to you, but will equally put you on a pedestal of fame and success. Obviously, the approach I would like to put across to you will be too much for the page of this post. However, if you can go to http://get-married-now, you'll be glad you did!

There's light at the end of the tunnel for you.

Pressure is a sure bet at this age but you need not loss focuss.Keep telling them God will bring your partner at the right time.However you need to keep praying hard because it might be a spiritual problem or a destiny which needs to be changed.

@mr.dre money, wat tantrumaddress,the topic mr.dremoney.
and its the basic truth,leave wiv it,obviously u yoruba and it was not ever intended 2 make them feel inadequate.i have them as friends and they proudly say it,that they attach more values 2 marriage than other tribes.
over 30 is just a number,and before u think am ridng that boat am married.

^^It is not just a number to a dame in her 30s as the flower of their age passes quickly. So why are you telling her to take things easy and how does taking things easy help her get married which is presumably why the OP opened this thread in the first place.
On the contrary this matter should be treated with the utmost seriousness and urgency.

U should set ur priorities right,it is ur life not ur parents.Some times we make our parents see things differently and they do understand

D only time u are sad is when u are lonely and u could be married and lonely.Some times a company is no company,no spark

I observed that I made a typographical error on the website address I gave to @single to check out if it could be of help to getting her ideal man. Please go to http://prophetic-cure..com. Thank you

Well, u dont need to go far anymore just mail blessinglomo@yahoo.co.uk.

@ tensor 777,worry wont change anything and alwaz results in irrational,costly decisions.
she should age quickly cuz she aint married?worrying and then developing wrinkles,BP??
i believe there is a man for every woman and if they decide 2 take it down the aisle dats their decision,cuz ALOT of pple get married now,not 2 their soulmates but becuz of convenience, she has had her fair share of waiting and wont be good if she settles 4 anything orda than the best.she deserves that, i dont know her,but i pray for her and all orda singles known and unknown,
its a tough battle,but have you ever tried taking your mind off something and just trusting your Creator,its that very time it clicks.at least for me,
thanks

30 geez go and get married. NO TIME

Abdulmalik1:

30 geez go and get married. NO TIME

Thank You all for the contribution

There are women in their 40's getting married. There is no age restriction when it comes to marriage. If you want to get married at 89 then do so. DO not let anyone tell you when you should marry because you are the one dealing with the outcome not I or Us.

true, no rushing till you find the guy with head on his shoulder, don't venture

armyofone:

true, no rushing till you find the guy with head on his shoulder, don't venture

LMAO

koolchicco:

koolchicco:

LMAO

uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.

u no dey pity d babe abi?

obodo bu igwe,my sister o gadicha mma oo

ok, someone will strongly need to convince me the poster has got no MORAL issues.

Curiously, i decided to check her response to comments. She had so far been so excited to reply folks with self esteem,career, bla bla bla line positively and go on the defensive when told the plain truth, serious EGO problem was what i observed dere.

Look here Miss or wotever, you've heard the truth from tensor. I suppose you are not here to get pity .

Face reality, u go taaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay.

I can clearly see through your mind. The demon chasing men away is within you.

Its a two way tingy my dear, If you choose not to marry, no worries but if you actually want to, you have got to obey the rules,

oooooomo yapa, ai'moye fine girl (if u r not one,makes it worse),


BE HUMBLE

seee i don't want to be like that.

that is y i am 19 and ready for marriage.

i don't care about getting a divorce, he can divorce me i just would like to say i was married before

9jafetish:

seee i don't want to be like that.

that is y i am 19 and ready for marriage.

i don't care about getting a divorce, he can divorce me i just would like to say i was married before

Hopefully, you'll grow up and hate what you said here.

@Poster, i don't really get your drift. Are you under pressure to get married or are you really desirous of getting married?
Loosen up alittle bit, socialize and keep it in your prayers.

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Hmm above 30 i think they are right somehow

Hmm above 30 i think they are right somehow since you a girl its easy to find a right person

I wanted to comment here and realized that the thread started last year so the poster may not
be single anymore but if you are and still getting the pressure. I only want to say to you
"You gotta keep your head up"!

sowy

i can be that man u are looking for 08121680787

Orton1_0:
^
wtf?
Lmao.
@post, Simply ignore them, its your life not theirs, afterall marriage is not a do-or-die affair neither is it by all means, don't let them push you into something you'll regret someday. Just take it easy, one day at a time, one day, Mr Right will surely surface. Take care.

These people make me sick, with these advice. Get married when you are ready. it's your life so make it your choice and what is that ignorant person saying about women cycle. Idiot women are not only born to have babies.!