DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Dpharisee:


Whenever I see @the bolded I wonder if the thread was created to generate traffic. If you don't want us to know your past history on this forum and from there understand your temperament it will be difficult to waste our time advising you for the sake of commenting on Nairaland.

But meanwhile na the sweetness of your Sadstick inside her Kpekus scatter her brain about the other guy, so she has to live with it, don't kill yourself because of woman, just pack comot from that area go find house in a be far location since you are a tenant.
Don't marry any woman that easily abandons the guy she is dating currently, leave it at the sex level

Davash222:
I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain.



This is where your problems started. You don't win a woman, she's not trophy. You're the trophy not her.
I have nothing to tell you. You ruined yourself.

Just so you know, if your beloved wife gets the opportunity to fucck that ex for free now, she will not hesitate.

hybrid11:
she said it out of anger , step up your game, women hate to see the man(ex) left doing well more than their husband.
mind how you talk to her

Sisijetue:
Daddy ope epele o
Iyanu mashele
Mafoo

MrBrownJay1:


whether out of anger or not, the minute she says the above you better watch out as she has completely lost respect for you...

as for you saying this man should step up his game, thats rubbish! this man should be himself and not try to be someone else. if she doesnt like who she is, let her gfto, as any smart man knows that there will always be richer/better/ more comfortable men out there, and if thats the type that your babe is seeking, then let her go and be with them...

as if men knowingly make less money in their lives as a "choice", lol!

Davash222:
I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain.



This is where your problems started. You don't win a woman, she's not trophy. You're the trophy not her.
I have nothing to tell you. You ruined yourself.

Just so you know, if your beloved wife gets the opportunity to fucck that ex for free now, she will not hesitate.

MrBrownJay1:


whether out of anger or not, the minute she says the above you better watch out as she has completely lost respect for you...

as for you saying this man should step up his game, thats rubbish! this man should be himself and not try to be someone else. if she doesnt like who she is, let her gfto, as any smart man knows that there will always be richer/better/ more comfortable men out there, and if thats the type that your babe is seeking, then let her go and be with them... as if men knowingly make less money as a life choice, lol!

WORDWORLD:


Women always look for someone or something to blame for their WHOR'ING character. It is their way.

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

pansophist:


Because women operate from a position of perfection. Introspection is not your typical feminine trait. So admitting to herself that she is a gold digger hustling for the bag while using men as a vehicle is a painful pill to swallow. Instead, she will blame someone and absorb herself from her bad decisions. It also didnt cross her mind that she is not mentally and physically challenged to hustle as well, but no, it has to be the man that she leeches from.

pansophist:


Because women operate from a position of perfection. Introspection is not your typical feminine trait. So admitting to herself that she is a gold digger hustling for the bag while using men as a vehicle is a painful pill to swallow. Instead, she will blame someone and absorb herself from her bad decisions. It also didnt cross her mind that she is not mentally and physically challenged to hustle as well, but no, it has to be the man that she leeches from.

femi4:
That's the way ladies see it, you chose to make lesser money compare to your counterpart.

WORDWORLD:
Women become very regretful when the see the man the dumped, (their ex)
doing very well than the man the are currently with, A CHOICE OF THEIR SELFISH INTEREST. All na longer throat no dey make them get sense.

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.