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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Hathor5(f): 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2020
Ariza:
Honestly... Some things I read here ehn. Make I no just talk lipsrsealed. But it's very sad cry

You better talk. cheesy kiss
Re: How To Train The Male Child by momokiddies: 9:19pm On Jul 15, 2020
Hathor5:


Have you considered that your kids individual talents may not align with STEM subjects?

What if they feel passionate about music, art or sport?

What about their preference and calling and ultimately happiness?

Mastery is the result of blissful dedication.


if they lean towards any of those, no problem. I understand the place of interest and talents. but now that they are young, I help them towards seeing the power of STEM. I allow my toddler play piano and he loves football crazily. I just want to build a whole child who had choices and empowered with skills

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by momokiddies: 9:34pm On Jul 15, 2020
Ybaby:


Oh I get you. I am talking here about raising legendary men.

Making sure that acorn reaches his Oak tree potential

I am not talking about raising an employee - addicted to salary (not bad) but I am too ambitious to want just that for my egg

I am talking about raising a mudafcuking money making machine - A Trump!

A man similar to my husband - I am talking about raising a liquid metal, an indabosky, a lion...... an eagle

A man who society relies on.

A MAN, men rely on Okunrin meta, Akikoju Okunrin, Okunrin Ogun - a man industries come out of - a Rockefella!!

I am raising legends - if my son was to become the president of Nigeria - I will still think he can do better

Why?

He came from the groin of a legend - top notch quality sperm (my husband) - my job is to show him the possibilites and keep his self esteem up then back him up with money.

I am mummy - I am raising legend men!


So sorry if I was not so clear in the original post wink grin bear with me - I sometimes think we all think alike. Thanks for bringing me back to earth.




I like you, really. you are so thinking same way as I do.

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 9:44pm On Jul 15, 2020
Ybaby:


I asked you SEO questions you are showing me content writing jobs na wa o.

Content I can use article rewrite for?

grin grin cheesy

Improve your SEO skills or if i have time i will teach you for FREE. I own a top digital marketing firm with over 10 years experience in SEO and others. I will not go into more details however I donot pay rent, schools fees or any house hold expenses. My beloved provides
What is the name of your marketing firm?
Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 9:48pm On Jul 15, 2020
Ybaby:


I am married to a man that provides for me and he does not pull my hair out with plier. It is poor men who beat women most nd take their frustration out on their wives. Poor men like.....

Fast SEO work and become a provider or you can marry Ariza who thinks because i said boys should be provider means they should not be anything else again. Provider is not the same as monster. More sins are committed in ghetto areas than anywhere else. ARIZA WILL gladly provide for you .... just tell her your container is on the sea.... you know smooth talk her. She is too slow to understand that a provider man is not equal to evil man but a man who does not provide is evil because his kids suffer and so does his wife. Fastseo you say I attack men and that is a big lie I attack poor men who have kids and donot pay school fees.

As for you Ariza I am not here for your amusement or to intrigue you in any way. I am here to save kids from suffering because their mum was not aware she should not be sleeping with a man who can not pay school fees. I am here to shame men who cannot pay school fees and yet choose to jagarova and have kids.

Kids are expensive ! Work hard as a man and know your job is to provide for your family.
What is the name of your husband's company that he is CEO of?
Re: How To Train The Male Child by fastseo: 1:55am On Jul 16, 2020
Romangalactic:

What is the name of your marketing firm?

Someone that has the IQ to own and run a successful ecommerce firm in this our Nigeria won't use gutter words to insult people who question their views to life.

I doubt Ybaby claim on this




Simply put... You can't give what you don't have

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 4:10am On Jul 16, 2020
fastseo:


Someone that has the IQ to own and run a successful ecommerce firm in this our Nigeria won't use gutter words to insult people who question their views to life.

I doubt Ybaby claim on this




Simply put... You can't give what you don't have

Answer the SEO questions?

I know you guys missed me on here but mo busy ni

Pay your kids school fees. Periodt

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 4:14am On Jul 16, 2020
momokiddies:



if they lean towards any of those, no problem. I understand the place of interest and talents. but now that they are young, I help them towards seeing the power of STEM. I allow my toddler play piano and he loves football crazily. I just want to build a whole child who had choices and empowered with skills

People think you can be one thing and that is all.

There are doctors who play pianos. There are engineers who do ball room dancing

Money making has nothing to do with what you are passionate about. It has to do with discipline and acquired skills (not a popular take)

Dangote is not passionate about sugar or salt but he is passionate about making 1 = 100.

Simple

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 4:15am On Jul 16, 2020
momokiddies:


I like you, really. you are so thinking same way as I do.

kiss kiss
Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 4:17am On Jul 16, 2020
fastseo:


Someone that has the IQ to own and run a successful ecommerce firm in this our Nigeria won't use gutter words to insult people who question their views to life.

I doubt Ybaby claim on this




Simply put... You can't give what you don't have

Because my husband pays all the house hold bills you assume I am not making money of my own. So silly!

Real men donot care how much their wives make and donot need their wives to pay bills. Only weak infidels do.

Can we continue weekend as I have serious deliverables.....

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 7:57am On Jul 16, 2020
fastseo:

Someone that has the IQ to own and run a successful ecommerce firm in this our Nigeria won't use gutter words to insult people who question their views to life.

I doubt Ybaby claim on this




Simply put... You can't give what you don't have
Hehehe, she's already screaming again because of simple question.

See opportunity to advertise this her company and her husband's company, yet she's digressing.

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 8:13am On Jul 16, 2020
Romangalactic:

Hehehe, she's already screaming again because of simple question.

See opportunity to advertise this her company and her husband's company, yet she's digressing.

Joker grin grin grin grin

When hunger hit you well you will find your way to jobs vacancy section

Wo I have work o.... ma ko radarada ba mi

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 9:24am On Jul 16, 2020
Ybaby:


Joker grin grin grin grin

When hunger hit you well you will find your way to jobs vacancy section

Wo I have work o.... ma ko radarada ba mi
Just mention this your company and your provider husband's own na. Free advert to increase profits through nl. Ahn ahn

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 1:11pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ybaby how far, you run? grin

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 5:04pm On Jul 18, 2020
Romangalactic:
Ybaby how far, you run? grin

You are obsessed grin grin

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by fastseo: 5:30pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ybaby:


You are obsessed grin grin

My Ybaby. grin grin
How is the weekend going
Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 11:30am On Jul 19, 2020
fastseo:


My Ybaby. grin grin
How is the weekend going

Wahala po grin grin grin grin

I am not yours.... if you want quality women you have to work hard and pay all the bills.

grin grin grin

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 3:16pm On Jul 20, 2020
fastseo:


My Ybaby. grin grin
How is the weekend going

@romangalactic

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 3:52pm On Jul 20, 2020
Ybaby:


@romangalactic
So wats the name of ur darling provider producer alpha husband's company? grin

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 8:07pm On Jul 20, 2020
Romangalactic:

So wats the name of ur darling provider producer alpha husband's company? grin

Nairaland nig Ltd grin

No go find work.
Re: How To Train The Male Child by Romangalactic(m): 8:09pm On Jul 20, 2020
Ybaby:


Nairaland nig Ltd grin

No go find work.
I tell u say I dey find work?

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by fastseo: 3:31am On Jul 22, 2020
Ybaby:


Wahala po grin grin grin grin

I am not yours.... if you want quality women you have to work hard and pay all the bills.

grin grin grin

Hope you know that raising a family in this modern society requires huge finance?

1) Paying of school fees
2) Paying of rents (office space, shop, accommodation)
3) Running daily expenses on family.
4) feeding
5)clothing etc. and many more.

Woman are no longer required or expected to take the back role (being in the kitchen alone).

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 10:53am On Jul 22, 2020
fastseo:


Hope you know that raising a family in this modern society requires huge finance?

1) Paying of school fees
2) Paying of rents (office space, shop, accommodation)
3) Running daily expenses on family.
4) feeding
5)clothing etc. and many more.

Woman are no longer required or expected to take the back role (being in the kitchen alone).



Huge finances that little men cannot take care of.

Feel free to collect money from your woman.... not my business. I am here to let young women know that it is wise to avoid men like you who are too little to pay bills without a woman's help.

Imagine a woman saying breastfeeding is painful so she needs her hubby to also breasfeed the baby.

To each is own but it is wise to avoid men who are cannot produce babies and can still not pay bills.

This is my opinion and NOTHING you say will make me change that or see you or your type as a MAN. You are not capable of providing neither are you capable of carrying a baby so what is your usefulness in a family setting.

Sigh!

If you lost today they will not look for you much because there is really no need! Just one less burden for your woman. School fees will still be paid food will still be eaten

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by fastseo: 3:59am On Jul 23, 2020
Ybaby:


Huge finances that little men cannot take care of.

Feel free to collect money from your woman.... not my business. I am here to let young women know that it is wise to avoid men like you who are too little to pay bills without a woman's help.

Imagine a woman saying breastfeeding is painful so she needs her hubby to also breasfeed the baby.

To each is own but it is wise to avoid men who are cannot produce babies and can still not pay bills.

This is my opinion and NOTHING you say will make me change that or see you or your type as a MAN. You are not capable of providing neither are you capable of carrying a baby so what is your usefulness in a family setting.

Sigh!

If you lost today they will not look for you much because there is really no need! Just one less burden for your woman. School fees will still be paid food will still be eaten
Do you think a man with a family of let's say 5 who earns 150k a month can be able to manage a family of such size with such income and still be comfortable? how many jobs this days can pay up to that amount and what percent of Nigerians are opportune to work in such organisation ?

You are not capable of providing neither are you capable of carrying a baby so what is your usefulness in a family setting.
Men are meant to provide and women are now taking the lead role in assisting and a plan B in case of financial crises rather than being In the kitchen.

Secondly women don't give birth every year. Couples are now encouraged to go into family planning.

It's my opinion that expenditure should be shared on percentage basis. e.g 70/30%. Or based on percentage of the woman's monthly income.
If the woman don't have a source of income, it's the responsibility of the man to set up a business for her or the woman acquire skills.

It's very bad for a woman to ask her husband money for little things like Maggi, onions, biscuits etc through our the marriage ... That man will die untimely


In fact our mom warned us (we boys) never to marry any woman that won't contribute or have source of income. To me i still prefer good character, goodly spirit above all.

While growing up, our mother never ask our father money for all this petty things to my knowledge and when our Dad passed on the shop our mother was maintaining became our source of livelihood while we the children had to put in our best.

So we aren't trained that way. forgive me when I insist that women should contribute and I also understand where u coming from maybe you have had a terrible or bad first hand experience from a non provider Dad or husband.





Lastly I sense bitterness in your post. It seems you grew up or married to a non provider of a man. Don't be offended by my last comment but just an observation

Re: How To Train The Male Child by fastseo: 4:48am On Jul 23, 2020
Here are some headlines and opinion from some authority websites

Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 7:50am On Jul 23, 2020
fastseo:

Do you think a man with a family of let's say 5 who earns 150k a month can be able to manage a family of such size with such income and still be comfortable? how many jobs this days can pay up to that amount and what percent of Nigerians are opportune to work in such organisation ?


Men are meant to provide and women are now taking the lead role in assisting and a plan B in case of financial crises rather than being In the kitchen.

Secondly women don't give birth every year. Couples are now encouraged to go into family planning.

It's my opinion that expenditure should be shared on percentage basis. e.g 70/30%. Or based on percentage of the woman's monthly income.
If the woman don't have a source of income, it's the responsibility of the man to set up a business for her or the woman acquire skills.

It's very bad for a woman to ask her husband money for little things like Maggi, onions, biscuits etc through our the marriage ... That man will die untimely


In fact our mom warned us (we boys) never to marry any woman that won't contribute or have source of income. To me i still prefer good character, goodly spirit above all.

While growing up, our mother never ask our father money for all this petty things to my knowledge and when our Dad passed on the shop our mother was maintaining became our source of livelihood while we the children had to put in our best.

So we aren't trained that way. forgive me when I insist that women should contribute and I also understand where u coming from maybe you have had a terrible or bad first hand experience from a non provider Dad or husband.





Lastly I sense bitterness in your post. It seems you grew up or married to a non provider of a man. Don't be offended by my last comment but just an observation

Why is a man on 150k salary having 5 kids Dangote has 3 kids?

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by fastseo: 7:37pm On Jul 23, 2020
Ybaby:


Why is a man on 150k salary having 5 kids Dangote has 3 kids?



How much was our father's earning when giving birth to us?
Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 9:00pm On Jul 23, 2020
fastseo:

How much was our father's earning when giving birth to us?

I am sorry o but you are quite simple.

Let's leave the matter biko....no energy for your type.

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by fastseo: 6:23pm On Jul 30, 2020
As we keep on training our male child to be a provider let's also train our girl child how to be a provider also.

What a man can do a woman can do better

Re: How To Train The Male Child by Ybaby: 5:49pm On Sep 23, 2020
fastseo:
As we keep on training our male child to be a provider let's also train our girl child how to be a provider also.

What a man can do a woman can do better

Pooor girls !

Their father is obviously lazy and not a provider ( not an Otedola)

Just see your future daughters doing this type of job to put foood on their husbands table. You can say amen sha.

I beg I get work to do

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Re: How To Train The Male Child by SifonAbasi(f): 7:27pm On Sep 23, 2020
Hmm
Re: How To Train The Male Child by fastseo: 1:40am On Sep 28, 2020
Ybaby:


Pooor girls !

Their father is obviously lazy and not a provider ( not an Otedola)

Just see your future daughters doing this type of job to put foood on their husbands table. You can say amen sha.

I beg I get work to do
You are really depressed.. tongue take heart

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