Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

She dey collect ice cream from another man...my guy, religion fanatic ladies are worse than olosho, fear them.

FTC

Your gf reminds me of Sonic the Hedgehog

Eleyi gidi gaan o!

As for me, I can't wear it too if a man give me, yes. I'll just be faithful to him till he do the main thing. Ring is nothing but transparency and integrity are the main things. But a wedding ring is a must for me to wear

She definitely doesn't want people to see it.

But she told you why — “spiritual challenges”

So why can't you accept that?
Is there any reason not to trust her??

I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Also what do you mean by the bolded?
You AREN'T excited about getting married.

In dx life wey we dey so.....Dem no dey show pikin wey dey 10 months plus him mama breast...once him mama dey ready to breastfeed him...na him go take control of the breast not minding where Dem dey.

In conclusion,Even if you end up making her wear the ring..she will just be putting it on whenever you are around but when you no dey around....She no go wear am and besides I have seen many wedded couples that hardly put on their wedding rings so it's not a big deal.

I wish you all the best

Oga, go and marry her then complain as a husband; stop turning her to the lord of the rings. It's only an engagement -- it's never a guaranty.

She does nt wat to bcum lord of d rings.Do d necessary tin n she will be urs.

Gbam...d lady is wise

chatinent:
Oga, go and marry her then complain as a husband; stop turning her to the lord of the rings. It's only an engagement -- it's never a guaranty.

Bro...you have no problem ok....next

Bros don't mind those people up there o.


If I propose to my girl, I will want her to wear that ring 24/7 o.

Which kin spiritual problem wey your ring get wey she no fit wear am? Abi you de do winch sumtin?


Either she's still keeping her option open or she's not really excited about it or she's protective incase you fall her hand and people won't laff when she remove the ring then.

Whatever the case if na me, I go like make she wear my engagement ring all the time

Hmmmm. OP, are you sure you're emotionally ready for marriage?

"We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her"...

Sorry, to say, your vibes is a bit off.

If you didn't trust her enough, you wouldn't have proposed. Yeah

awon Lord of the ring

TheRealProphet:
She dey collect ice cream from another man...my guy religion fanatic ladies are worst than olosho, fear them.

Early this morning and this is the statement you make? I pity your evening or night statement 'cause by then you've used so much brain power and the nonstop nonsense you'll utter, na insha allah go help you.

NuclearGodzilla:
Your gf reminds me of Sonic the Hedgehog

how them take resemble

Ningen:
She definitely doesn't want people to see it.

But she told you why — “spiritual challenges”

So why can't you accept that?
Is there any reason not to trust her??



Also what do you mean by the bolded?
You AREN'T excited about getting married.

I am really pleased with ur words

RoyalBlu:
Hmmmm. OP, are you sure you're emotionally ready for marriage?

"We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her"...

Sorry, to say, your vibes is a bit off.

If you didn't trust her enough, you wouldn't have proposed. Yeah

Please, I trust her. But I think if u claim u want something u fight for it!

Guy stop complaining. That girl is smart. You want to pursue all her other options abii.

Marry her first!

Bola146:
As for me, I can't wear it too if a man give me, yes. I'll just be faithful to him till he do the main thing. Ring is nothing but transparency and integrity are the main things. But a wedding ring is a must for me to wear

seriously!

I think she has someone she really wants which is not you so she just accepted yours just incase her ideal man don’t pop the question then she settles with you so she don’t get to loose out on both sides

hope you ain't planning to turn her to the Lord of the rings

maybe she isn't happy that it's you she will be ending up with, you were the least in her options. She's not proud of being called your fiancee or wife.

Oga goan marry Her!
Who engagement help?? What did u even engage her on?? Being a free pussy to bang


Goan marry her and complain as a Husband, not boyfriend

She is on the right track. If you have not paid her dowry then you don't own her. Don't spoil show for serious suitors

[quote author=Bola146 post=89784493]Ring is nothing but transparency and integrity are the main things.

since what you stated above is what that matters, that means it won't be bad to marry you on credit-base because, love is all that matters.

divineuk:
seriously!

Yeah

Bola146:

Yeah

are you falling for it too?

Engagement is like renting a house/car, a temporary situation. You can make it permanent by doing the needful. Are you ready to do the needful?

SirMichael1:
Early this morning and this is the statement you make? I pity your evening or night statement 'cause by then you've used so much brain power and the nonstop nonsense you'll utter, na insha allah go help you.

insha Allah kill you there. all this religious fanatics ehh.. carry your Allah outta my mention.

Hotzone:
We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her

this here is my only concern from all your issues you stated. This woman is smart, she is saving and probably investing her money wisely while you are foolishly spending yours on her. Otherwise regarding the engagement, you have no claim to her yet and therefore she's not under any law compelled to wear that ring, but in any case that's what we call a "red flag". U better cancel the engagement and save yourself from this selfish woman.

Spiritual problem that hate her putting on her ring...

2 things are involved:


A. She has spiritual husband
B. She has a physical husband


So my friend you are the side chick, don't let the real husband (s) catch you o.




*walahi this weed they give sensible nonsense

Bola146:
As for me, I can't wear it too if a man give me, yes. I'll just be faithful to him till he do the main thing. Ring is nothing but transparency and integrity are the main things. But a wedding ring is a must for me to wear

Seconded