chatinent:
Oga, go and marry her then complain as a husband; stop turning her to the lord of the rings. It's only an engagement -- it's never a guaranty.

Even the so called marriage ring no get cov19

She get another guy nau.

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

she did this..she did that oga go marry her....what do you mean by engagement ring...?shit story

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

Lol, her excuse mad gan. Spiritual challenges. My dear something is wrong somewhere. Try and be a detective and search things out.

If you need to run for safety run now before she run you. No sincere girl will not be proud about her engagement ring

May be your fiance is looking for better options
Push forward the marriage process and if she is not responding positively then quickly pick race find another woman my ten cent

She's simply saying she's open to other potential suitors.

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

She doesn't want to put all her eggs in one basket, you fit fall her hand nah! Hasten things if you're really serious.

Take heart

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

You are not ready or emotionally mature for marriage. Your words "she claims" living with you and giving you wife benefits when you haven't legally married is against her faith shows you do not believe her. Did you find out what kind of attack she is under? I am not sure you understand this woman you claim you love.

Mtcheeww,u better go n do wedding for church,what is engagement,is a type of game

[quote author=Hotzone post=89784328]Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.[/quote
]spiritual problem?? Are you sure is not her spiritual husband that is fighting her.? Pls pray to God so he leads you .tho some pple dont fancy rings,someone like me I realy dont fancy engagement rings..but for wedding rings is a must I wear it to avoid queationd and suspicion

RED FLAG

lilyheaven:
Even wedding ring, I'm not wearing.

Kukuma marry yourself na..

2dice01:
how them take resemble

u knw no sey those coins wey sonic dey collect na ring....indomie generation

Many who use scepticism or uncertainty as excuses for not wanting to wear an engagement ring, in my opinion, may just unwittingly expose their non commitment if not infidelity in the courtship. Courtship is a serious and sacred matter and should not be taken lightly especially at the stage when both people have symbolised with the ring their promise to get married to each other.

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

You are one of the spiritual challenges she is referring to.

Nairaland is not the best place for you to get advice on relationship . People on this platform will just talk rubbish to make u sad .

mordred44:
u knw no sey those coins wey sonic dey collect na ring....indomie generation

sorry ancient of days
So you are omni-knoweth all thing abi

get her a key holder instead... dat'll be fine

TheRealProphet:
She dey collect ice cream from another man...my guy, religion fanatic ladies are worst than olosho, fear them.

FTC

You are absolutely right!

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

Apart from the ring issue, you haven't said anything wrong about her

Be explicit enough pls

I dont think its such big deal to be worried about, i am very sure tht once preparation starts fully, she would definitely put on the ring..

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

The rate at which guys complain about their girlfriend is alarming.


Is like girls are winning. The table is turning around.

tell her to return the ring so you can keep it well for her until she solves her spiritual problems.

Ask her Why?

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

Be careful before you get fired

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

What terms and conditions are u getting tired with exactly? It’s important u trash out very details b4 taking the big step cos they can become bigger issues.

On the ring thing I cud understand her cos only she knows what’s she’s facing with those around her. What is special about her wearing a ring if her heart isn’t yours? Nothing. If she’s urs u shudnt be worried. I honestly cud careless about a ring.

Sm people don’t like publicity until it’s done Bt if u feel there’s more to her excuse then investigate. Atleast ur in same office

2dice01:
sorry ancient of days So you are omni-knoweth all thing abi

nw u knw hw dey relate INDABOSKI

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

If she's even maybe at a higher position than you in your organization and likely earning as much or more, why are you taking care of her bills?
If you are getting tired of "terms and conditions", which sounds like you've been dealing with them for more than a week since you proposed, why did you then rush to propose?
As to why she's not wearing her ring, there are innocent reasons and not so innocent reasons, and I don't know her, to know her reasons.

I decided to hide my ring from my roommates, but I wore it everywhere else and it worked out perfectly this time, no regrets. I am now glad those others failed

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

Mumu man..u take care of bills for someone earning higher than u who's not your wife...how much do you send your mom monthly