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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by GIFTD: 7:49am On May 27, 2020

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Ernest5: 7:51am On May 27, 2020

At 22 u are taking manpower drug. What was ur intention...to tear her puna abi. Repent child.

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Hypnotise: 7:52am On May 27, 2020

Tadeknkeepcalm:

The reason why it seems so is because society fostered that ineptitude within us. The one who was 22 1912 and the one who is 22 now both spend exactly the same number of years, but one had a family already at that age, why is that?
He is old enough to hold a public office and make decisions that can affect the country, why is he not hold enough to hold a family?
Some things really need to change.

Common man, you and I know that the year 1912 and 2020 are worlds apart.
In 1912, was there internet, social media, computers, etc?
In 1912, agriculture was the profession of the day.
In 1912, slave trade was still going on.
Even the way of thinking then and now is different.
In 2020, the world is much more advanced.
Therefore a man in 1912 and 2020 aren't the same thing.
So that ananolgy isn't totally valid.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Torg77: 7:54am On May 27, 2020

Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

Don't worry you will soon die lol

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by chuzero(m): 8:01am On May 27, 2020

Sellfish:
Since you didn't penetrate the lady, what was now the use of the burantashi you took?

You wasted an opportunity to fvck and release all the accumulated sperm that isn't allowing you think properly....

You wasted Manpower drugs ..Do you know how much Viagra is in the market now?...Do you?

You wasted the girl's time and expectation of cuming ...You led the girl on and abandoned her without making her cum..I am sure she don swear for you

Nothing is wrong with you Bro...it's just Karma that's catching up with you for being so wasteful and wicked...Even the Bible says "no peace for the wicked".

Lastly, if at the age of 22, you already need manpower to boost your abuna, then you have a much bigger problem than you have noticed

cumfirm

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by chiemmanuel(m): 8:09am On May 27, 2020

holluphemydavid:

Dnt read to comment, instead read to understand, he said he'd didn't penetrate, read d post again to understand

he modified it

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Rafoski: 8:19am On May 27, 2020

What is wrong with the men of this generation?

You're Bleep!ng 22 man! You were too anxious to f.uck that girl, now you
wish you had done it. You're supposed to be concerned with improving
your personality and becoming autonomous.

Look, you're human. Even the angels that fell from heaven had sex. You're
thinking about an ordinary make out. You need to embrace your biology as
a man and be sexual. Sexual repression is your problem now. Call that girl
back and fucc her.

See, you should probably be dead by now from sin and immorality but you're
not. Why? Because it's supposed to shape you into becoming a better human.
You can't be saintly without having the experiences of sinners. You have to know
why sin is called sin.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Clinghton: 8:33am On May 27, 2020

You took man power and you didn't penetrate.

I don't understand.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by cravingmind: 8:39am On May 27, 2020

Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

First time is always like that sir, just take your mind off it.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Rafoski: 8:48am On May 27, 2020

KosiGee:

You made a promise to your parents that you wouldn’t indulge in ‘anything sexual’
You met a lady and made out with her but you didn’t penetrate. You had taken ‘manpower ‘ earlier!
Now your mind is troubled but you’ve told your parents about it and prayed but you are still troubled.

Try this: Grow up and stop abusing substances for either courage or enhanced performance.

You disappointed. Did you not consider how the girl would’ve felt? Have you called or spoken to her to apologise for that disastrous encounter or you ran to your parents and after knelt down...daddy, mummy, Oh God, forgive me for I have derailed and fallen short of your glory?

Did you tell your parents that you’ve wanked? Did you tell them about your nocturnal emissions too? I don’t know the sort of male children that’s been introduced into the society anymore! Ha

Stop embarrassing yourself, men and women. Sex is for men not for boys, sex is not for boys with a few strand of hairs on their chin, sex is for men with pubic hairs and balls the size of avocados.
Stay away from sex, read your books and pass your exams and stay away from substances.

Lastly, thank your stars that you didn’t get priapism.

See ehn, it's a matter nature vs nurture. His parents have successfully suppressed his sexuality with maybe religion and now his natural desires are kicking in. Plus society trains boys like girls with all these stupid movements and agitations against masculinity. Plus it's not just a male thing, females too have their piece of the stupid pie. Now you just told him to stay away from sex. I think we can see where all the emasculation comes from. It comes from females (men without balls are females too BTW).

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Nobody: 8:53am On May 27, 2020

Hypnotise:

Common man, you and I know that the year 1912 and 2020 are worlds apart.
In 1912, was there internet, social media, computers, etc?
In 1912, agriculture was the profession of the day.
In 1912, slave trade was still going on.
Even the way of thinking then and now is different.
In 2020, the world is much more advanced.
Therefore a man in 1912 and 2020 aren't the same thing.
So that ananolgy isn't totally valid.

True. Which further validates my point.
We have come a long way in doing great things.
Maybe in a few decades, we might have a governor in some other country as young as he is. But still, we would say he isn't ready for marriage. My point is, marriage has been treated with so much disdain these days.

The point of the analogy is, contrary to the past, why do we have to limit the youth of this time.

Alexander the great died before thirty, you can imagine the age he did all his conquering.
They also had a shorter life expectancy, which meant they made sure they made their mark as soon as possible.

But in this age, we engage in mudane and frivolous things. Would you not find a 28 year old whose sole purpose is to acquire 2k followers? Compare that to Alexander.

Yes ideologies change. But the point is, we have just as much capabilitiy as our forefathers. Even if society wishes to limit you, do not limit yourself.

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Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by currentbrands(m): 8:53am On May 27, 2020

Maclink288:
I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Knight1210(m): 9:12am On May 27, 2020

Sellfish:
Since you didn't penetrate the lady, what was now the use of the burantashi you took?

You wasted an opportunity to fvck and release all the accumulated sperm that isn't allowing you think properly....

You wasted Manpower drugs ..Do you know how much Viagra is in the market now?...Do you?

You wasted the girl's time and expectation of cuming ...You led the girl on and abandoned her without making her cum..I am sure she don swear for you

Nothing is wrong with you Bro...it's just Karma that's catching up with you for being so wasteful and wicked...Even the Bible says "no peace for the wicked".

Lastly, if at the age of 22, you already need manpower to boost your abuna, then you have a much bigger problem than you have noticed

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Bugatti3(m): 9:55am On May 27, 2020

haryorbarmie83:
You did not penetrate but you make attempt. Zero your mind and move on. But I can assure you you will want to try more pretty soon. Life is good.

How can he say that he didn't penetrate yet,he took man power? guy man no wan tell us what really transpired .

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Albertone(m): 10:29am On May 27, 2020

Clinghton:
You took man power and you didn't penetrate.

I don't understand.

His dick went flat as soon as he wore condom

He said this in one of his previous threads

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Okiibe(m): 10:53am On May 27, 2020

Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

Here is the point:

Just like Adam and Eve, you decided to eat the forbidden fruit. So, you went against the decision you made initially.

Mark it: ITS THE MOST NOBLE THING FOR A YOUNG PERSON TO ENDURE ALL URGE AND REMAIN PURE AND INNOCENT (SEXUALLY).

THAT NOBLE PART YOU'VE LEFT.

Pray to God with ernestness. Ask for forgiveness and keep doing so non-stop.

2ndly, speak to your partner in that act and let her know it was wrong that you both engaged in the act. Tell her how determined you are to make sure you will not do again.

3rdly, pray that nemesis won't haunt you from that incident.
Your claim of non-penetration is lame. Who measured how deep you sank?

Even you did not. Before a competent Court, (if in an action for responsibility in a pregnancy) you will surely admit you were involved with her and had the "opportunity" to do and did. When you try to interject the point not not sinking deep, my guy, the question would be "what deterred you"?

Of course when the lady swears that you sank deep and deposited the semen, they will be it.

I mean, if a lady speaks under oath before a court that she slept with no man except you and got pregnant; then you admit sleeping with her but without going deep, that court not interested in establishing a "virgin pregnancy" must attach patternity to the unborn child and that father will not be any other man who haven't slept with the lady, but you who shall be considered econonmical with the truth having admitted "sleeping" with the then pregnant woman.

I PRAY THAT GOD'S GRACE PREVENT THIS SCENARIO FROM GETTING BAD WHERE YOU MAY CONSIDER OPTIONS OF LYING TO COVER A SIN.

KEEP YOUR VOW TO GOD PLEASE. Thanks for opening up.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by safarigirl(f): 11:12am On May 27, 2020

TheMohican:

This is solid advice.... for a 16 year old.

the MAN IS TWENTY TWO YEARS OLD for crying out loud, he's not a child!!! It's not "cute" infact, It should be a crime for someone to be this naive, and although the advice is 10/10, I believe it endulges such behavior.

At 22 my mother had graduated from University and was giving life to her 2nd child, at 23 her elder brother had started his first business and was welcoming his new wife into his home, at 21 my eldest brother was leaving the shores of Nigeria to a strange land where he knew absolutely nobody.

At 22 bomboy over here is going to report himself to his parents for kissing a girl. Damn..

Editted: just wanted to add that at 15 my father was going off to fight in the Biafran War.

How many wars have you fought in since you were born, my guy? I suppose that makes you less of a man, in comparison to your father? How many businesses have you opened? And I hope all your sisters got married at the same 22? Not later than that.

The boy is of a different generation. You cannot be outlining what took place over 40 yearsago, to compare to today.

As far as I am concerned, there is little to no difference between a 22-year old boy and a 16-year old boy. Aside voting, drinking and driving (the last two points are dependent on location), a 16-year old can do everything a 22-year old does.

Furthermore, in that generation, marriage was a means of reducing the possibilities of fornication, you know, the same way Northerners marry girls at young ages, so, they don't become wayward when they are older? This is in contrast to today, when fornication is a fad and people have careless sex.

I am giving him advice based on the standards he has set for himself, courtesy of his parents. Everyone will not fall into depravity because the rest of the world is doing it. Now, if you are advising him to get married at 22, or start a business at 23, that is a different discussion. But, I don't see what is wrong with what I have stated, and I certainly don't see the advice from you on this post.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by xavuv: 11:26am On May 27, 2020

haryorbarmie83:
You did not penetrate but you make attempt. Zero your mind and move on. But I can assure you you will want to try more pretty soon. Life is good.

that's how we all started.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by EzendiEgo1: 11:35am On May 27, 2020

Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

don't worry I was in the same shoes last two months.
She's not pregnant but please next time use condom to avoid all this unrest mind.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by haryorbarmie83(m): 12:09pm On May 27, 2020

xavuv:

that's how we all started.

am telling you. He will want more pretty soon.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by haryorbarmie83(m): 12:10pm On May 27, 2020

Bugatti3:

How can he say that he didn't penetrate yet,he took man power? guy man no wan tell us what really transpired .

am telling you.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Joshbass: 12:11pm On May 27, 2020

My friend heads up.. Your worry is just a sign that you're a good person and a good Christian too.. God has forgiven you already.. I am so glad that you were brave enough to tell your parents, it shows you are really disciplined.. Put the past behind you and face the future bro. As for the lady, forget about her for now, she will later realise you are the best kind of guy.. I have been in a similar scenario bfor, but whenever I remember it, I nod my head and remain proud for doing the right thing.. Heads up man

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by richAgnostic: 12:15pm On May 27, 2020

BeauBragner:
Spirit wife tinz..

you fit share me that your michat number?

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by OnPointMan(m): 1:44pm On May 27, 2020

Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

Happy children's day son grin

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by raphy(m): 2:46pm On May 27, 2020

that guy Sean who say make him jerkoff try small.small o.

nigga u said u are feeling someone after using man power and you didnt penetrate ya gf. What did u then do? u just finger her or door 69.and its disturbing u..so ur dick is still standing since last month.

sorry o and u go tell ur parents o.
happy children's day o.

so many kids in face mask here.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Bilkol: 12:02am On May 28, 2020

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Too old or what?

To young from his story n level of maturity.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by igbanbajo(m): 5:25am On May 30, 2020

Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

You took a substance for erection stay.
Now this could be a wrong substance that's messing up your system. Someone once did this, took some Chinese manpower substance and came down with hypertension. Suggest you see a doctor fast before you kill yourself out of ignorance.

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by triggaSG(m): 10:14pm On Jun 16, 2020

BeauBragner:
Spirit wife tinz..

Hafarr, bossman...the 200lvl babe and the nerd one.....sheet both of them get their numbers for their profiles Sha?

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by BeauBragner: 10:18pm On Jun 16, 2020

triggaSG:

Hafarr, bossman...the 200lvl babe and the nerd one.....sheet both of them get their numbers for their profiles Sha?

Favour: 07081815679..Her number is not on her profile tho...tell her u got it from a friend she hooked up with at Yaba..

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by triggaSG(m): 10:23pm On Jun 16, 2020

BeauBragner:

Favour: 0..Her number is not on her profile tho...tell her u got it from a friend she hooked up with at Yaba..

seen. thanks bossman....I no go mind plenty around that area....I don accumulate enough for 3 months to spread around..

you fit commot the number now

hailings

Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by Sollykay41(m): 1:48pm On Jul 10, 2020

Lincoln275:
Ahh! Eleyi gidi gan

Hello bro i sent you a pm

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