Twoclans:
My worry is not the NO sex relationship , I have something else to draw your attention to.That your concept that she does not nag.hmmmmmm.

By the time you people get sexually involved and the sex is not worth it or below expectation my brother she will nag.So please keep that she does not nag aside first.

clevybrown:
Are u really sure she is a virgin?
Answer this question and get my advice.

Naija246:
First of all, I wanna let you know that girl is NOT a Virgin.
She is treating you this way because she feels her sexual market place value is higher than yours.
Also, I Sense she is not really a good person because if she was, she won't post other guys pictures to torment you.
Girls like that are best used as cum rags.

My advice to you is this, ignore her for now and focus on your life. She is obviously drenched in the attention you are giving her so it's of no value to her.

I'd also advise you to learn "game" it will prevent you from making alot of mistakes we men make by default when wooing women.

Search for Coach red pill on YouTube and start from there, that man opened my eyes to alot of thing's about women; he is like the father I never had.
Another good resource is Rollo Tomasi's book "the rational male" it's available on the internet for free....download and read it.

Uniquekriss:
can't beat my chest to it buh from observation and cross examination, she is

ProfDview:
I have just one word for you : you're a MANIPULATED man


I've dated such a girl before with same traits . Will you like to hear the truth? , she doesn't love you !!, you're just part of the list .

What should you do ? , DELETE her number and LOCK UP. Don't tell her anything , say nothing , do nothing . Just focus on HEALING.

If you insist on chasing breeze , wetin your eyes go see will make you miserable for a life time . It's better to bow out now that you've still got a little self worth left

Uniquekriss:
If all these points u mentioned are true then I'd be a fool to bow out like that, I'd wait a little more cos she's promised 2give me her body soon, after that I'll give her a month or two to discover things

Over grading her body. Like seriously, you think you will be a fool to dump a lady manipulating you because she promised you her body in due time. When you can get a woman that can spin your head in bed this night.

Chineke, Abasi Mbok.

Naija246:
First of all, I wanna let you know that girl is NOT a Virgin.
She is treating you this way because she feels her sexual market place value is higher than yours.
Also, I Sense she is not really a good person because if she was, she won't post other guys pictures to torment you.
Girls like that are best used as cum rags.

My advice to you is this, ignore her for now and focus on your life. She is obviously drenched in the attention you are giving her so it's of no value to her.

I'd also advise you to learn "game" it will prevent you from making alot of mistakes we men make by default when wooing women.

Search for Coach red pill on YouTube and start from there, that man opened my eyes to alot of thing's about women; he is like the father I never had.
Another good resource is Rollo Tomasi's book "the rational male" it's available on the internet for free....download and read it.

luvyaself95:
You're 31 and still behaving like a kid you better follow naija246 advice and understand the world of women and their manipulation.
You this simp and upcoming cuckold.

TheGoodJoe:


Over grading her body. Like seriously, you think you will be a fool to dump a lady manipulating you because she promised you her body in due time. When you can get a woman that can spin your head in bed this night.

Chineke, Abasi Mbok.

Uniquekriss:
what i mean is that if i let go like that I'll feel cheated even after she's promised and after all my sacrifice in d relationship. It should be a win-win thing to some extent my guy

makydebbie:
Chai, imagine being in a no sex relationship. God forbid.

clevybrown:
As a guy with a degree in womenology and experiences in women affairs, let me advice u. To b a virgin doesn't mean she has not been romantically or erotically active. The said pet names u are seeing in her phone didn't just come about from a mindset without motive. It's either she is romantically involved with him or she finds him attractive thereby crushing on him. Don't b deceived by her virginity status, if at all she is even a virgin, ladies cheat in various ways, don't expect a piercing of that vagina before u know she is cheating on u, she can be involved erotically with a guy without any form of penetration, thereby using virginity to win ur trust (if at all she is a virgin). Of a truth, ladies are not to be trusted. Do ur investigation properly and u will find out all I just said above....

Peace.....

UniqueQueen12:
Choi

Galactico4ever:
Are You guilty of what he said?

Wolgrace:
First, I perceive you are dating a candidate of flirting phase, like immature mentally and psycologically or mind not made up to settle down.

Secondly, no chemistry from from onset. She only drains your emotional strength and flex it on her flirt guys for self mastering.

Lastly, you need to expand your vigilance scope of assessment to discern beyond her beauty. If you check her further inwardly, you'll detect negative chemistry with you. Don't be carried away by false identity (not nagging, virginity,.....) and beauty because BEAUTY IS AN EMPTY CALABASH.

Don't force yourself on her. Leave her to flirt, its her choice. She has told you to go in peace. Bother no more!

Note: examine your type of person. Maybe you have poor vibes or inactive social charisma or weak intelligence or poor versatile knowledge or not too sharp, etc.. Try and know why she's not connected with you at first. Ladies are smart and know when a guy is dull.

UniqueQueen12:
Never.. He understand why I quoted him

UniqueQueen12:
Choi

Uniquekriss:
lol, d last paragraph is funny, I'm social, handsome, intelligent and keep up with the trend, funnily enough i have so many girls stalking me and she knows, she even mentioned 2me that she keeps thanking God i left my ex cos she knows i left that1 cos of her arrogance, na only car i never begin drive and say i be lover boy. I think ur first paragraph explains it all, not made up her mind to settle down.

clevybrown:
It's true naw... The lady is using virginity to manipulate my guy

UniqueQueen12:
Naso

Wolgrace:


She will be a model of a special paper soon. She will sit down and regret all the years and golden opportunities she willfully lost. Else, she reposition herself while time still favours her now... Leave her peacefully to her own peril or luck.

clevybrown:
ok... Wat is ur own take on the matter

clevybrown:
ok... Wat is ur own take on the matter

Uniquekriss:
thanks alot for d timely advice

UniqueQueen12:
If I talk,nairaland go scatter

Uniquekriss:
honestly i really needed more ladies to share their views so it doesn't look like guys are supporting a fellow guy