Hello Peeps!

What do you think of role reversal in the relationship? Imagine a woman becoming a man and a man becoming a woman. What are some of the things that you can think of would be funny or serious in the relationship of the role were switched.

I think a man going through pregnancy and actual delivery would be some funny shit! My uncle's girlfriend had a baby in the nursing clinic and she opted for water delivery. I was her one of her coaches and actually saw her delivered a baby in the water. My uncle fainted when he saw the blood.

I would find it funny if a woman would to actually impregnate a man.

Chai . . . .I still have this thought of being impregnated one time and that's why i force my girl to always stay ontop during intimacy
Bck to the topic.
I wish the switch could occur,So that i won't have to experience what men do experience!

What do men experience? Blue balls?

[size=20pt]Can we talk bout this Next century, cause you are still a very young girl ''Not mature yet''[/size]

How old are you? 50? Negro please! Now, tell me what are men going through? I am listening.

Men go through alot,Brinking down to Africa mentality . . .Basically Nigerian ladies believe men should be responsible for atleast 80% of the house expenses,Must provide help for her family whenever they need it,Must be the one to attend parents meeting during the month and everytime and the worst part of it is that the husband must be the only person to confront the arm robbers whenever they visit, to attach and take away their properties,This is the reason we have lot of Widows in Nigeria!

[color=#0055bb]The guy cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping and rubbing my feet with my hot meal simmering on the stove would be grand!  

D Sense!. . .CHOP CHOP!   [/COLOR]

Dsense.  

You have to realize that these women were raised by YOUR FOREFATHERS who taught them that men are the providers and that men must protect the household.  If the society in Nigeria were to enforce women's empowerment that would ease some of the burden men faced in Nigeria.  

Now I may be wrong but it is harder for a woman to get a job equal to a man in Nigeria right?  Correct me if I am wrong.  So the woman ability to obtain a decent job equal to a man could be the reason why there are pressure in the relationship do you think so?

I was raised not to depend on a man for shit and fend for MYSELF.

D-sense:

Men go through alot,Brinking down to Africa mentality . . .Basically Nigerian ladies believe men should be responsible for atleast 80% of the house expenses,Must provide help for her family whenever they need it,Must be the one to attend parents meeting during the month and everytime and the worst part of it is that the husband must be the only person to confront the arm robbers whenever they visit, to attach and take away their properties,This is the reason we have lot of Widows in Nigeria!

D-sense this is SUPER INTERESTING

Tell me more please - what is a parents meeting? What does that mean? please

Also - D

I want to make sure my man doesn't go through this "taking care of 80%" - I need him functioning and not drowning in worry or debt - because I need all of his time, energy and joy in the bedroom, living room.

I also hate arguing and stress kills. I want him around for a very, very long time.

Also D

What is this "armed robbers whenever they visit" - what does that mean?

Uhmm Shyone? Living room missy? (tapping foot)

yes. Mrs. Chima?

what is living room mean? hahahaha

why are you tapping your foot? lololol - did I do something wrong?

MzD@rkSkin:

[color=#0055bb]The guy cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping and rubbing my feet with my hot meal simmering on the stove would be grand!

D Sense!. . .CHOP CHOP! [/COLOR]

**May the flying bird poo poo on you big azz**

Mrs, Chima:

Dsense.

You have to realize that these women were raised by YOUR FOREFATHERS who taught them that men are the providers and that men must protect the household. If the society in Nigeria were to enforce women's empowerment that would ease some of the burden men faced in Nigeria.

Now I may be wrong but it is harder for a woman to get a job equal to a man in Nigeria right? Correct me if I am wrong. So the woman ability to obtain a decent job equal to a man could be the reason why there are pressure in the relationship do you think so?

I was raised not to depend on a man for poo and fend for MYSELF.

Actually the percentage of women getting employed in Nigeria is absolutely high than men's percentage,Cause our women would give out their punny easily to the employee to get jobs,But we go no punny to give out!
Jokes apart all i said above re very right and what is happening in Africa, Nigeria ''specifically''

Shy-One:

D-sense this is SUPER INTERESTING

Tell me more please - what is a parents meeting? What does that mean? please

I meant when it comes to attend students parents' meeting. the husbands must attend while the wifes roling thier azz up and down in the house.

Shy-One:

Also - D

I want to make sure my man doesn't go through this "taking care of 80%" - I need him functioning and not drowning in worry or debt - because I need all of his time, energy and joy in the bedroom, living room.

I also hate arguing and stress kills. I want him around for a very, very long time.

In Nigerian,Our women mentality is totally alien to what happens in other society . . . , Nigerian women 90% depends on their husbands,While they go gossip with the neighbor house wifes during the day,The husband comes back fro work abd they start mentioning expenses which he must fugure out before going to bed . . . .Infact they make lot of husband' life go miserable.

Shyone,

You thank you slick. You betta get no carpet burns on them knees girl!


Dsense,

Well, I am sorry that the husbands are going through that well NAWL I ain't because yall are the ones that TRAINED these women to think like that so you reap what you sow.

I was raised to be independent and do not depend on no man FOR SHIT!

@ D-Sense:

I needed to hear that - hmmmm, no wonder he loves me soo much and I love him soo much.  I love to work and so does he.  We BOTH CONTRIBUTE - BIG TIME.  

Hmmm - this is going to be great - we will have a wonderful relationship on a really deep level.  He kept trying to tell me in different ways and in the U.S. some men and women do the same thing - not work, gossip alot, depend really heavily on the other partner - killing that partner with stress.    Noooooo - I love working and making money and contributing and my man better love it too  - thank God he does.  Thanks for the info.

@ Mrs. Chima:

Slick?

Carpet Burns?

What? Why would I get carpet burns?

What did I do? e-friend? Talk to me quick

Shyone,

My husband wants me to be a housewife when we have children. He is priming me for the rite of motherhood as we speak. However, I am used to making my own money and going to work it will be hard for me to sit at home and let lil Chima suck on my breasts and till the garden. I don't know about all that. We will see when the babies pop out.

You said in the bedroom and living room. What do you do when you have carpet Ms. Shyone? Looking at you with one eye.

**May the flying bird poo poo on you big azz**  

lmfao@ d-sense! and until that happens, put more gravy on my rice!  

You know what - I am slow,

I just figured it out

You have clowned girlfriend - hahahahahaha

D-Sense is a good guy - I have no romantic interest - I promise you

I don't do the underhanded - I just really needed some advice

Actually - I would love to talk to you more - because you are here in the States and you are AA, like me and you hubby is African - I would love to get some more info from you if that is alright.

But right now - I really need to retire - I am exhausted.  I have been ill and need to write a lot of papers and get some apologies to some clients - I am behind because I have been ill and buried with a book I just finished this evening as well

funny

MzD@rkSkin:



lmfao@ d-sense! and until that happens, put more gravy on my rice!  

You rice is full of sand

Mrs, Chima:

Shyone,

My husband wants me to be a housewife when we have children. He is priming me for the rite of motherhood as we speak. However, I am used to making my own money and going to work it will be hard for me to sit at home and let lil Chima suck on my bosoms and till the garden. I don't know about all that. We will see when the babies pop out.

One of them  . . .Gossiper!

Shy-One:

@ D-Sense:

I needed to hear that - hmmmm, no wonder he loves me soo much and I love him soo much.  I love to work and so does he.  We BOTH CONTRIBUTE - BIG TIME.  

Hmmm - this is going to be great - we will have a wonderful relationship on a really deep level.  He kept trying to tell me in different ways and in the U.S. some men and women do the same thing - not work, gossip alot, depend really heavily on the other partner - killing that partner with stress.    Noooooo - I love working and making money and contributing and my man better love it too  - thank God he does.  Thanks for the info.

Me happy for you . . . . .I'm very sure he loves you so much and you do ,so have a happy marriage!
I'm also having a perfect relationship . . . .Me and my girl work and save ,When she needs something she goes straight and get it ,Same goes with me . .  full understanding is very important in every relationship!

Mrs, Chima:

You said in the bedroom and living room.  What do you do when you have carpet Ms. Shyone?  Looking at you with one eye.

hahahahahahaha - I was just trying to give a visual on "the type" of limited and demanding marriage I had - though I loved him deeply - he was very clingy to me - I wasn't trying to put out any hints.

Sorry - but take this as clarification

lrlrlrlrlrlrlrl - I love you - you are sooo funny

"looking at me with one eye" - lololololololol

can I borrow that line from you?

Shy-One:

You know what - I am slow,

I just figured it out

You have clowned girlfriend - hahahahahaha

D-Sense is a good guy - I have no romantic interest - I promise you

I don't do the underhanded - I just really needed some advice

Actually - I would love to talk to you more - because you are here in the States and you are AA, like me and you hubby is African - I would love to get some more info from you if that is alright.

But right now - I really need to retire - I am exhausted. I have been ill and need to write a lot of papers and get some apologies to some clients - I am behind because I have been ill and buried with a book I just finished this evening as well

Compliment of the season . . .Thank you and it's my pleasure!
May God heal you quickly and get back strong and healthy.
Anytime just catch up with me and would tell you alot blut Nigerian ladies,
Actually going to throw a thread for describing the new bad attitudes of Nigerian Laides!

D-sense:

I'm also having a perfect relationship . . . .Me and my girl work and save ,When she needs something she goes straight and get it ,Same goes with me . .  full understanding is very important in every relationship!

I LOVE IT!!!

That is me and my guy - we are already on that !!!!  I love it and I love him - love the ground he walks - I was stressed before I met him and he was stressed before he met me.  His laugh is much lighter and happier and so is mine - we relieve each other and can talk about anything together.  Anyway - thanks for that information.  I don't want a man to take care of me - I want us to take care of each other.  You don't know the true value of a dollar if you don't work and earn it together.

^^^Exactly . . .you said it right and doing it perfectly! . . . . .Bravo lady!!

^^Hmmm . . .You see how romatic i am when being tounched by a gentle lady ''Not by an aggressive girl like you''.
Treat me gently ,romatically and purely . . .Then you have me on the same track you are

MzD@rkSkin:

SGDMH @ Chima I hope I AM the one with the nasty mind right now!

shatarrizap! @d-sense! go pee and go to bed!  

I notice how you will curse you all day/night and as soon as someone (as Shyone has) throw in a compliment,
You become so gentleman-like lmao! Need attention much?

I see how you do D-Sense !

Shyone,

You so special. Chile I was implying that you will be freaky with your man in the living room! Ooooh lawd girl! I am like I aint said nuffin about you wanting Dsense. You don't want that nut. TRUSS ME!


No problem girl. I will be more than happy to answer any questions you may have. Just shoot and ask and Mrs. Chima gon tell it like it is.

Mrs, Chima:




Shyone,

You so special. Chile I was implying that you will be freaky with your man in the living room! Ooooh lawd girl! I am like I aint said nuffin about you wanting Dsense. You don't want that nut. TRUSS ME!


No problem girl. I will be more than happy to answer any questions you may have. Just shoot and ask and Mrs. Chima gon tell it like it is.

Another stricken ragtag parrot flying with poo stuck on her azz
Who told you she was singling me out for relationship? . . . .She's gota Husband but here for advices . . . . .

@OP, i wish men could get pregnant and see how it feels like.(although not a bad experince, but the work load aint easy for women) and if men could go through this stage,they would begin to think and feel with their heart and not with their 'iron head''.