I have insomnia it’s 1.30 am and I was just browsing my feed and I watched a blog video that discussed this topic. I thought it would be entertaining for me to shake this table on Nairaland. Looking forward to what y’all have to say about this topic.

This is a very hot topic in the USA as we observe some people going back to Africa to marry a wife/husband however when they return the spouse changes - it can be for good or for bad.

For those overseas would you go back home to marry ? Why do you choose this route? Has the diaspora ran out of options? Did your marriage weather changes of environment once your spouse came to America?
Did your spouse remain the same?

For those in 9ja what’s your take on marrying someone you barely know. Do you do it for love initially or is it for better life?

Can you please gist me on your experience or what you have heard?

You want to pattern your life's decision from hear say. Expect to hear. 98% of don't do it Nigerians are devils. And then, what if it wasn't a bad declension. Make your decision based from what your inner conviction tells you to do

Just some advice, don't jump into marriage. It's for a lifetime. It's best you seek the will of God for you.

People are bad everywhere, never make your life decisions based on what others think or say. you are different from them plus you don't really know the full story or why that person treated them like that, what if their story was even a lie and you are taking it to heart and deciding your life based on what they said.

If you feel like marring overseas then do it, you want to marry from home then do it.

Marriage is not a democracy where people you don't even know get to vote.

Over flogged topic... next pls!

The place does not matter.wether home or abroad..just marry right.

marriage is overrated

Thanks for watching




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hFJjJmcWopE&t=1s