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How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by chatinent(m): 2:26pm On May 29, 2020
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.


Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.


There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.


Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.


So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.


I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.


Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.


How do I deal with this legally, please?

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by SafariBoy(m): 2:28pm On May 29, 2020
Well this matter big pass me. Let's wait for our seasoned legal practitioners.

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Tadeknkeepcalm: 3:00pm On May 29, 2020
Forward it with other pending matters.

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by chatinent(m): 3:03pm On May 29, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Forward it with other pending matters.


It's not a joking matter.

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by daben1(m): 3:05pm On May 29, 2020
Is this the new way of writing on nairaland?

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Ladylite: 3:23pm On May 29, 2020
chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.


Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.


There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.


Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.


So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.


I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.


Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.


How do I deal with this legally, please?

Get a job and move out of that haunted house

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Nobody: 3:30pm On May 29, 2020
If you had minded your business in that your apartment from day one, there won't be this thread today. undecided

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Kobicove(m): 3:56pm On May 29, 2020
chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.


How do I deal with this legally, please?

Most instances where people misquote you starts from something you said.

You are also a gossip yourself.

If you keep your mouth shut and mind your own business you make it impossible for other people to misquote you! undecided

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Bola146(f): 4:01pm On May 29, 2020
grin You really get him listening or replying her, get out of that house or ignore her totally

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Greensquard(m): 4:09pm On May 29, 2020
Mtcheeww all this face me i slap u compound arrangememt..better upgrade and leave that poverty striken area,i really cant understand how able bodied young men who are enlightened enough to operate a smart phone and browse the internet to be broke and living in poverty in the year 2020,gosh with all the opportunities on the internet?smh..very soon she will acuse u of rape

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by chatinent(m): 5:01pm On May 29, 2020
Kobicove:


Most instances where people misquote you starts from something you said.

You are also a gossip yourself.

If you keep your mouth shut and mind your own business you make it impossible to misquote you! undecided
You should be wise. Be wise, I'm not you.

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Lightangel65: 5:37pm On May 29, 2020
Old women and local married women are jobless and like gossip, so don't ever talk to them about your problems only if you want the whole street to hear

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by paulolee(m): 5:48pm On May 29, 2020
get a job and avoid those sets of neighbors...even if u start working, start to they form busy and tired de avoid them...

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Ablyz(m): 5:59pm On May 29, 2020
Now the issue is she has been
slandering me, lying to people
and exchanging the role she
played in the problem as
though I scripted it against
her and for favours.
How do I deal with this legally,
please?


1.Understand
What Slander Is
First and foremost, make
sure that you know the
definitive difference
between slander and
gossip that’s simply
getting out of hand.

2. Prevent,
Rather than Cure
never get into any troubles

3. Try to Address
the Issue Yourself
The steps you’ll take will
depend on the
seriousness of what’s
being said about you and
how far and fast it’s
spreading, but it’s wise to
try tackling the issue
yourself first.

4.if she persits,involved the legal authorithies

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by chatinent(m): 6:13pm On May 29, 2020
paulolee:
get a job and avoid those sets of neighbors...even if u start working, start to they form busy and tired de avoid them...
I have a job. It's just that it's on lockdown.
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by paulolee(m): 6:20pm On May 29, 2020
chatinent:

I have a job. It's just that it's on lockdown.
kkk...jus try n keep urself busy...stay indoors always and if u are not that type jus de comot for ous leave dm

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by ZAWs: 7:28pm On May 29, 2020
Be very careful as these women will ridicule you to the fullest extent permitted.
So you might want to move out from that environment as soon as you can..

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by drmikeadams(m): 7:33pm On May 29, 2020
chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.


Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.


There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.


Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.


So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.


I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.


Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.


How do I deal with this legally, please?



Ignore her. If u love smoking. Just smoke away ur sorrows

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Bluehill1051: 7:58pm On May 29, 2020
Even u OP have problem. Which one be all this lines for? Are u stupid?! Who wants ur lines. Do something straight, simple and consise, you're drawing lines. That is why the lady is looking at u as a dundy!

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by realtalk19: 8:45pm On May 29, 2020
chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.


Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.


There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.


Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.


So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.


I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.


Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.


How do I deal with this legally, please?

Aviod her completely and face your lane. No unnecessary attachment
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Ishilove: 9:59pm On May 29, 2020
J111333:
If you had minded your business in that your apartment from day one, there won't be this thread today. undecided
Quod Erat Demonstradum

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by John1152(m): 10:03pm On May 29, 2020
chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.


Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.


There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.


Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.


So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.


I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.


Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.


How do I deal with this legally, please?

time will tell

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:04pm On May 29, 2020
if u just dey ur own lane in that compound then u wont give any person room to slander u.anytime u come from work u greet them if they are around then enter ur house.no enter their house and start discussion with them with the excuse of being sociable.it is when u try to be too friendly or sociable you give them room to slander you.

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:05pm On May 29, 2020
J111333:
If you had minded your business in that your apartment from day one, there won't be this thread today. undecided
exactly
there some guys ehn they are the ones who call attention to themselves.u can imagine in some lodges a single guy will be telling a married lady that she is looking so beautiful today..or dat her body dey shine etc..all in an attempt to being friendly cheesy.why won see finish enter the matter cheesy.when u dey a lodge where u know the neighbours dey behave one kind den just try to dey ur own lane.u can greet them but then matter shouldnt pass greeting.u shoudlnt be caught exchanging banters and discussions with them when u know the type of ppl dey are.na sense man dey take waka.

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:22pm On May 29, 2020
Ishilove:

Quod Erat Demonstradum
I thought we have discussed this before. I no go school so biko reduce this abracadabra naa abi you wan mek I swear for you. undecided

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by doggedfighter(f): 3:06am On May 30, 2020
Gossip mate gone wrong

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by chatinent(m): 6:44am On May 30, 2020
Bluehill1051:
Even u OP have problem. Which one be all this lines for? Are u stupid?! Who wants ur lines. Do something straight, simple and consise, you're drawing lines. That is why the lady is looking at u as a dundy!
Please get behind me.

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by chatinent(m): 6:46am On May 30, 2020
lefulefu:
if u just dey ur own lane in that compound then u wont give any person room to slander u.anytime u come from work u greet them if they are around then enter ur house.no enter their house and start discussion with them with the excuse of being sociable.it is when u try to be too friendly or sociable you give them room to slander you.
I don't even talk to these women! You don't know me.. I really don't even have time for the men, let alone the women. I'm that reserved.
lefulefu:
exactly
there some guys ehn they are the ones who call attention to themselves.u can imagine in some lodges a single guy will be telling a married lady that she is looking so beautiful today..or dat her body dey shine etc..all in an attempt to being friendly cheesy.why won see finish enter the matter cheesy.when u dey a lodge where u know the neighbours dey behave one kind den just try to dey ur own lane.u can greet them but then matter shouldnt pass greeting.u shoudlnt be caught exchanging banters and discussions with them when u know the type of ppl dey are.na sense man dey take waka.
lefulefu:
if u just dey ur own lane in that compound then u wont give any person room to slander u.anytime u come from work u greet them if they are around then enter ur house.no enter their house and start discussion with them with the excuse of being sociable.it is when u try to be too friendly or sociable you give them room to slander you.
I don't even talk to these women! You don't know me.. I really don't even have time for the men, let alone the women. I'm that reserved.

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Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by chatinent(m): 6:48am On May 30, 2020
ZAWs:
Be very careful as these women will ridicule you to the fullest extent permitted.
So you might want to move out from that environment as soon as you can..
I really now subscribe to the regular saying of 'fear who no fear women.'
Re: How Can I Please Deal With A Slanderous Neighbour? by Quality20(m): 9:22am On May 30, 2020
file a case of defamation of character in a court of law against her as soon as possible and make a claim of #5 million

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