KAM3KAZI:
The man's wallet will be losing
The woman's food will be wasting
Hormones will be raging

Infact everybody loses

Westernlove:


This Is worse decision and very risky. I'do advice you avoid everything about her absolutely because You might be eating menstrual blood with stew and Vegetable without knowing. Female beings can be Very Evil when getting back at You. They normally carry out their action without thinking twice when they are being Offended, They don't have a mind of their own. You might just die an Untimely Death or They might render you Useless. I'm not married yet but I know everything A to Z about marriage. I'm from a very Sensitive Family. I was once a Victim of domestic violence. Be Warned!!!!

goodnewscliff:
handling cases like matured couple is king...... Being hardened does Not help but in case its needed to teach a so called hardened wife a lesson, i dont jonze.... She will leave the house for me all by herself without me telling her to.......
Never chin chum chin

MannieA:



I don't think you guys understand what jullima is tryna say. She's trying to let you guys know that although refusing your wife's food and not having sex with her may affect her in the first few years of marriage, overtime it won't bother her if the man keeps doing it.
Let's all be honest here, does it make sense to refuse your wife's food because of an issue?
That's an archaic thing to do abeg...I don't think men should still be doing that shit!
So it's the constant rubbish the man keeps doing that has hardened her..

Openbusiness:

You will get time when the side chicks start dishing his food and chopping the money meant for you, and leaving you with crumbs. Be forming you hear, till them show you pepper, then you will get time then, your day will be 36 hours instead of 24

Gaggii:


How do we punish an unrepentant wife

Bluezy13:


Responsibilities ke.

If you try it with me,
I will start cooking my food myself.
And pray you don't extend it for too long cos I may never eat your food again and take it as a way of life but we will still be husband and wife.
Once I take it as a new way of life, I'll be happy, but will you
I know how heartless I can get.
After all I grew up alone.

KAM3KAZI:
The man's wallet will be losing
The woman's food will be wasting
Hormones will be raging

Infact everybody loses

Gaggii:


You will wake up and cook yourself before going to office...no be suffer you dey suffer yourself...is it not better you settle the matter

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Women of these days will rat the food and even add more and still finish it. Wash the plates and sleep naked. Inside their mind they know the the person giving the punishment is dying inside.
My own be say if I jam husband wey want use that one on me, the moment he rejects my food, of my goodness, I will eat until the food start coming out of my nose. Then I will have a cool bath and sleep naked. If he doesn't touch me then no problem. I will not wear clothes again except I'm going outside. Will wear only sexy pants and bra. Will cook, clean and stay naked.
Who still bothers about husband rejecting food

Temhellen:

You right though, but the truth is if u get married to any of these 21st century ladies, o boy dem no send u oooooo . If u like enter kitchen Dey cook for ursef if u like join ur laundry with it wetin concern dem . So far she has her kids plus her job who ur sex n food epp?

Nuel4:
you are talking like a child. If I'm angry with you, you and everything you do or say will disgust me. I have lived with my girlfriend for 3 years now she, her food, her vagina look like sour shiit to me if I'm angry with her. I can live with a woman in the same room for one year without talking to her or even looking at her unclothedness.
How do you live with someone you know finds you disgusting?

Lordswazz:
When they tell today's youths to find a woman that adores and respects them in totality and then marry her, they'll say their "attraction cord" doesn't work that way. Them dey find the one wey go always dey keep them on the edge simply because "she's so photogenic and sexy."

Any lady that respects and submits to you the way a wife should, your ignoring her bed and meal will make her seek for reconciliation even 10 years after marriage. The love you have for her on your part will also melt your heart the moment this happens. But the "woke" people wey wan do pass wetin bible dey talk and dey find "co-partner," "50-50" go dey chase the wrong things, and naim dey put them for trouble. No wonder these days, men in young marriages, who are barely in their mid-late thirties, dey treat high-blood pressure already.

Good luck having a peaceful and happy marriage with your "21st Century" formula

Truthful submission

LMAO @bold..........Disaster

luscioustrish:
It's a loss on both sides


Nothing a simple/honest conversation can't solve, they both apologize and eat.. make-up Se..x is always lit

MannieA:



I don't think you guys understand what jullima is tryna say. She's trying to let you guys know that although refusing your wife's food and not having sex with her may affect her in the first few years of marriage, overtime it won't bother her if the man keeps doing it.
Let's all be honest here, does it make sense to refuse your wife's food because of an issue?
That's an archaic thing to do abeg...I don't think men should still be doing that shit!
So it's the constant rubbish the man keeps doing that has hardened her..

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...

In my humble opinion from my adventurous experience;
First, getting back at a woman by denying her sex is only recommended if she use(d) to derive maximum satisfaction and knows you have the capacity to satisfy any woman whenever duty calls.

Secondly, refusing to eat a woman's food (without giving her any reason) is a direct and easy way to make her feel bad.
She will get mad at you, hate you, keep malice with you, be sorrowful, wonder, feel dejected, admire your distaste, long for you, seek your attention and explanation, snub you, respect you and look for every opportunity to converse with you...
All at the same time.

But know when to draw the line.

Gaggii:


You wicked pass buhari

SpicyMimi:

Marriage is not for you bro, unless your wife is aware of this.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
And I'm telling you your girlfriend must have gotten use to that and you rejecting her food and denying her sex will no longer mean anything to her. Only if she's normal. That your girlfriend must be a homeless and jobless babe to have lived with you for 3years.
Nothing wey Chicken no go see for stew.

merahki:



This bolded bit is too funny!
I passed out at “planning in the night”
It would make a nice film in my head, lol.

It’s somewhat attractive to me, what you wrote, don’t know why!

DeckXavier:
you dont mean it , this is serious.

Bluezy13:

Of course...

I will be happy that she doesn't care anymore because it will give me an opportunity to live like a bachelor which I have always longed for.
As long as she has given me children...very very important.
By the way, I am not yet married and I intend to have children out of wedlock.
Perhaps depending on family pressure, I might just get a woman to call my wife for the sake of peace.

Jullima:

Yawn

Are you married? At this point the wife no longer cares, initially she’s worried but it gets to a point in the marriage, it becomes ineffective.

There will always be food in the house because she has kids to feed, if you like dish, your choice.

No time to take on an additional child to the one you’re already raising. Who get that kain time?

Jokerman:


Lol .....hope the 21st century lady won't report her husband to pastor, family members, friends etc??

Herdamorlar:
this is what is happening to me right now, I lost my job last year and my wife is the one providing for the family and even sometimes cloth me and every other thing at home. recently I just realise that my wife stop having sex with me and sometimes I will have to beg her. last two weeks when she was going to her shop,she dumped our 2years daughter to me at home that since I am not going anywhere that I should be looking after her. I told her last week that I will be following my tiler friend to work at least to keep myself busy, then my wife starts abusing me that I don't have shame that as a graduate I will start working as tiler boy. Since that time I have stopped eating at home and I don't even think of asking her for sex again. she is on the bed now sleeping and I am online checking any job vacancy online for me to apply.i am tired of everything and she doesn't care anymore if I eat or not. You can advice me on what to do and if you have any work that I can do around Ibadan,you can be of assistance to me.