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Having money in marriage helps to make marriage more enjoyable. The things money can buy will reduce the pressure couples feel. This will enable all parties to focus on building the relationship even more in an atmosphere of love and affection.

Money is important. But it’s only important to have enough.

In other words, dating someone who is wealthy means that you’ll have a lot more options to enjoy the finer things in life.

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Your Husband Earns 100k A Month, How Much Do You Want Him To Give You As Wifey Allowance?

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Seun Lalasticlala what do you think?

Why can't they work for their own money?

Naija girls are too lazy and many have annoying entitlement mentality.

Imagine my girl saying I'm supposed to be giving her salary. Her papa get money o and she works.
I'm know she's just jealous of a cousin I give 20k every month. My cousin lost her both parents 2 years ago and I made the pledge...

She is working for u

GodPunishBiafra:
Why can't they work for their own money?

Naija girls are too lazy and many have annoying entitlement mentality.

Imagine my girl saying I'm supposed to be giving her salary. Her papa get money o and she works.

Her allowance will be 10% of her income. If she earns nothing, she will get 10% of nothing which is nothing...when she is heavily pregnant she gets 5% of my income.

I go dey feed her regardless but every penny I give her to shop for the house must be accounted for.

Marriage na relationship not a job.

Angelacruz:
She is working for u

How?

She cooks,wash,sweep n even give u sex...she does not wat to lose

GodPunishBiafra:

How?

Angelacruz:
She cooks,wash,sweep n even give u sex...she does not wat to lose

Wrong!
Stop concluding ignorantly.
Apart from the sex WE give each other, I do my things myself MOST times.

We will divide the money into three, for savings, investment and the third we will divide into two... Anything you want, buy yourself

Ok naa

Any amount from his mind...

Make I book space first

Op I never marry but see my number here.
09045154939

GodPunishBiafra:
Why can't they work for their own money?

Naija girls are too lazy and many have annoying entitlement mentality.

Imagine my girl saying I'm supposed to be giving her salary. Her papa get money o and she works.
I'm know she's just jealous of a cousin I give 20k every month. My cousin lost her both parents 2 years ago and I made the pledge...

Continue with your good deeds and may heavens reward you.
Meanwhile, not all Nigerian girls are lazy. I've seen very hard-working ones without the stupid sense of entitlement

ArcFresky:
We will divide the money into three, for savings, investment and the third we will divide into two... Anything you want, buy yourself

Which one will be used for day-to-day running of the family?

GodPunishBiafra:

Wrong!
Stop concluding ignorantly.
Apart from the sex WE give each other, I do my things myself MOST times.

please stay single.

Oga sir, I feel your ignorance. Right from the days of Adam,its the man that suppose to struggle and cater for his family, (he is the provider) while woman struggles in labour room during child birth, those were punishments for Adam's disobedience. Na condition come later make crayfish bend,its condition that made women to hustle and support their husband(its not their duty). The way things are now,its good a woman supports her man but don't abuse her effort or make her feel useless because she's not doing anything.

HeadNigga:
Her allowance will be 10% of her income. If she earns nothing, she will get 10% of nothing which is nothing...when she is heavily pregnant she gets 5% of my income.

I go dey feed her regardless but every penny I give her to shop for the house must be accounted for.

Marriage na relationship not a job.

Angelacruz:
She cooks,wash,sweep n even give u sex...she does not wat to lose

see your mouth

I blame these boys who make you girls feel like they can't live without sex/pussy.

I wish say all guys go comport themselves, una shakara go dissapear

Any amount he thinks is fit for the monthly allowance.. He works for the money, he can as well decides to squander it if he chooses but being a responsible husband and father that he is, he brings it home so whatever he gives me as allowance is highly welcome and appreciated.. If its not enough, I'll just add my widow's mite and keep the home front sailing.

There are alot of other things that needs his attention including utility bills, kids school fees, investments etc so it would be best if the woman understands and work to support the family rather than waiting for the man to shoulder all the responsibilities, in case anytime the man couldn't meet up with the family upkeep, the woman can comfortably support the household till he gets back on his feet again.
Its called a marriage/ union for a reason..
For you guys to work together as a complete unit and in partnership for the betterment of the family

This is insulting.
Allowance is for jobless housewives.

Angelacruz:
She cooks,wash,sweep n even give u sex...she does not wat to lose

give sex?? what a load of BS.

isn't the enjoyment both ways? women loves sex as much as men so quit the shitty talk saying "women gives men sex"

I could recall years ago when my GF tried to seduce me after noticing I haven't made a move on her or requested for sex in the early moments of our relationship, i turned her down as she got desperate for prickin, she got mad at me one day and told me bluntly: shey you know I'm a lady? I have sexual needs fulfilled.
I just smiled and in my mind I was like- another olosho on the beat.


now back to the topic: like someone said, 10% of what she earns. and if she earns nothing, she gets nothing from me. simple! she didn't do any work for me and I don't pick money from the ground. for every 10k I give my siblings and mom, she gets 1k.


and all those mumu chores like- washing plates, taking care of the house is a piece of cake for me as I have been doing my thing myself without needing any help.

so if you want a high class man to take you serious, better get busy and show some hustling traits in you otherwise you'd only keep getting passed around from one nigga to another.

Easybela:
Oga sir, I feel your ignorance. Right from the days of Adam,its the man that suppose to struggle and cater for his family, (he is the provider) while woman struggles in labour room during child birth, those were punishments for Adam's disobedience. Na condition come later make crayfish bend,its condition that made women to hustle and support their husband(its not their duty). The way things are now,its good a woman supports her man but don't abuse her effort or make her feel useless because she's not doing anything.

which labour room?

see you bringing the words of God but couldn't practice what God directed you to do- stay chaste and keep yourself clean.

you mean after dashing your pussies, having your sacred hymens perforated by some random dude, turned a pure hole meant to accommodate clean children into impure filthy place where numerous pricks have swam, and you're here crying blue murder because he wasn't hypnotized by those -he's the provider BS??

lazy entitled oloshos wanting to eat their cake and have it.

nonsense.

Michelle55:
Any amount he thinks is fit for the monthly allowance.. He works for the money, he can as well decides to squander it if he chooses but being a responsible husband and father that he is, he brings it home so whatever he gives me as allowance is highly welcome and appreciated.. If its not enough, I'll just add my widow's mite and keep the home front sailing.

There are alot of other things that needs his attention including utility bills, kids school fees, investments etc so it would be best if the woman understands and work to support the family rather than waiting for the man to shoulder all the responsibilities, in case anytime the man couldn't meet up with the family upkeep, the woman can comfortably support the household till he gets back on his feet again.
Its called a marriage/ union for a reason..
For you guys to work together as a complete unit and in partnership for the betterment of the family

you have done well.

your points are very good.

Allowance for which work? Is it for the sex or am i paying her for companionship which she is the one benefiting the most...... I don't get oooo... I thought they say love is selfless doesn't seek for itself, abi na only in novels and movies e dey only happen? If I have to pay her I rather go get an escort..... Indirectly what op is saying is that love don't exist every relationship is give and take....

Angelacruz:
She cooks,wash,sweep n even give u sex...she does not wat to lose

The guy na wood abi, him no dey give too. You were half-correct until u mentioned this crap.
I pity u if these are all you have to offer, things that all have a saturated market already.

I haven't heard:
- Train the children so you can save the money for school fees
- Bring ideas that will help husband excel in work.
- Or even help herself to make money with minimal stress

Dey there dey deceive yourself, u will replace in a year.

funmisticqueen2:
please stay single.

Will you shut up!

No be your mate be Linda?

Funny people. How many men give allowance money yo their wives? Abi nor be Nigeria be this again? Is it not money for the daily upkeep of the house they drop by month end? Allowance money ni, contribution money ko

Marry a good wife who's financially wise and give her 80% of your salary and you'll be glad you did.


No matter how much you earn and give your wife, if her financial management skill is zero... You're on a very long thing. Longer than Dbanj own.

Easybela:
Oga sir, I feel your ignorance. Right from the days of Adam,its the man that suppose to struggle and cater for his family, (he is the provider) while woman struggles in labour room during child birth, those were punishments for Adam's disobedience. Na condition come later make crayfish bend,its condition that made women to hustle and support their husband(its not their duty). The way things are now,its good a woman supports her man but don't abuse her effort or make her feel useless because she's not doing anything.

Madam, i feel your exposure. So in ur little exposed mind things are still how they were in the days of Adam. I bet you are on trousers right now. I am quite sure u are a feminist coz a true Daughter of Eve would not insult a man especially when a messsage can be passed across without throwing insults.

Now u know the roles of women right? Things have changed Ms. You women clamour for equal rights but don't want equal responsibilities. I see you lack comprehension skills...I did imply that I will take care of my wife. We are discussing allowance here not money for her feeding, clothing and shelter. Na her personal flexing/ choppy choppy money.

Michelle55:
Any amount he thinks is fit for the monthly allowance.. He works for the money, he can as well decides to squander it if he chooses but being a responsible husband and father that he is, he brings it home so whatever he gives me as allowance is highly welcome and appreciated.. If its not enough, I'll just add my widow's mite and keep the home front sailing.

There are alot of other things that needs his attention including utility bills, kids school fees, investments etc so it would be best if the woman understands and work to support the family rather than waiting for the man to shoulder all the responsibilities, in case anytime the man couldn't meet up with the family upkeep, the woman can comfortably support the household till he gets back on his feet again.
Its called a marriage/ union for a reason..
For you guys to work together as a complete unit and in partnership for the betterment of the family

Allowance for what? I thought you were going to ask that question on my behalf.

Decimus:
Allowance for what? I thought you were going to ask that question on my behalf.

For household upkeep na.. Running of the day to day activities in the house or were you thinking its for her to go on a fashion shopping spree?

Op since you said marriage, I will answer you.

If my woman is a house wife, like she takes care of the house and kids and I go out working, I would have to place her on like 10-20k from the 100k, that's after deducting money for house maintenance. She is an adult, she needs money, and frankly since she is taking care of the house she deserves it.

If she is working like I do,which I pray for ( no one wanat a house wife these days), we devide the house work and the financial load. You can't work from 7-4 come back then start running around and I will do the same. Likewise, you can't leave me to pay rent, buy food, take care of the children school fees, it's your family as well as mine.
This sharing however doesn't have to be 50:50, who has more money can carry more but never above (70%) of the load, we can as well buy equipments to help with the chores and the chores should be conditioned to each person's time.

If I marry you and you work earn like 50k and I earn 150k, you must contribute something to the house!