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Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 5:21pm On Jun 08, 2020
I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Kemimarch16(f): 5:24pm On Jun 08, 2020
God will change you

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Emmyloyalty: 5:28pm On Jun 08, 2020
You're suffering from lust. Please see a counselor and quit watching porn.
If I may ask, how old are you?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Rgade: 5:31pm On Jun 08, 2020
It depends on your religious beliefs.
If you are a believer then go for serious deliverance with praying and fasting, coupled with a conscious effort to hate lesbianism cause it's a no no for you no matter what your "feelings" are, infact the holy books believe you are cursed.
But if you are a non believer, then you can remain open minded and keep seeking various opinions.

Disclaimer: what I just delivered isn't expert advice.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by IamDavids: 5:37pm On Jun 08, 2020
You can't change yourself. You have to accept who you are. And being gay doesn't stop you from having kids. There are numerous options. I hope you find true love and be happy with your sexuality.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by mekuso89(m): 5:37pm On Jun 08, 2020
Quit porn for now, that you like lesbian porn movie doesn't guarantee you are lesbian after all every female is a lesbian at heart.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Anthony0094(m): 5:43pm On Jun 08, 2020
and what makes you think we are going to believe you a female?

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by CokeBar(f): 5:44pm On Jun 08, 2020
Awwn!

So you mean absolutely nothing on a man's body excites you? Nothing at all? I mean physically...

To your question... are you physically attracted to ladies? Do you have a lady friend you're attracted to?

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by AmazingELixir: 5:48pm On Jun 08, 2020
cool


Your parents will be very proud of you...you've justified all their expenses on you.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Deltayankeeboi: 5:51pm On Jun 08, 2020
All these rooster and bull stories on Nairaland.
One MOD will now come and push this BS to front page.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Lalasticlalabos(m): 5:55pm On Jun 08, 2020
Kemimarch16:
God will change you

I think she wants you to help her

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 5:55pm On Jun 08, 2020
Deltayankeeboi:
All these rooster and bull stories on Nairaland.

One MOD will now come and push this BS to front page.
This is not a fake story. What do I stand to gain by fabricating this story? Did I direct you to any blog? As you read it did nairaland pay me? I have job. I created this fake account because I don't want anybody to know its me

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 5:57pm On Jun 08, 2020
Kemimarch16:
God will change you
amen o. My mom would be disappointed
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by proff010: 5:58pm On Jun 08, 2020
Quit the porn. That is the genesis of your problem also find a man as time goes on you will be attracted to each other.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:01pm On Jun 08, 2020
AmazingELixir:
cool


Your parents will be very proud of you...you've justified all their expenses on you.
I guess this is sarcasm. Imy parents are actually very proud of me. I work really hard. Have a good job ànd was about to be married. I aam the poster child of a great daughter. However, this is not something they would be proud of. I know this I am seeking for help. You don't need to rub it in. Na wa o

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:04pm On Jun 08, 2020
proff010:
Quit the porn. That is the genesis of your problem also find a man as time goes on you will be attracted to each other.
I would quit the porn. Thank you. I had a guy for more than 5years but this attraction never came. I avoided him all the time
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Kemimarch16(f): 6:05pm On Jun 08, 2020
Lalasticlalabos:

I think she wants you to help her
It is only God that can help
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:06pm On Jun 08, 2020
Emmyloyalty:
You're suffering from lust. Please see a counselor and quit watching porn.
If I may ask, how old are you?
between 25 and 28. I stay in Lagos, is there a counselor you recommend?
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by AmazingELixir: 6:07pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
I guess this is sarcasm. Imy parents are actually very proud of me. I work really hard. Have a good job ànd was about to be married. I aam the poster child of a great daughter. However, this is not something they would be proud of. I know this I am seeking for help. You don't need to rub it in. Na wa o

Baby why are you saying all these...is it a crime for me to acknowledge your honesty as it concern your sexuality.

I'm not critical about people's sexual orientation, infact I think I like you.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:11pm On Jun 08, 2020
AmazingELixir:


Baby why are you saying all these...is it a crime for me to acknowledge your honesty as it concern your sexuality.

I'm not critical about people's sexual orientation, infact I think I like you.
I am sorry I got defensive. I thought you were judging me. I already judge myself�. **Extends hands in peace***
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jun 08, 2020
delkuf:
You are a big fool for saying this
you're the bigger fool

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by luvme0702: 6:13pm On Jun 08, 2020
Yes, you are a lesbian but only you can change that. Just make up your mind about not being one if you don't want to be or go ahead with it if you want to. Stop watching lesbian porn sites and start dating guys you find attractive or simply travel out to where it's accepted and live your life the way you want. Just know that Christianity frowns against it and your loved ones would be hurt by your decision to be one.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:14pm On Jun 08, 2020
Rgade:
It depends on your religious beliefs.
If you are a believer then go for serious deliverance with praying and fasting, coupled with a conscious effort to hate lesbianism cause it's a no no for you no matter what your "feelings" are, infact the holy books believe you are cursed.
But if you are a non believer, then you can remain open minded and keep seeking various opinions.

Disclaimer: what I just delivered isn't expert advice.
I grew up religious but o disagree with a lot of things been preached in churches. But I am open to anything right now. This is how people's lifes gets ruined I already see myself in prison uniform serving 14years
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jun 08, 2020
luvme0702:
Yes, you are a lesbian but only you can change that. Just make up your mind about not being one if you don't want to be or go ahead with it if you want to. Stop watching lesbian porn sites and start dating guys you find attractive or simply travel out to where it's accepted and live your life the way you want. Just know that Christianity frowns against it and your loved ones would be hurt by your decision to be one.
it wasn't a decision mister!
Do you think someone would decide to be a lesbian/gay in a nation that criminalises and frowns against homosexuality??
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by AmazingELixir: 6:17pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:
I am sorry I got defensive. I thought you were judging me. I already judge myself�. **Extends hands in peace***

There's absolutely no reason to judge you my dear...neither do I see how you feel as requiring help.

I don't just want to shake your hands....I just wish it could be a warm hug.

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Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by musa234(m): 6:19pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me
What happened to your boyfriend of almost 5years? Did you dump him? During the period of your relationship with him,did he at any point suspect you to be gay? How did he react? I'll gladly wait for your response to these questions
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:20pm On Jun 08, 2020
CokeBar:
Awwn!

So you mean absolutely nothing on a man's body excites you? Nothing at all? I mean physically...

To your question... are you physically attracted to ladies? Do you have a lady friend you're attracted to?
nothing in there body attracts me. The long organ actually annoys me. Pen*etr*ton is just annoying. (God please forgive me) but I fake enjoying it to make my then boyfriend happy. We had been together for soo long and you could see him trying to please me. I would be dry everywhere. I suggested we watch lesbian porn together and he refused. I understand why o. And yes I am physically attracted to ladies
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:22pm On Jun 08, 2020
musa234:
What happened to your boyfriend of almost 5years? Did you dump him? During the period of your relationship with him,did he at any point suspect you to be gay? How did he react? I'll gladly wait for your response to these questions
he told me I am gay. I never thought of it. I haven't had extensive encounters so I did not know I was. I just know what is pleasing and what is not. Anything inside is not nice. So i ask him to touch me watch lesbian porn with me. All those kind of things. He now said i am gay.
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by Aimerosa25(f): 6:25pm On Jun 08, 2020
girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me
my dear,I feel u should quit the porn,and get your self together these are signs of being a lesbian, but u will overcome by God's grace
Re: Help. I Think I Am Lesbian by girlxxhiddenxx: 6:26pm On Jun 08, 2020
IamDavids:
You can't change yourself. You have to accept who you are. And being gay doesn't stop you from having kids. There are numerous options. I hope you find true love and be happy with your sexuality.
what are the options? My mom would be ashamed of me. I would be an outcast to all the people I love. I would be treated like a freak. Please explain this options

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