tolu328:


He wouldnt even dare trying to go legal. He already has a case with me. I believe promising marriage and defaulting is an offence according to our law. I have too many evidences to nail him on that alone.

paulolee:

haaabaaa...oga lawyer, mr holy holy asif u avnt sin before..said i prefer dating older females because they are more matured and wont mind marrying one..wich wan kum be spirit of gigolo and blackmail again?? abeg no let me talk oo

Leezah:
Honestly ladies have seen hell, this is what girls must pass through before ending up been Mrs ?? But its well.

You will never notice they're married because there's nothing suspicious even in their home.

First one.... The wife was far from him where she's working, and his home looks so much like bachelor's home and I find out through my friend who saw his pictures on my phone one day. I confronted him,he denied it till date.

Second one, The man even promised to marry me not knowing he's already engaged. I found out through his ex gf whom I suspected he was cheating on me with on Facebook. The good aunty revealed everything to me. The funny part is he never posted his so called wife on social media, nor have her pics on phone. He's also single on social media. The ex told me he married the lady because of her money and only go to visit her once in a while because he's still living in his bachelor's house.

Third one, His brother he introduced to me one day started developing feelings for me ooo. Even went to the extent of revealing his brother's secret of being married to one village girl with a kid so I should leave his brother and come to him. I confronted his brother and he didn't even deny it just and also told me that he wish he meet me before the girl and that he's ready to leave her for me. Mehnnnnn I gave up on men since those experience. It really hurts

All of this three are still looking fresh and young. U will never suspect them being engaged let alone married. May God help we ladies oooo

henryhemon:


That's not true. Men don't want drama, obligations, they bullshits most women come with. They also might not want to be committed to anyone, absolutely nothing wrong with it.
They want to be ready, spiritually, emotionally, psychologically, financially before they commit to someone they spend rest of their lives together. Marriages these days are full of bullshits. So you have to take time to choose who you end up with.

humilitypays:
There's nothing bad in a married man having a mistress, that is why there are English names for it:

Mistress
Concubine


Every rich and successful man deserves hot looking mistresses, it's not a crime, all great men in the world even in the Bible had mistresses. No one woman can satisfy the sexual desires of a rich man till death do them part.


My advice to married men is, before you start having mistresses, please make sure you are doing well financially and you are taking very good care of your wife and kids.

Also don't hide your marital status, many ladies don't mind so long as you are also helping them grow in their life and not being clingy and stopping her from finding her own future husband.


Ladies listen, there is no crime in being a mistress to a good and caring married man you like, don't demonise it, this thing is as old as human, it didn't start today and won't end tomorrow.

No single guy can give you the kind of favor and help that will help you grow and attain your dream point in life like married men. How many single men are Governors, President, Senators, Ministers, MDs and CEOs, or own big businesses and companies that can employ Ladies use your brain, don't mind all these boys condemning ladies for dating married men, if they see opportunity to date Aisha Buhari, Regina Daniels, Omotola, etc they will jump at it, they marry old white grannies too for papers, I repeat, ladies use your brain, this life if you follow what people say you may end up wretched for life


How many single guys can give you a good job, or fly you abroad or buy you a car or a house or sponsor your education or help your family financially whenever you call I can tell you none because most single guys are struggling, the ones that are doing well financially are playboys with more than 30 sexier girlfriends, so what's the difference


My sisters if you follow life with wisdom, you will never lose. Don't follow the crowd to condemn being a mistress to a caring, good married man, live your own life, don't let the rules others set define your life, peace

Kenturkey048:
. Baba no answer anybody ...Na the same train carry me and you....the person I dey relationship with now senior me with considerable age....

But I love her scatter because she thinks maturely ....

awumen:
he never looked back?such a man. God that has strengthen you this far, will continue to uphold you and that child will be greater than you in 100 folds.

boyjo:


You would advise your daughter to take this advice? To be someone's mistress?
May she take it as you have encouraged other people's daughter to take it.

paulolee:

dts no fcking possible..call her and send almost a million dt she doesnt need back to her?? abi u go send me the money or mk i gv u her aza mk u send to her urself?? can't do dt even if i have the money because she doesn't need it

berrystunn:


You are on your own Remember what I told you Is an exchange for something.. you just have to free your self from it.

Lamanii22:



God forbid! I reject it In Jesus' name... I've never collected any goodies from a married man so therefore my husband would not do the same....

luminouz:



Alaye,can you even hear yourself? Make he call a woman who cheated on her husband and returned her money back...his mental state and trauma suffered nko? Can she heal that? Who told you she was angry at all? A woman who still wants him back only if he is willing. And what's the bullshit about water spirits? Are you high on something smokey?

The thread is not about money so why you so pained berrymouse or whatever you call yourself

The way you lots give advice bore dafuq outta me. No logical reasoning capabilities at all.

Amanda4life:




SELFISH MEN, THEY WILL LOOK YOUNG AND FRESH WHILE THEIR WIVES WILL BE LOOKING LIKE HOUSEHELPS.


NO FEELINGS FOR THE WIFE ANY MORE.

WHEN THEY COME BACK HOME THEIR DICK WILL BE LIKE OVER RIPPED AGRIC BOLE /PLANTAIN

deavicky:
three times!!! There must be something about u that attracts married men.

Atlanticfire:


Do you really blame the men?

With what you are packing in that your profile picture even some men with 4 wives may claim that they are single just to get you.

Hanty just get married so that married men will have less temptation

KoolBigk:
Ahn ahn! Tosin, person can't even joke with you again. you brought our private matter here. I'm twins, it's my twin brother & his wife you saw on the facebook profile

LabDNA:


Abeg how do you search for people on facebook with their digits..

I need to track one fraudster like that.

Kenturkey048:


JESUUUS.

You tooo fine I swear ....... I swear if na me...I fit divorce my wife for you....one lady wey get your body shape for my area....I wan use cutting eye kill her...

Damntruth:
it is well with chair woman

saxxyb:



Please teach me how to check someone on Facebook with their digits

ZINIBANKS:

You too see wetin you carry for back
If am married and I see you that very moment am not married again

Starz825:

Don't fear men only...fear all human beings!!

juniorstar:


forgive me dat what caught my attention is your supossed guys friend dat snitched on him...i dont do such ...for my relationship to last i had to detect snitches from a mile and shut them out.

LyfeJennings:


U should have been calm enough to listen to him
So because he's married means he can't find happiness in another woman's arm?

Mypeople2:
Babes matter tire me.Someone is driving a Sienna car and you are saying you didn't know he is married.Is Sienna car not a family car ?

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

OBelz:
Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal
I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha













During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)

He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.

Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.

He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them.

Dobson43:





The guy liked you

FatCock:
You are as guilty as the man the moment you engaged in pre-marital sex..

Zoie:

Fvck him.
That's how one guy kept disturbing me from 100l to 400l that he likes me, want to marry me. Found out in 300l that he's married with a child.

If you want a babe, you'll get a babe, married or no. Why lie? Some ladies don't even care. But these fvckers go for decent ladies, probably virgins, lie that he's still single because he knows she'll not date a married man.
Scum of the earth, I tell ya.