Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by OriOko88(m): 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Luckygurl: Yeah! We met in February at my former ppa. We got talking and he said he likes me and would want us to date. I visited him once. I just found it hard to believe that a handsome comfortable guy like him was single, asked him a couple of times and he insisted he was single.
Just as I was about saying a yes to him, the FBI part of me decided to ask questions and dig deep. My informant told me he was married with two kids abroad. I confronted him and he says he got married to a white for papers during his school days and he has a daughter from the union.
I halted everything at once. Not cos he was once married or had a child but because he kept away that info from me and even when I had to ask he didn't see it as a big deal.
So now! I'm back to the drawing board You go tey for that drawing board oo 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by colossus91(m): 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Relationships these days are just overrated maybe cos I'm yet to meet the special someone.....Modern relationships are lie ridden even singles just wont come out clean!! 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
pocohantas:
Professionally, I have interactions with married men. One even bought me lunch last week. What I won’t do is knowingly date a married man. What am I using him for? Money? There are many rich single guys na. |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Anwons(m): 2:29pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Hmmm, having read some responses on this thread by ladies and how they eventually ended their relationship with married men on discovery, a question comes to my mind for them(ladies). If you all ended the relationship, how come there are still lot of ladies dating married men knowingly? Or, those ones no dey nairaland here?
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Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Fearcom(m): 2:32pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
I smell hypocrisy here.
This life is made up of the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Ladies are never truthful with their love and sex lives/history because of what society, religion and peer pressure will say.
Lots of married Men are telling ladies straight up that they're married and many ladies aren't finding any qualms with that.
I know what I'm talking about.
Let's NOT pretend it has become a norm. Let's NOTalso pretend that if you're sleeping with someone you're NOT MARRIED to (fornication), you're also in the SAME boat with them as both single are married are sleeping with those they're not married to. 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Engrr(m): 2:33pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Why on earth should I tell any lady that I am not married knowing that 99.99% will still follow you knowing that you are married!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Unrated900(m): 2:33pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
@Op you will say I dated a single man and later found out he is married Stop whining our brains here A lot has been happening quovik 19 |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OriOko88: This should hv been men's thread, it would hv been so funny. But our ladies aren't expressive here. Only few would talk. They're re not like their South African counterparts who no dey mince words. You know any south African forum weh de like nairaland? Make I go read their stories for myself 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by pocohantas(f): 2:35pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Incel:
But I saw it somewhere where you said you're a mother to an undergraduate student. I don't want to believe you're a single mother because you always potray yourself as a very classy lady who doesn't settle for any rubbish.
So tell me, are you married ma?
I'm a fan by the way, even though I don't know what you look like This is how you people twist posts. I have a dependent. Another classy person marry and born, I am single and a sponsor. What is unclassy about being a single mother? What is unclassy about giving a child a chance to live? Smh! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Anwons: Hmmm, having read some responses on this thread by ladies and how they eventually ended their relationship with married men on discovery, a question comes to my mind for them(ladies). If you all ended the relationship, how come there are still lot of ladies dating married men knowingly? Or, those ones no dey nairaland here?
Lady Angels in Nairaland 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by OriOko88(m): 2:37pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Incel:
You know any south African forum weh de like nairaland? Make I go read their stories for myself Not really. I only get to read their comments on twitter. |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Femeto: 2:38pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OBelz: Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha
During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)
He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.
Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.
He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them. You no add the nacking part. Oloju kokoro. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by extremelygolden: 2:40pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Offpoint: Yeah, when I finally found out that was when the relationship gets sweeter. I started giving styles I never gave him before. Huh? |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by OriOko88(m): 2:42pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
pocohantas: A married man that has been hitting on me just named his newborn child after me.
I guess he wants me to know how much he “loves” me, but I am very concerned and worried about the number of women calling their daughters the name of their husband’s sidechick.
May God help us in this marriage something.
They keep taking this thing to the next level. Lol. You con mention the hitting part on you as if he's been digging hard on you 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
pocohantas:
This is how you people twist posts. I have a dependent. Another classy person marry and born, I am single and a sponsor.
What is unclassy about being a single mother? What is unclassy about giving a child a chance to live? Smh! Poco, no be fight na. I just wanted to clear my doubts. The way I rate you on this forum, even you yourself you'll be surprised. |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OriOko88:
Not really. I only get to read their comments on twitter. Oh, aiit. I don't do twitter |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by deavicky(m): 2:43pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
QuinModah: It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.
So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer. lol 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by folake4u(f): 2:44pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by nappy760(m): 2:44pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
I am sure many but not all of the ladies who had this experiences had something in common......greed them like matured, ready made men, another woman's labour... I don't pity any of them because even a blind person deep down inside would know that these men have relationship histories.(married or baby daddy) If a man is good in bed and knows how to take care of a woman you think he brought it from heaven? 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by OriOko88(m): 2:44pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
GOFRONT: I go soon join the league of married men going after single ladies' kpekus....It'd be a sweet adventure if only these single fresh ladies would Co operate....
And I bet my left oval ball in my scrotal sac that no Lady...I mean no single lady will have a knowledge of my Wife and Kids.. Egungun be careful. Your wife could kill you if she catches you cheating. Remember Marian Sanders case. Ladies no dey get joy when it comes to cheating 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Damntruth(m): 2:44pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
IyaTola: Not almost.We met on facebook as usual.We have been speaking for about three months. I usually travel to go shop for my store.You will never see a trace of this man anywhere.
He even said he wanted us to relocate to another country, but I notice he hardly pick his calls late at night .But i will be wondering, he will give me one excuse or the other.
So I went to Lagos we were suppose to meet up.I lodge myself In a hotel,I got into lagos so late.This guy said he was coming,today tomorrow I have not seen him.
So I came on my Facebook,on my message request i saw a lady have been dropping messages to me.She even added me on Facebook .Come and see message,I read the message then went on her page. Oga is married with two kids and another one on the way.The woman started calling my Number. She told me how she is pregnant the guy will not respect her. How he gave her STD. I was so lost ,don't even know how to console her over the phone.She said she got my number from her husband phone.
After that call she said she want to be my friend that I'm a nice person.I just block her so called husband including her.She even added me with another Facebook again.That made me put up a bio on my Facebook. After that rubbish.
Second experience I almost oo hmmmm, Mr man lied he wasn't married and he was seeking for a serious relationship. Myself i just came in to the states of recent b4 he approached me. But my ex thought me something on how to check on someone via Facebook with their digits. So, that taught came to my mind and i decided to give it a trial. Loo and behold Mr was with his so called wife on profile pics. At first i was like..., why will this man lie for not being married� or is he a divorcee... But he never said so to me. Next thing i did was to chat a lady who was always tagging him in her Post and this lady looks like the lady he was with on his Profile pix. I chatted her, we got talking i asked her if she knows the man, shockingly to me she admitted being his wife and the MR man has 4 grown Kids. Iyameeee oo church dismissed that was how i sent him a message telling him to please go and take care of his family oo. Mr man Got shocked and AHAHHHH TOSIN TOSIN.... Till now he still claiming to be single, even after i saw his Facebook account, this guy still claim it was because of travelling he did the wedding, promising Heaven and Earth,he would come to place late hour claiming if he was married how would he be staying out late....... Men Men Men some of them Devil is just learning from them. Chai. it is well with chair woman 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Justbehave(m): 2:46pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Decimus: Even the title of the thread should be. Ladies, at what point did you realise you were dating a married man.
Of course sex and even abortion must be involved, but it's not like they will say it here.
The truth is that most of them are aware, but they only back out when they get threatened or get scared. E be like say all the whole ladies for nairaland na angels ? See plenty lies. Non gree say the married man fuckam. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by pocohantas(f): 2:47pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Incel:
Poco, no be fight na. I just wanted to clear my doubts. The way I rate you on this forum, even you yourself you'll be surprised. I never said it is fight. I don’t know why, whenever I type without emoticons, people think I am being too serious. OriOko88:
Lol. You con mention the hitting part on you as if he's been digging hard on you Lol. No pun intended at all. He was pretty straightforward, said he wanted to marry me. At least he didn’t lie and I appreciate that. |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by OriOko88(m): 2:48pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Hezmatosky: Am on my way out of nairaland to dollarland, there's no more seriousness news here Take him along abeg. Anything about money I'm in |
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Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by deavicky(m): 2:49pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by meowcape(m): 2:49pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Kenturkey048(m): 2:50pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
IyaTola: Not almost.We met on facebook as usual.We have been speaking for about three months. I usually travel to go shop for my store.You will never see a trace of this man anywhere.
He even said he wanted us to relocate to another country, but I notice he hardly pick his calls late at night .But i will be wondering, he will give me one excuse or the other.
So I went to Lagos we were suppose to meet up.I lodge myself In a hotel,I got into lagos so late.This guy said he was coming,today tomorrow I have not seen him.
So I came on my Facebook,on my message request i saw a lady have been dropping messages to me.She even added me on Facebook .Come and see message,I read the message then went on her page. Oga is married with two kids and another one on the way.The woman started calling my Number. She told me how she is pregnant the guy will not respect her. How he gave her STD. I was so lost ,don't even know how to console her over the phone.She said she got my number from her husband phone.
After that call she said she want to be my friend that I'm a nice person.I just block her so called husband including her.She even added me with another Facebook again.That made me put up a bio on my Facebook. After that rubbish.
Second experience I almost oo hmmmm, Mr man lied he wasn't married and he was seeking for a serious relationship. Myself i just came in to the states of recent b4 he approached me. But my ex thought me something on how to check on someone via Facebook with their digits. So, that taught came to my mind and i decided to give it a trial. Loo and behold Mr was with his so called wife on profile pics. At first i was like..., why will this man lie for not being married� or is he a divorcee... But he never said so to me. Next thing i did was to chat a lady who was always tagging him in her Post and this lady looks like the lady he was with on his Profile pix. I chatted her, we got talking i asked her if she knows the man, shockingly to me she admitted being his wife and the MR man has 4 grown Kids. Iyameeee oo church dismissed that was how i sent him a message telling him to please go and take care of his family oo. Mr man Got shocked and AHAHHHH TOSIN TOSIN.... Till now he still claiming to be single, even after i saw his Facebook account, this guy still claim it was because of travelling he did the wedding, promising Heaven and Earth,he would come to place late hour claiming if he was married how would he be staying out late....... Men Men Men some of them Devil is just learning from them. Chai. JESUUUS. You tooo fine I swear ....... I swear if na me...I fit divorce my wife for you.... one lady wey get your body shape for my area....I wan use cutting eye kill her... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by ehmmy11(m): 2:51pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OriOko88:
Don't mind them, na because of those goodies and gifts they collect from men No be lie bro |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by golddare: 2:53pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OBelz: Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha
During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)
He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.
Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.
He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them. Bad schild. |
Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by pasol4real(m): 2:55pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
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