shawnfamous:
I love tall girls too. I met a girl about my height 6"2... she was happy she finally got someone her height.. so I was. but at the end I discovered that she wasn't very intelligent, maybe I expected too much.

I didn't see u talk about Her intelligence.. just a good job and physical appearance.. Find these inner things too to compliment the physical...

[b]meanwhile why would a girl b short and still doesn't have Ass.. [/quot[/b]e]

Exactly lol... I don't want to give too much away but I mean she's PERFECT. But sexual attraction is also important to me. I am not saying she should be that tall and big ass, average height and ass is ok. At least something to touch.

[quote author=Gaggi post=90580158]Why not ask any of your elderly male relatives? Most people here are kids and wouldn't know.

Thanks, I observe. Opinions are divided, some believe those attributes I am looking for are trivial while a few would say leave her.

Kobicove:


It's not always a good idea compromising on some attributes you want in a partner but also be aware that it's not possible to meet someone who has 100% of the qualities you desire!

I am not even looking for 100% . Some girls are average height with average ass and that's very ok

SweetCunt97:
Well, there's always ass pad and high heels.

Which won't solve anything.

Phenomenal16:
If u know that u don't love her enough to be ur wife
Pls leave her alone
E get y
Don't go and suffer someboris pikin......sbdy that will love every part of her is coming.....
Go for ur spec

Where soffer enter this story?

Bornfool:


Na me won collect her number now , you no go fii manage d girl

grow up

funshint:
You don't deserve that girl. Please let her go so that you can both end up meeting your desires. Don't waste her time!

agreed

SweetCunt97:
Well, there's always ass pad and high heels.

Shey she go still wear am for bedroom..

I’ll go for Jada Fire.

Mraphel:

Nyomi banx

Well we cant eat our cake and have it same time.


Please go with what you want in a woman. If you know outside this you wont regret latter go for her.

Go for what you love to see every morning for the rest of your life.

Go for sincere love and attraction.

Impostor:
Another thread from me again.

Hello everyone,

This is a very important issues and I would love to seek people's opinion on this. I don't think she knows about Nairaland so I will share and delete later.

Lately I have been dating with the intention of getting married but I don't think I have found the one. However, among the few ladies around me, there's this particular one that is perfect. I mean perfect. She's homely, caring and I really like her but the problem is I love two things in women:
A bit of ass - average or big ass & I don't find short girls attractive. I prefer average height to tall girls. I'm average height.

I don't know why but as far as I can remember I have always find tall ladies attractive or at least average height. Sometimes I am with this lady and in my mind I will be unhappy with her height and ass. She sometimes wear things that makes her height deficiency obvious.

She's 5ft.4, good job, family. She's just perfect and I really like her. This girl is every man's dream but I can't seem to look past the height. I tell myself, guy just manage, overlook these things but I keep having double mind.

I am still searching but I keep wondering if it is safe for me to just go with this lady despite the ass and height issue. I know these things would sound trivial and childish but we all have things we admire in the opposite sex. Even if I will overlook ass but height...

Please Nairalanders and married folks, is it ok to compromise on things you admire in the opposite sex when it comes to marriage? Afterall Nigerian women always get fat after marriage so even the ass may not be important then.

I would really appreciate your advice cos she has made it clear she's looking for a husband sensing that I won't marry her.

Is it childish thinking about ass size and height in marriage? Shouldn't I prioritize her homely and good character over those physical attributes? Pls advise

you are not yet ready for marriage,when you are then you let her know and do the right thing plus stop wasting her time

anthonyuncle:
do not marry someone that u ain't sexually attracted to,

it's very important

As if people that got married to ladies ,they were sexually attracted to aren't cheating or having issues in their relationship.

Impostor:
Another thread from me again.

Hello everyone,

This is a very important issues and I would love to seek people's opinion on this. I don't think she knows about Nairaland so I will share and delete later.

Lately I have been dating with the intention of getting married but I don't think I have found the one. However, among the few ladies around me, there's this particular one that is perfect. I mean perfect. She's homely, caring and I really like her but the problem is I love two things in women:
A bit of ass - average or big ass & I don't find short girls attractive. I prefer average height to tall girls. I'm average height.

I don't know why but as far as I can remember I have always find tall ladies attractive or at least average height. Sometimes I am with this lady and in my mind I will be unhappy with her height and ass. She sometimes wear things that makes her height deficiency obvious.

She's 5ft.4, good job, family. She's just perfect and I really like her. This girl is every man's dream but I can't seem to look past the height. I tell myself, guy just manage, overlook these things but I keep having double mind.

I am still searching but I keep wondering if it is safe for me to just go with this lady despite the ass and height issue. I know these things would sound trivial and childish but we all have things we admire in the opposite sex. Even if I will overlook ass but height...

Please Nairalanders and married folks, is it ok to compromise on things you admire in the opposite sex when it comes to marriage? Afterall Nigerian women always get fat after marriage so even the ass may not be important then.

I would really appreciate your advice cos she has made it clear she's looking for a husband sensing that I won't marry her.

Is it childish thinking about ass size and height in marriage? Shouldn't I prioritize her homely and good character over those physical attributes? Pls advise

CLEARLY You have no understanding about the meaning of PERFECTION...

you sound very confused. You don't know what exactly you want; PERFECTION, BIG ASS OR HEIGHT...

You should be more concerned of her Christian life not things that does not matter.

Ohhhhh, Nairaland guys have started o.
Don't advice him to stay naw, let him clear road make another man see the girl naw.
Haba.
Shebi one man's food is another man's poison.

shawnfamous:


meanwhile why would a girl b short and still doesn't have Ass..

i tire ooo...most short girls i have seen are always blessed with a big backside..its even tall girls that tend to lack ass except a minute few.

hylyne:

As if people that got married to ladies ,they were sexually attracted to aren't cheating or having issues in their relationship.

if they can do that,

imagine what they'll do it they weren't sexually attracted to them

But wait o
op what attracted you to her in the first place since she is not ur specs or did u smell her perfection miles away.

That said while physical attraction is important also know you can't have it all.

The question is which is more important to
you?
A lady with a perfect figure or one with a perfect character.
One way or the other you're gonna have to compromise on one,can't have both equally.

Reading through most comments, it seems physical attraction does not really count in marriage. So all you need is the inner character? Strange how we reason. Just marry the character?

Op, although you're due for marriage, you're still a kid. I would advice you suspend this marriage of a thing and grow up first. That is to avoid stories that touches.

In my years of experience, I have learnt that physical appearance matters only for a while.

It will get to a stage where that ass and tallness starts to mean nothing. When you sleep and wake up with her everyday, the thrills and excitement you derive from that ass or tallness would evaporate.

Overall, the only thing that will determine if you will have a happy marriage or not is character. If she has a nice character, I would advice you go ahead. Overlook the ass and height, do you love her? If you don't, let her go.

Ass and tallness that would give you High BP is not worth it!

Peace!

dyfaze:
Oga learn to tolerate Ladies because they're managing us too. Who's perfect ? This particular lady you're talking about must have overlooked many things on you just to settle down, Now you're complaining about height, ass and bre*st, Are you a porn star?. You're Lucky to have that gul or may be you don't know that other guys are chasing her. One man's food.. Well some guys always giving ridiculous excuse whenever they're done and dusted with a lady. DM me her number, let me assess her height for u... and you can keep searching..

Don't mind him... Wish that lady will see this post.. ND his name will b sorry....

Intend to marry my gf... Dou sh is very dark which wasn't my childhood fantasy.. But gosh! Sh is close to perfect with qualities... I compromised. Same way sh is choosing me over plenty, docs, pharma guyz, working abroad guyz..... Well I will say sh sacrifice more sef... Cuz I no get money.......
Hey! Don't go there sh isn't old oo.. Just 25..so it's not desperation.. Just love

Never overlook the ass, never go full retard.

Don't marry who you are not attracted to, it will end in tears and you cheating on her. If you like big ass and breast ladies, look for your type and save someone's daughter the embarrassment.

Op u are confused man

Chia guys Sha can never be satisfied, u find a good girl u complain no height, u find d one with height but she is isn't good enough, what do u want gan sef, please ooo leave dt girl don't marry her to avoid stories when married, continue looking for ur miss perfect, I repeat don't marry her

you never ready to marry

Who marriage epp sef una mate dey do invention all over the world.

Nigeria youth is sxx and marriage. No wonder una country dey populate more and more

HenryDion:
Op, although you're due for marriage, you're still a kid. I would advice you suspend this marriage of a thing and grow up first. That is to avoid stories that touches.

In my years of experience, I have learnt that physical appearance matters only for a while.

It will get[b] to a stage where that ass and tallness starts to mean nothing. When you sleep and wake up with her everyday, the thrills and excitement you derive from that ass or tallness would evaporate.[/b]

Overall, the only thing that will determine if you will have a happy marriage or not is character. If she has a nice character, I would advice you go ahead. Overlook the ass and height, do you love her? If you don't, let her go.

Ass and tallness that would give you High BP is not worth it!

Peace!

Thank you, I think I agree with you here @ bolded. I am matured just seeking opinion

Dude, because she has a good job and she is from a decent family is not enough reason for you to wife her. Don't marry someone that you are not genuinely attracted to...e get why?
It won't be nice to discover that you're smashing your voluptuous househelp in future.

Please anyone know how I can delete a topic? I can't seem to find delete anywhere