Sometimes I don't get, you guys married you love each other but You beat your wife, she in turns reciprocate.. Is love lost after marriage??

Apart from being married, a neighbor friend of mine and his gf fight sometimes.. If it was just an abuse, it would have been okay but it is always physical... The lady can curse and the guy too is not sensible at all, he will lock door and start beating her.... I don't talk with the lady coz I don't like her personally but I hate the fact that the guy beats her... The mumu lady too is living with him and they ain't married.... In the late night, they will fight and in the morning, they will be laughing..

I am just bothered, though I don't like the lady but I feel so bad when I hear them fighting and I hear her voice of pain.. She wouldn't leave, they will still laugh again... As in physical fight oooo, I am not happy at all

Why do couple in marriage engage in physical fight??

ProfDview1:
Sometimes I don't get, you guys married you love each other but You beat your wife, she in turns reciprocate.. Is love lost after marriage??


Why do couple in marriage engage in physical fight??

Maybe is because, as they say "there is a thin line between love and hate".
The thing self dey surprise me sometimes.

Because love, maturity and compatibility aren't the same.

ProfDview1:
Sometimes I don't get, you guys married you love each other but You beat your wife, she in turns reciprocate.. Is love lost after marriage??


Why do couple in marriage engage physical fight??

The only way to keep marriage as peaceful as possible is for couple to always pray together and respect each other.

The fight among couples in not ordinary. little things that could be overlook are most times the cause of the fights. it's only God that can make our homes peaceful.

There's no way two people can live together without having occasional disagreements, except one or both of them are hiding their true characters. The issue is, people have different ways of resolving conflict

Makeup sex always passionate. Mayb that's why.

Any lady who tolerates such nonsense from boyfriend she lives with simply has nothing going on for her and hence gotta manage her sorry situation until sense enters her medulla

LOVE... a word used by two fools to deceive themselves.

Because they have a twisted and misguided understanding of what love is.

Well, na crazeee dey the heads of both the beater and beatee.

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the truth is many people lack the understanding of how to handle things which is called maturity. no matter how you love your husband or wife, a time will come where you will dislike your spouse for no reason or irritate you. the ability to handle to it is what many people lack

It’s because of control, usually most couples want to control their second half. This is as a result of dependency. If you depend on something for your happiness, you tend to want to control the situation all the time. Once it isn’t in your control you become unhappy.

That’s why you see someone get angry because his wife didn’t sweep or do the dishes, when he can very well just do it. You see women get angry because their man did not grant their financial request etc.

Solution - Your happiness depends on you alone. If you don’t like something your partner does. Your two options are;

1. Accept the situation
2. Let them know you don’t like it, if they can’t change, walk out of the relationship.

You can’t fight them to change. Getting angry only makes you age faster and opens you up to lot of sicknesses.

ProfDview1:
Sometimes I don't get, you guys married you love each other but You beat your wife, she in turns reciprocate.. Is love lost after marriage??

Apart from being married, a neighbor friend of mine and his gf fight sometimes.. If it was just an abuse, it wud av been okay but it is always physical... The lady can curse and the guy too is not sensible at all, he will lock door and start beating her.... I don't talk with the lady coz I don't like her personally but I hate the fact that the guy beats her... The mumu lady too is living with him and they ain't married.... In the late night, they will fight and in the morning, they will be laughing..

I am just bothered, though I don't like the lady but I feel so bad when I hear them fighting and I hear her voice of pain.. She wunt leave, they will still laugh again... As in physical fight oooo, I am not happy at all




Why do couple in marriage engage in physical fight??


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In life anything new will get old,sunny day becomes dark, fiery fire becomes ashes,bouncy boobs becomes saggy and pretty face becomes wrinkled. That's life, people change, things change, nothing last forever.

...because it takes more than love to make a marriage/relationship work.

Love is War

Because love is not enough.

ProfDview1:
Sometimes I don't get, you guys married you love each other but You beat your wife, she in turns reciprocate.. Is love lost after marriage??

Apart from being married, a neighbor friend of mine and his gf fight sometimes.. If it was just an abuse, it wud av been okay but it is always physical... The lady can curse and the guy too is not sensible at all, he will lock door and start beating her.... I don't talk with the lady coz I don't like her personally but I hate the fact that the guy beats her... The mumu lady too is living with him and they ain't married.... In the late night, they will fight and in the morning, they will be laughing..

I am just bothered, though I don't like the lady but I feel so bad when I hear them fighting and I hear her voice of pain.. She wunt leave, they will still laugh again... As in physical fight oooo, I am not happy at all




Why do couple in marriage engage in physical fight??


Pocohantas angelEmade gboyegaD davash222


Cc: royalroy Seun Lalasticlala. Abeg front page

hmmm u have to speak to her.... Her smiles might be a decoy....she might be dying inside. Don't avoid her cuz u dislike her...she might need help!

Why do friends engage in physical fight

If you ask me.. Na who I go ask?

The worst is that if u want to separate them, they will use u settle their matter and rekindle their love

Nack back to back self
I do enjoy watching them fight themselves into coma

That happens when the love has faded

Some stupid people accept domestic violence as part of love

T o T. Hole

People really need to understand the word love before using it.
You will see confused people using the word love.

Tho I am married but I am here to read comments

Lol. I laughed at the part where OP said they will fight at night and be laughing together in the morning

Well, what I can I say, I am not married. But I once lived with a girl during NYSC, and we disagreed a lot. We were friends for a whole six months, living in the same school compound without fight, but when we decided to live together under the same roof, fight started (not physical fight...just arguments). I guess two people can't live together without some form of disagreement at some point...it is just human nature, and love can't stop it. But I don't like couples that get physical though.

Fightung is part of the love na.. lol..

Anyway I have kids educational tablets at very affordable price .. let the kids learn as they play

it is simple love wasn't involved at first just list

angelEmade:

hmmm u have to speak to her.... Her smiles might be a decoy....she might be dying inside. Don't avoid her cuz u dislike her...she might need help!

Trust MI.. She doesn't need any help... She sef na runz girl.... Person dt indirectly insulted me tonight but I just forget.... Sometimes she fit go out to meet man, when she come back, that one go dey question am, she too go fire back, na fight again..... This same guy was fvcking her and her former roommates ooo.. They suspected dt the guy is fvcking d both of them but the guy will be lying dt he is not.... Las las, she n her frnd fight.... D girl come kuku kon dey stay with the guy.


I have discovered that ignoring people's rants is the best way to deal with them... I don't even eat her food coz she is arrogant, too much curses... Chai.. Forget it dear


D lady can curse ehnmmmm

Very rude and sassy but I am only concerned with the way the guy beats her......

I feel as if I shud be happy but I am not even though I don't like her